#you won't be every woman's cup of tea. but if you are your unique self then you'll eventually meet women who like you for who you are
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If I was still in the "dating men" scene, I would start telling guys who complain that they can't get women to notice them that they should customize their character design more and add more interesting lore to their dialogue options
#get an earring or something#grow out your hair#get an interesting tattoo#or a signature vibe in your clothing#and then get friends and interesting hobbies you can tell women about as they get to know you#I'm like kinda joking#but i do think that#while women are individuals and can't be reduced to generalizations#many women are more interested in men who obviously have something going on in their lives#and who seem like they've done the bare minimum of self reflection required to decide on some way to alter their appearance#do you have hobbies. do you have interests. do you have friends. do you have things in your life that are important to you#i think a lot of times when guys are like 'what do women want' they are trying to present with the broadest possible appeal#but imho that comes across as just. boring#you won't be every woman's cup of tea. but if you are your unique self then you'll eventually meet women who like you for who you are#any guy can have a 6 pack and a white bread personality#but not every guy will be someone i feel comfortable sharing my niche interests with#anyway before anyone asks. i am taken. go find someone else#video games#dating#etc idk
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📜 Your Spirit Guides and How They Communicate — an intuitive reading
Our spirit guides work tirelessly to guide us on our path. They may be ancestors, deceased loved ones from present or past lives or beings who have a unique connection with us. They very often work in the background and communicate in vague ways like signs, dreams, gut feelings, etc. There are different kinds of guides like those who will stay with us from our birth to death, those who will only be around for a phase of our lives and those who are there just for a duty, like to impart a message. Please note that what you'll read here are guides who willingly came forward to introduce themselves and might or might not constitute all of your guides.
Picture sources 1 ✦ 2 ✦ 3 ✦ 4 ✦ 5 ✦ 6
Sky 1 — Red Lava
Cards drawn: Write a Gratitude List
Who are your spirit guides?
Woodsy energy. Practical. Artistic. Tattoos on arm. Action-oriented. They give practical advice and are very motivating. I keep getting a feeling of woman working in car mechanic, being fiercely independent and self assured. They do not care what others think of them because they refuse to adhere to others' standards. They refused to fit in with society's expectation and those who'd rather put others down than lift others up. They feel you should do the same. When you feel rage rising up from within you in the face of unfairness it is them telling you that you do not deserve being shamed. It is them communicating their support. To receive their messages they advise you to write a journal and let your emotions out with writing. Don't try to plan what words you write. Just let it out like roaring waves. Reread your journal after. The words that you feel most drawn to, you'll know that those are their messages to you.
Their message for you:
"Stay strong. We have your back."
Sky 2 — Honour
Card drawn: Chanting
Your guides have yellowish orange aura. They are wise, enlightened and ascended. They come to you with messages of spiritual enlightenment and helping you find your path, so that you may in turn help others. They communicate by thought projection, that means projecting thoughts into your mind. If at times you suddenly get thoughts or inspiration that you normally wouldn't think of then it's very likely from them. They also communicate in signs and syncronicities. If you see synchronicities in your life and get a sudden knowing that they mean this or that without knowing how you know it, then it's from them. I see the swan and pelican as animals they represent themselves.
Their message for you:
"Know that patience is like a blooming flower. It requires watering and loving care, or else it wilts. On the other side of patience is rage you do not wish to cross."
Sky 3 — We Come With Wings
Card drawn: Make an Altar
Feminine energy. Devotional energy. Very spiritual. Your guides enjoy floral perfumes that smell natural. They also really like fresh flowers and enjoy joining you in meditation. They communicate with feelings. For example they may envelop you in love energy so that you feel loved and safe, they surround you with energy of love and protection so that you are protected and energised. They enjoy flying and floating. They have very cheerful energy, aligned with the energy of love and blessings. They are not exactly angels but are similar in their energy and actions. On choosing photo name I feel they really resonate with the song Wings by Little Mix.
Their message for you:
"Enjoy and cherish each and every blessing coming your way, even hardships. You never know which ones may lead you to the highway. They might feel like a highway to hell at first hehehe~"
Sky 4 — Socks and Spoons
Card drawn: Use Your Hands
I get the energy of house spirits from this card. House spirits are spirits of the household who make the house their home. They are benevolent and helpful. They have been watching over you since "you were a kiddo" (in their own words). They are very hands-on and enjoy crafting and making their own things, helping around the house, helping you and “the other living humans” have a “cozy home to rest in”. They're humorous although they won't agree with that. This is just their personality and they don't know why or how they could be considered warm, funny or kind. They feel that it's their duty to help you in the small ways they can and not something that warrants a thank you, so if you wanna thank them just leave them a small cup of coffee or tea (with sugar!) and that will be it, or some offerings of your food, but don't do it too frequently or they will not accept it, because they feel it's their job to "serve you".
They expressed that they'd love to join in when you cook to "offer some tips if you will", and also any hands-on crafts like gardening and mending socks. They feel really drawn to the orange flowers on that picture so I chose it ;)
Their message to you:
"We are not your traditional spirit guides but we may serve you in small ways."
Sky 5 — Lovely Sky
Card drawn: Plan a Vacation
Your guides have a very airy vibe to them. Their energy is ethereal and light. The word "deva" came to mind. They are connected with the elements of air and water. An adjective to describe their energy would be "breezy". Your guides work in the background and rarely intercept your life, preferring to watch how you navigate your life in freeform. They only intercept when you're about to make terrible life-altering decisions. They offer advice in the form of nudges, and the feeling of “maybe I shouldn't do this”, and gut feelings.
Their message for you:
They show a vision of clouds that are filled with love, a new chapter to a love-filled future, mainly self love and achievements. They give a knowing smile with closed eyes. “You'll get there, eventually.”
Sky 6 — Love Bonds
Card drawn: Family
Skyborn's notes: I was shuffling for a while but no cards came out. And then I hear "I have a word to say". I ignored it and continued to shuffle, thinking nothing of it. I felt a soft blow of air over my left ear then, and got a sudden urge to set down my cards and "cut" them. The Family card came tumbling out.
Your guide that came forward have bloodline connection with you. A past ancestor. I see an elderly woman with white hair tied in a bun. She looks wise and kind. I see the word "grandmother". She has something on her finger. It is either a ring or a bracelet, or an anklet? She says it's a family heirloom. She offers you a warm hug and says she is safe and happy, and that she loves you. "Are you okay, my darling? Wear some warm clothes." She's there to watch over you and because she knows that you missed her. She misses you too.
Her message for you:
"I'm always there for you. Don't be afraid." I see vision of a teary embrace. She really loves you and wants you to know that. I also see vision of incense, and then her waving and nodding with a smile on her face, behind her is a country house.
#free reading#free readings#intuitive reading#intuitive readings#spirit guides#pac#pick a card#divination#45#46#47#48#49#50
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