#you can interact but please no remblems

[lightishlilac]

I have this friend, and they were able to come out super easily to their parents. I don't think I'd be able to do that because my parents, try as they might, are still low key transphobic (the one time I mentioned I was okay with other pronouns, my mom said, very sternly, "You're a /girl/." And that's just one example). And I told this person that, as an explanation for why I was not coming out to my parents until I moved out. And then this bitch tried to FUCKING PRESSURE ME INTO COMING OUT TO THEM BECAUSE "YOU HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM". EXCUSE ME??? BITCH, I DIDN'T TELL YOU ABOUT THE NIGHTS I SPENT CRYING BECAUSE OF THINGS MY PARENTS SAID. I DIDN'T TELL YOU HOW MY PARENTS REFUSE TO EVEN CONSIDER TAKING ME TO ABOUT NEUROLOGIST DESPITE HOW HORRIBLE MY MEMORY PROBLEMS ARE, TO THE POINT WHERE I'VE STARTED LOOKING UP HOW MUCH IT WILL COST ME TO GET THE EVALUATIONS I NEED MYSELF. I DIDN'T TELL YOU. ABOUT EVERY FUCKING TRAUMATIC MOMENT HAMMERED INTO ME BY MY PARENTS BECAUSE I. BARELY. KNOW. YOU. I don't have a good fucking relationship, I just know how to fake one.

And then this bitch, out of no where, just starts going "Trans people need dysphoria. If someone doesn't have dysphoria, then they aren't trans" and I guess that answered every fucking question I had about them.