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it's finals time and i feel like this
Perhaps this is what the stories meant when they called somebody heartsick. Your heart and your stomach and your whole insides felt empty and hollow and aching.
Gabriel García Márquez
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Can I ask for advice?
How do I make friends in college? (I feel like this is such a dumb question, and it comes naturally to everyone, but I'm facing some issues) at the beginning of the year I got acquainted with 2-3 classmates and we became friends (at least I thought we were) one of them confronted me and said something to the meaning of hey I don't think we can be friends anymore, you're not a bad person or anything, we're just not compatible. Since then I (understandably) started hanging out with her less, and as a result drifted away from the others.
(As a reminder, I'm not asking to fix our relationship, just for some advice on how to make/maintain new ones (either now or when I start a new term))
Thank you in advance :)
OMG
I never saw this. i´m sorry :(((
my first language is not english, so sorry if there are any spelling or grammar mistakes
According to what you tell me, I think the most probable thing is that u weren´t compatible with them but hopefully that doesn't discourage you.
College is a place where there are a lot of diversity people and there will always be someone who will be compatible with u.
My advice is to enroll in courses or workshops that u like or are interested in, you´'ll be able to hang out with people with similar interest and you'll have time to get to know each other. Also, I don't know what it'll be like where u live, but what I do a lot is interact through social media and slowly form a friendly bond, ofc u have to start with small interactions.
Something that helped me a lot to make friends when I started university was daring to talk first with people who seemed friendly or who were lonely like me :)
I know that soon you'll find friends that u are compatible with, in fact, I hope that u already have.
Good luck!! srry if I wasn't that helpful :(
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