#you can complain without making you look like a dranti you know that right

[backtochicago]

some controversial complaining

i think some of you in here forgot that dream has ADHD and is in the autistic spectrum so that you forgot or not even bare to spend time to fully understand how his brain works.

i said, this as the person who has most of his neurodivergent traits, overpromising or just overdoing is one of the significant traits since the hyperfization kick my ( dream as well ) adrenaline and make me exaggerate every action and thinking. this means that i will do a lot of things that means not to be done due to over-exciting and over-hyperfization and soon i will regret my over-exaggerating action because of it. worse, i will feel regret more if my post-depression hit right after the maniac over-hyperfization episode. dream is better than me that he can manage his over-hyperfization epidose be long enough to not get post-depression episode hitting. it's even harder when he has 2 hyperfization at the same times. but still, the kicking adrenaline still not fully gone.

what i said is sometimes you need to put yourself in dream's shoe and need to understand him based on his true self and traits. you have been in the fandom long enough to understand why he is overpromising and reacting like that, hell, he even explained it but some of you still wanna throw a fit on him. and his neurodivergent need to be kept in mind more because a lot of your reaction toward his neurodivergent traits gives ableist vibe.