#you weirdoes better not send me weird asks abt this

[ryuttaeng]

omg omg please do mafia yeji as your girlfriend hcs !!

mafia!yeji as your gf hcs

my first thought was that she would probably have problems with expressing her emotions to you. on the other side, it helps her on her job, which is mob boss obv

you’re kinda not interested in all that crime stuff and actually don’t care abt it. you were oblivious of any gangs in your city, so you almost burst out laughing when some dude in front of you explained that you just bumped into mafia leader.

you looked behind him, taking a proper look of the person you bumped into, and, to your surprise, she was stunning… yet, you thought she was about to kill you, her gaze was so cold it almost made you shiver? 😭 anyway… the woman just showed away that guy and she apologised for not watching where she’s going. jokes aside, it made you feel guilty because you were obviously the one who bumped into her and you started apologising too.

she would not hesitate to get to know you, but she just has no clue how to do that properly 😭 she will ask her followers to watch you and will ask them to protect you eventually, as the time goes. well, you could tell that some people that just appear at the same place as yours is weird, and when you were about to yell for help, they reassured you that everything is fine and explained the situation to you. “why can’t she approach me herself then?” you ask, out of curiosity. “our boss is just very humble person.”

you convinced them to make an appointment with her, and when her people told her that she’ll have an appointment with you she lowkey freaked out 🤞🏻😭 she just stood there 🧍🏻‍♀️ for whole two minutes not even blinking, her followers even started to get nervous but their boss just started mumbling something to herself, mentioning your name 😭

on your appointment date mob boss herself wore a dress, which is quite rare sight to see! she finally tells you her name and since that day you start to get to know each other better.

mafia!yeji as your girlfriend would be such a gentlewoman it makes me pull out my hair tbh… she’s very attentive and cares about you so much, she’ll send her followers to protect you from weirdos and just her enemies every day you go to work, and when she has some stressful situations or days and she hears her follower say 'miss y/n is outside, waiting for you.' yeji becomes most happy person to ever exist. she just loves when you visit her during her working hours and you also make her food, making sure she ate today 😭😭

lots of presents, very expensive ones, it always makes you either gasp or cry. she’ll be like “why are you crying honey? is it bad-“ “no! yeji, darling, its just so expensive!” and she’ll assure you it’s not when we all know the truth 😭 yeji also cries when you make her some expensive or huge presents, she’s very careful w them, because she cherish them 😭🤞🏻🤞🏻 my cutie patootie

yeji will be overall just most sweetest, supportive and caring person ever in relationship with you, which quite surprises her followers ‘cause she always has that cold face expression when she’s on work. but she’ll often will have struggles with showing her emotions, but you surprisingly very patient w her at those times and yeji is very thankful to you for that 😭😭😭

[commaclear]

Hi comma

I'm not a minor, but I know there's a lot of minors in tntblr and I've been on the internet long enough to realize way farther down the line that I've been in very unsafe online environments before.

I guess I'm saying this because of the new information that came out about that cc called kwite. I just keep on thinking about how uncomfortable it sometimes makes me to be in the fandom of such a homoerotic ship and know so many fans are probably only 15 years old. It seems to be really safe so far despite that, and the soap opera you have going on in your inbox is hilarious, but I guess I'm just worried that this could change.

I absolutely wouldn't be surprised if you delete this ask, it's pretty uncalled for. I'm sorry. But I guess I'm sending this ask because I'm still a bit younger than you, and wanted to know if you had advice for staying safe in online communities.

Only if you're okay with answering, of course. I really hope this wasn't too upsetting to read. I love your work, and I really hope you get that surgery you've been waiting on soon. Get well <3

I really do worry abt younger ppl in this fandom bc the internet safety things that were common when I was fifteen are becoming less and less common, so I would actually love to list a few

Do not share personal info, especially in your bio or pinned post and especially if it could be used to track you down irl (e.g. which city you live in, where you go to school, pictures of a local library/coffee shop/restaurant, your birthday, pictures of your face)

Tumblr is different from places like Facebook or Instagram because you are under no obligation to tell anyone your real name or show anyone your real face, you can and should embrace internet anonymity here because it's one of the last major websites where you can do so

Just saying you are a minor is enough (and you don't even have to do that, no one is entitled to know how old you are), you don't have to go out and tell everyone exactly how old you are because that opens the door for weirdos

You will know if something makes you uncomfortable, trust yourself and listen to that instinct. Even if you can't explain why a certain person/fic/art made you feel uncomfortable, listen to that feeling. Trust your gut feelings because they will figure out something is bad long before you figure out if goes against your boundaries in some way. Children are taught to ignore gut feelings like that, "Oh, it's not a big deal, go give your creepy uncle a hug or you're gonna hurt his feelings". But especially on the internet, where you can end up in dangerous or traumatizing territory without even realizing it until it's too late, you need to listen to your first instinct.

Just to harp on the above point a bit, if talking to someone makes you feel anxious, if you ever have to hype yourself up before you go to message a certain friend because sometimes the things they say make you feel weird, if talking to someone ever makes you feel weird about yourself or second guess things, if they ever ask you to do something you're not comfortable with (even if it's not at all sexual!! If you're talking to a mutual, and you mention you broke your foot and they ask to see the cast, if that makes you uncomfortable this still applies) If any of that happens, take a step back. Distance yourself from the person who made you uncomfortable for about a week and reassess how you feel. If there have been other times they've made you feel weird or uncomfortable, block them. It is totally okay and even expected to block people on Tumblr for literally any reason. It is always better safe than sorry. If this is the first time they've made you feel weird, explain the situation to them and establish a boundary. If they break that boundary, then it's blocking time. It might seem harsh, but to cultivate a safe online experience, you have to have safe people around you, and safe people respect boundaries 100% of the time.

tl;dr don't share unnecessary personal information with strangers on the internet, and if anyone makes you uncomfortable for any reason, do not hesitate to block them. You don't owe anyone anything.

And as tntblr's appa, I've gotta put this out there. If you feel unsafe in our online space or you're not sure what to do about something making you uncomfortable, then my dms are an open, judgement-free zone. I will do my best to help you out, and at the very least, I'm a pretty good listener. Sometimes all you need is a sanity sounding board.

[spyxfamilyanalysis]

Announcement! HELP REQUEST!!!

Sorry for being inactive recently ;-; Because of being too busy for school works and revision for final exams, I wasn't able to be active on Tumblr. I'll try to finish part 2.2 episode 2 analysis and working on Facts (6) if possible...😭

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This blog is family-friendly💗, so respect each other's gender and sexuality, 🚫 racisism, or I will block you.

🚫DM about sex or 🔞 and links to 🔞 accounts, or I'll show no mercy but to block you from my blog!

I would like to offer you a great opportunity to help and work with me for upcoming post and draft ones if you are a fan of SxF in general (even better if you know Vietnamese a bit and follow me💖) and you don't mind working with me. You don't have to ask to join as a member of this blog. However, you are not allowed to spoil it without my permission, otherwise, I will no longer work with you.

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I will appreciate you if you are being honest and supportive to me and everyone in this blog as well as being as active as possible. If you don't like SxF, it's okay, but please show respect to the other ones who love it. If you don't, you may leave this blog, otherwise, when this gets to the worst scenario, I will no choice but to block you💢

Recently, I have had these weird sex followers in both of my blogs, They followed me for a while, I checked their blog and it's empty and then they unfollowed me. I ignored and marked as a scam if they DM me anyways, but if you follow me for this reason only, you come to the wrong blog.

As I mentioned above, this blog is family-friendly for all ages, I may not know your age, but there is at least a 13-year-old here, and this is the minimum age to have Tumblr, as well as other ages below 16. This is something that makes me feel really annoyed and uncomfortable, as some weirdos who found me and asked me on my main blog shared a 🔞 link. At first when I replied that post, it was flagged by Tumblr because I was not old enough, and the second time, he did it again and I deleted his ask.

So warning, please do not send me those asks like that. It's acceptable to ask me about SxF and other things -> LINK, but please no sex jokes, and I only accept some of yours if it's okay.

Tumblr has rules, you know:

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No Facebook or Instagram because it's private, no Discord because rarely used and dunno how to use ;-;

If you are reading this, I'm very sorry if it sounds sensitive or offensive to you. I just want you to know that I'm very annoyed of people who don't take this seriously. I feel better now, and I let it go all this weird followers, but whenever they DM me, it's a bit weird and I feel very uncomfortable and confused (?).

Thank you for reading this!!! If you would like to offer me your support, follow me and DM me and wait for my reply to be accepted When you are accepted, here are the benefits you receive:

You are allowed to see my drafts, which are in progress for posting

I will follow your blog, as a generous way to increase your followers

Work with me for art posts if you are an artist or good at drawing in general

I myself can learn more about art tips if you want to share me some!

(Special offer for followers under 16~) Ask/ DM me anything abt your HW, I'll try my best answering them for you. Just don't tell your parents abt this ;-; And pls don't ask me about Literature, I suck at it. Pls translate them into English or Vietnamese so that I can read it. I'm such a bad sister

And many more...

Here's the main post for my full posts: HERE!

[kaeyasgender-moving]

Hi, I'm kind of new to the fandom and I've seen both people hating and defending mxtx? I've read tgcf and mdzs but I haven't seen any transphobia or homophobia in it or maybe I just missed it? Can you point out them out, I really want to educate myself

There s alot of ppl who have talked abt it and a simple google search could also help i think but i ll summarize some major points for you to help as a start :)

I ll start with the transphobia present

In the first arc xie lian has to dress up as a woman to lure out the "ghost brridegroom" obviously that wouldnt be bad in itself but the way its described as unattural and perverted and all the comments he gets even from feng xin saying that if he saw a woman like that he would straight up kill her is incredibly transomysoginistic and awful.

Then shi qingxuan is introduced. The way this character is handled is AWFUL they re shown to be comfortable with presenting both as a man and a woman and is ince again mocked for that and concidered weird and perverted and its very transparent to show how mxtx wrote them as the "funny weird crossdresser" and nothing else while also being a cishet woman herself.

Now for homophobia...... Not even counting the weird things mxtx has said aside from her novels like how she thinks its "unrealistic" if more than two gay ppl exist in a story at a time, or making up insane fandom rules like "only one character is allowed to be on top or bottom" and shit like that its obvious that even thought she writes about gay men she does so as a fun "fetish" and doesnt really support irl lgbt people.

Now obviously that shows in her novels as well like how she always names one of the two in the couple the "wife" something alot of mlm have spoken against as it set in heteronormantive stereotypes of there being a "man" and a "woman" in the relationship as well as the general characterization where it falls under the classic fetishistic writing for mlm content im not gonna go into that bc it's alot so just search up if you want more details.

I hope this helps with the base stuff and if someone wants to add anything to my points please leave a comment on this post.

[watermelinoe]

just because a woman can ignore being called a breeder doesn't make it acceptable for you to call her one

[heartsprevail]

30 questions, tag 30 people

rules: answer the 30 questions and tag 30 people you want to get to know better

I was tagged by @theyoungvveins thank you weirdo !! I love u !! 💞

nickname?

🌱 Not many !! unfortunately ,’:^/ like. kiki or kiwi from my family mostly, but none of my friends have given me nicknames. honeybun? or addie calls me variations of baby so.. good content

gender?

🌱 little lady

star sign?

🌱 I’m a scorpio watch out I have secrets

height?

🌱 I’m like… 5'5

birthday?

🌱 November 17th :0

favorite bands?

🌱 o… cavetown, spookyghostboy, bright eyes, cage the elephant, johnny goth, elvis depressedly, bay faction, panic! .. Idk

favorite solo artist?

🌱 uhhhhhhhh I think cavetown counts

song stuck in your head?

🌱 Bloody nose by bay faction

last movie i watched?

🌱 Spiderman: homecoming ?? like,, that’s the last one I actually watched I think

last show i watched?

🌱 ,,Riverdale? or impractical jokers with my dad lol

when did you create this blog? 🌱 Like.. a couple of months ago

what do you post?

🌱 Peachy girl aesthetics……. animals… romantic or positive txt posts… weird posts abt tommie ashfhf

do you have other blogs?

🌱 I have quite a few rn but. here’s two: @drowsytulips is kind of a. pink or orange aesthetic blog I barely use. @360noscopelance is my multifandom blog

why did you choose this blog name?

🌱 I think?? I said honey city to tommie after I took shower w honey conditioner??? I might. have been drunk I really have no idea.. love it tho

following?

🌱 115 :0

followers?

🌱 43,, not a lot but I love u dudes a lot :’^)

favorite colors?

🌱 Right now pink and this kind of teal green color !!!

average hours of sleep?

🌱 excuse me,,

lucky numbers?

🌱5,, maybe 8 ??

instruments?

🌱 I can play the uke like most teenagers at some point so.. yeah. watch out Tyler joesph asjdkh

what are you wearing?

🌱 a t shirt becaus it’s bedtime zzz

number of blankets you sleep with?

🌱 uhhh I have ! 3 on my bed but. it varies idk :0

dream job?

🌱Environmental toxicologist ! I wanna b a scientist…

dream trip?

🌱 Tbh… it’d be really awesome to just,, have a family trip. We’ve never had one with my step dad and he’s been around for 7 years idk jus something I wish we could do

favorite food?

🌱 Bless up I lov when my mom makes this,, one pasta idk it’s the best tho !! I like raviolis and salad a lot too :0

nationality?

🌱 I’m white o wow

favorite song right now?

🌱 um….. let’s go.. vanity by johnny goth

time?

🌱 3:04am ,, I woke up in the middle of the night ,’:^(

last thing you googled?

🌱 My schools website so I could swap classes >:0

do you get asks? 

🌱 Yeah, sometimes ! Thank u if u ever send me them !

I’m tagging @etoile-kid @earths-chakras @rad-scorpion @soft-reset @emilyforrestar @plants-are-punk @peafella @softning @alienatedkid @honeykissedtea @agender-universe @mostlybittersweet @grannolakiddo @4amoblivion @mynameiscarols uhh I just tagged some mutuals but. anyone can do this and say I tagged you if they would like !!