#you guys are so awesome im sorry u gotta deal with so much bullshit

[flareboi]

i feel like tumblr cannot understand that

transgender women need to be loved outside of being sexualized and not perceived merely in the context of their sexual appeal, because it is objectifying and gross

and

it is okay and good to express attraction towards transgender women especially considering that they are often told that they are ugly (false), and it normalizes viewing them as beautiful and awesome (which they are)

are opinions that can and should coexist. like just don’t get sexual on posts about transfem positivity and don’t get all prudish on posts about how attractive transfemmes can be and sex positivity in the context of trans people

[emeraldwaves]

Hi everyone!! I think it’s so important to highlight and honor our amazing fic writers! I love so many people in various fandoms and so many lovely people have given me so much joy from both their friendship and their writing!! I’m going to do these posts by fandom, so finally, I’ll be posting about K Project. I KNOW it’s been a long time since I’ve been writing K Project, but it is still so important to me and means so much <3

@its-love-u-asshole - LOL ADRI... where do I even begin. TBH you could have your own whole damn post for how much I love you, and I would rec every single fic you’ve written. You’ve been my biggest support for YEARS and this year has been extra amazing. We’ve gotten to hang out IRL so much, AX was just amazing and of course our awesome movie watching times and macrons LOL I know we’re not technically in the same fandom (even though I sometimes dabble in HQ stuff) but you are ALWAYS supporting me, reading my bullshit, dealing with me when I’m being depressing and always pick me up when I’m down. I’m not sure why you put up with me but ffff I love you so much!!! We finally COLLABED this year and I just love your collab fic so much! I can’t tell you how happy that made me. Thank you for being the most amazing person, your writing is just INCREDIBLE and watching you improve and grow has just been the best thing. I am gonna rec Shaking in my Skull specifically, cause it will always be one of my favs, it’s so beautiful and I’m sure you like some of your HQ stuff more, but SIMS is so amazing. like you should be so proud. 

@theweakestthing - I feel like this was maybe a weird fandom category to put you in Robyn, but I wanted to include you no matter what because even though we haven’t had time to talk lately, I will always love and respect you as a writer. You’ve written the most AMAZING fics for both K and Daiya. You’ve always been such an inspiration to me and I’ll never forget how excited I was when you actually liked and supported my stuff. I know it’s not K but I always have to rec folie a deux cause I will forever be in love with it and you <3

@missgine - GINEEEEEEE!! I feel like you’ve always been one of my biggest supporters, especially of Mikorei. I can never get over how amazing your comments are and how amazing your SMUT is LOL! Seriously, I don’t think I’ve met someone who writes smut as well as you do. You are such a fun person and I love you so much. You deserve all the joy in the world. I hope we can all write Mikorei together again eiojsdkml. my body is always one of my favs of yours and Bs <3

@silverwings104 - B!!!!! ILUUUU I love freaking out with you about ALL the pairings whether it be K, Kingdom Hearts, FF, or BHNA it’s always so so much fun! It was also SO AWESOME getting to meet you at AX!!! I am always so excited to plot ideas with you and have you plot with me and I love reading your stuff and trading ideas and thoughts, you are so fun and great! I can’t believe we saw the Mikorei movie together! Until The End always hurts my soul <3

@darksylvir - SOFFFF you are so incredible and I am so happy we will always be a part of the Mikorei crew! Your Moulin Rouge fic is seriously one of my favorite fics of ALL TIME. I just LOVE Damocles. It’s so creative and amazingly written. I think it was one of the first Mikorei fics I got so super invested in! I know you are destined to be an amazing writer and do awesome things, and we are always cheering you on <3

@brynne-lagaao - Brynne, You are such an incredibly talented author. I will always adore Give It Two Weeks, it was so fun reading with everyone and getting so hyped and excited. It was such a sweet fic and I loved everything you did with. I also will always be such a fan of your smut too cause it always felt so realistic to me? It was sexy but REAL and I LOVED that. I also always felt like your AUs were so creative and fun. You’re fantastic and I hope you know you’re an awesome writer <3

@melonsflesh - Meruuuuuuu! You are so sweet and so talented. I am always SO impressed by everything you do and write... your sarumi fics were always some of my favs. Your nature reserve fic, Bear With Me will ALWAYS be one of my favs, I just LOVE how you characterize both of them. Your writing sucks me and I can’t stop once I start one of your fics. You’re so sweet and supportive too, I love seeing you and Tasha being goofy on my TL <3 ILU so much even if we’re not always in the same fandoms!

@saruhiko-bb - TASHAAAA ILU!!!! Getting to meet you at AX this year was honestly so wonderful. We made so many amazing memories and omg you made me laugh so much. I’ve always considered you an amazing writer and Sugar was one of my fav fics to follow. I’m SO sorry I fell behind and I really gotta get my K project spark back and catch up. ALSO im SO LOOKING FORWARD TO YOUR MIKOREI!

@chromekins - I LOVE YOU AND ASH SO MUCH!! Ahhh getting to spend so much time with you at AX this year was just AMAZING!!! I had so much fun spending the majority of the con with you guys. PLEASE COME BACK LOL! I know you guys aren’t really in the K fandom anymore, but I’m happy we’re all still friends, and I will always adore Quickening, your writing is so stunning and you’re just so amazing <3 I know I cried reading it ;---; <3

@ridiasfangirlings - Ridia, you have so many amazing fics, it’s always hard for me to pick one to rec. Your Reisaru, Afford, has always been one of my all time favorites, but Make a Shadow always holds a special place in my heart. I loved that fic, your imagery and writing was just so so perfect and I love love love everything about it. One of my favorite soulmate fics for sure!!

Here are a few extra fics I love from K! 

Becoming (ReiSaru) - an amazing canon future fic!  Nautilus (ReiSaru/Mikorei/Sarumi) - the coolest ABO ever!!

I know this is a super long post and I apologize… i ESPECIALLY apologize if I forgot anyone!! I am on vacation using my PC so I feel really off and I’m certain i left SOMETHING or SOMEONE off…. so I am super sorry, but thank you to EVERYONE who has read and commented and supported my K fics, you all are AMAZING. I am sorry I don’t write for it as much anymore, but I’m hoping to do some Mikorei for mikorei week!! <3 <3

[sasuke420]

1-65 except the ones you already did

ok this is A LOT so sorry if you’re on mobile

1: Do you have a crush at the moment?

answered

2: Have you ever been deeply in love?

answered

3: Longest relationship you've ever been in?

like........unofficially almost 2 years but official a combination of 2 months then 7 or 8 months idfk 

4: Have you ever changed for someone?

i absorb the personality of everyone i ever talk to but like, not intentionally

5: How is your relationship with your ex?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA i hope we never speak again or if we do it’s just so i can be like FUCK YOU again tbh,

6: Have you ever been cheated on?

nah

7: Have you ever cheated?

nope

8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?

what the fuck no

9: What's the most important part of a relationship?

umm......communication? trust? all those words people throw out that are true and real but i love being very open at all times so truly communication

10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?

serious i guess? my last “fling” was kind of a disaster so idk 

11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?

NOPE NOPE NOPE almost fell for that bullshit and it’s basically what ended my last relationship so absolutely not no thanks!!! not for me

12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?

i hate the phrase hooked up bc it could mean anything from kissing to sex so i never know how to answer this?! i already made a post the other day sayin ive kissed 4 people so theres that i guess 

13: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?

answered

14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?

idk you do you but like, personally before like........16 seems too dangerous imo bc you are Children but as long as it’s safe and whatever idk

15: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?

no bc it’s usually used by predatory older dudes but i mean age differences are fine as long as it’s not creepy and terrible. but don’t say this as a 24 year old dude as an excuse to date a high schooler

16: Do you believe in "love at first sight"?

answered

17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?

that’s like, exclusively what’s happened to me so, yeah

18: What do you consider a deal breaker?

i don’t have like a specific list in my mind or like one THING i cannot tolerate but i guess a huge one would be anything having to do w not tolerating mental illness bc that is my entire personality

19: How do you know it's time to end a relationship?

when they make you feel shitty more than they make you feel happy

20: Are you currently in a relationship?

nop

21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?

yeah i’ve seen it happen and work out fine

22: Do you think people should date their friends?

sure why not, it’s nice to be friends then have it turn into something or whatever. i like relationships based off of friendships 

23: How many relationships have you had?

um i’d really only count like, one, so......1

24: Do you think love can last forever?

yeah i love happy old couples

25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?

um.......not really??? that’s like, a big statement, 

26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?

no because i dated someone my parents disliked for a long time

27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?

answered

28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?

absolutely tho i’m not huge on them for myself

29: What do you notice first about another person?

answered

30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?

me all the time: IM GAY AS HELL

but really i’m bi 

31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?

answered

32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?

haha........................................................................................yeah and it’s fucked up my entire psyche so (-:

33: Do you want to get married one day?

yeah!

34: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed?

sounds like a very bad idea and also wouldn’t even be like aesthetically pleasing so no thanks

35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?

probably? idk

36: Are you still a virgin?

no i’m a sinner

37: What's more important: Looks or personality?

personality but obviously i like people that i am physically attracted to so.....i mean its both but i am very big on personality which is why hookups arent rly my thing too much

38: Do you enjoy love films?

do i enjoy them? i will SOB at them, so, 

39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?

nope

40: Have you ever had a valentine?

answered i think

41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?

getting drunk and taking a nap together

42: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?

i did for school in like 8th grade 

43: What's more important: Your partner or your friends?

gotta get that balance. don’t neglect either of them

44: Would you consider yourself "romantic"?

i call myself a hopeless romantic constantly

45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?

yes

46: Have you ever been "friendzoned"?

fake concept. i had high school crushes that never went anywhere but that doesnt mean friendzoned really so no

47: Which "famous couple" is your favorite?

i don’t pay attention to thos things honestly................mulder and scully

48: What's your favorite love song?

i have an entire playlist of love songs, hmu for it, but ummm probably first day of my life if thats considered a love song

49: Have you ever broken someone's heart?

eh. kind of. complicated

50: If you're single, why do you think you are?

i’m ugly

(bc i have been single for like...2 months and thos things dont come fast)

51: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy?

poor but nice guy 100%

52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?

ehhhhhhhhhhhhh not really i mean sometimes? i don’t know it depends on the situation 

53: Are you jealous of couples when you're single?

LOL.............yes i am known to get kinda salty

54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on Facebook)?

eh. i like having it be Official and known as a thing but other than that idk

55: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?

i will cling to you with the force of a thousand suns (but try to play it cool and fail yikes)

56: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?

nah he did that (side eye emoji)

57: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?

me: i’m going to kill myself when we break up

so like, no, but don’t do it because i didn’t and that was a dumbass mindset

58: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?

the MOST submissive you will ever meet, in your entire life, please dominate me

59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?

answered i think

60: What's your opinion on open relationships?

whatever works for u but probably not my thing

61: Who's more important: Your partner or your family?

my siblings can fuck off but parents and partner are both important

62: How do you define "cheating"?

????????? is there more than one definition??? its fuckin cheating. dont flirt or do shit w other people. 

63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?

it doesn’t make me feel awesome to think about but it’s not like, an issue

64: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?

me when im single: yes

me if i was in a relationship: NO (HEART EYES X1000)

65: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?

WOULD I? CONSIDER????????????? I DONT CONSIDER ANYTHING. I KNOW FOR A FUCKING FACT I AM. i will cuddle 24/7 365 baby