#you all deserve so much better than the assholes that down ppl that may struggle with any of the above bc it makes them feel better.
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i love you writers with intellectual disabilities. i love you writers who have a limited vocabulary. i love you writers who struggle with grammar and sentence structures. i love you writers who struggle with executive dysfunction. i love you physically disabled writers. i love you writers who have to have someone else do the typing/writing as you speak outloud. i love you writers who repeat themselves. i love you writers who have to take frequent breaks. i love you writers who are on hiatus. i love you all so, so much.
#you are all so very dear to me...#you all deserve so much better than the assholes that down ppl that may struggle with any of the above bc it makes them feel better.#but i hope they never make you too insecure to write or to share your story with the world.#you're just as much as a writer as them. your story matters just as much as theirs.#ransom note
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henlo!! i hope you're doing well! i'd love to get a reading from you, if that's okay! my placements are: sag sun (12h), aries moon (3h) and cap rising! thank you so much for this!
I swear I looked at my inbox and took a second for start the tv and get a drink of water. This is gonna be a long night, I don't think there are meant full readings left though. I'm doing very well thanks for that!
Hm, Sagittarius sun, Aries moon, and Capricorn ascendant.
The Aries moon is the loudest competing with the Capricorn ascendant. Possible glasses I feel from the Aries moon or bad eyesight. The Capricorn could cause you to cut your hair short since I feel some of them really like doing that either their chaotic energy at timesâď¸đđ˝ââď¸ (I always try to be careful when clicking edit ln these drafts cause it sucks to accidentally delete it ughh) SONG RECOMMENDATION LOVELIES creep by Radiohead! I'm back after getting an ice pop AND OMG IVE BEEN ANSWERING THINGS MY SHEETS ARE WARM AND I HAVEN'T OPENED IT HOW DID I FORGET. Anyways, I wondered if your profile was really you so I looked closer and now I regret I cause the characteristics will be thrown off later on sorry.
Gotta make a new paragraph that was longđ the Aries moon is hard to see, the connection has been ruined. FOCUS I'm back okay let's go! The Aries Manor is large. I arrived immediately at gates. The place feels like a castle, all of a sudden I'm in a dress on the ground as if this is some kind of lost girl story. My expression looks really confused. As if they're asking "where tf am I" a tall figure comes down the stairs, dressed in a red dress as if her wedding with the world's biggest asshole had was cancelled. Red lips and styled back red hair, their eyes are sharp at the ends and wide in the middle (can't explain eyes lol) they offer their hand to me as if I look like the dumbest bitch at the ball lol. Long and manicured nails. Shes thin and lanky but beautiful non the less. (For all of you insecure people reading to this far I'm watching youđ¤ love yourself more please you deserve it) she has a butler on standby. "So what are you doing here?" A pretty basic question but I honestly feel so dumb rn lol. They act as if the quest never happened and look around for something in the room turning their head. "You're not Gemini/Sagittarius are you?" A skeptical look on their face. It's hard to interpret what they said. "Alright, maybe you're not here to pull a prank on me if you are." They grab a cigarette from a tin holder a worker offers them already lit and breathing rolls of smoke. "If not them, what are you doing here shorty?" Taking another hit, the cigarette finished by then. Time is going by faster than I thought. "Alright" I hear the click of the case in their hand closing. "If you aren't here for me then I know who, follow me." They get up to lead me up the stares. Hesitantly following after. Aura is red and flaming. Possible placements are the lover stomach or I feel the manor and small parts around it take yo the whole chest. You may have problems with heartburn, chest pains, or issues with the lungs. We leave the lavished hall. I feel there's somewhere you wanna go someday. Possible problems in class as a kid, too passionate or anger issues. Nowadays may be shy or hesitant. Aries people often are fiery, but we also turn more shy getting older.
I see a door down the hall opening it, the Aries moon is gone by now. I feel you have Gemini placements possibly tricksters with your Sagittarius sun. I see the Sagittarius sitting down on something soft and plush. Reading some kind of novel or paper. They seem very intimidating until seeing me. "Ah! Are you here to talk to me? I've been needing company!" Getting up to walk towards me. "Did Aries not come with you? They always avoid me." I see their earrings shine with the night sky. "I mean I did pull that paint trick a bit ago but to mean c'mon who wouldn't?" She once had an elegant purple dress, to match her heavy eyelashes and almost violet blue eyes. But I look into myself now. They are jokes on how we look the same now and they bet she asked me if I was them. They turn to me again after looking off for a bit. You the host may have issues with the contact under pressure or when holding conversations. They do the same thing the Aries does. They may go deeper than shown to me, lifetimes of being stuck with each other in the same hosts. May have liked each other in the beginning but something changed this. Possible placement now is the left side of the chest. Aura color is purple and starry blue. I'm no longer in contact.
I feel the Capricorn ascendant is the puzzle piece to what happened. Change that thought it's Gemini. It's not just you body but in others they've known each other I'm the placements. Possibly a love triangle turned into hate or something. The Aries moon once loved your Sagittarius, they still do. It's just things have changed and Gemini and Sagittarius are better together to Aries. This doesn't seem right. Idk how you could fix this maybe we'll see later. This imbalance could be the cause of some mental issues or your own love problems, both signs aren't as good with such things. They don't know how cause they haven't found true love yet. At least not reciprocated well enough.
The Capricorn ascendant lives in the middle of your chest in-between the abdomen and stomach proportions. This doesn't make sense to me since I believe the stairs were here. I get there, the Capricorn is sitting on the steps sketching. The Capricorn is more boyish. Dressed in a shorter green dress. Cut to the shoulders blonde hair with brown and green mixed eyes. A golden chain on the neck matching the sprinkle of gold on the cheeks and in the eyes. They look at me weirdly. As if they're appalled I ended up here. "Gonna sit or not?" They point to next to them on the steps. I sit down looking at the sketch set down for a second resting in their palms. "You can feel it too can't you?" Clearly they're talking of the energy between the other two zodiacs. "They've been like this for a long time-" "I know." I finally talk I believe after this whole reading. They look down at their drawing. "I'm pretty new here so yeah. I got it fast" they catch me looking at the pencil stokes. "You saw it before. Think it was good?" They look at me again head still down low. "yeah" I nod. "Great!" They pull me up. "Let's get away from here yeah?" There's fields outside the mansion. Green even in the night. Rolling down the grounds and getting grass covered stains and markings. This Capricorn is alive.
Characteristics: dark hair, wider eyes due to the Capricorn or Aries moon, I feel this creates bigger eyes at times. Possibly markings on the hands or arms. Height is fairly average or just an inch shy of it. Possibly have posters in your room. You may definitely need that cup of morning coffee. Strongly built with thicker bones. Took some scrapes and scratches as a kid lol.đˇgap in the middle of the teeth. Your nose may scrunch and get bunny lines. Possible love for Halloween. Nice nails but they get broken easily do you have to cut them short. Struggled with self image issue younger. Causing some mental health problems. You aren't an angry person but if boundaries are crossed there's gonna be a problem.
Soulmates/ future relationship: (ignore if already in one unless curious) I feel Virgo influence here. Not the tallest person but also yes? One of those two either really tall ppl or not at all. You guys will try and keep up with each other a lot. Trying to manage schedules and make little completions on who cna do something better or first. On the couch watching movies and sharing food, okay cringey couple thing coming up. You guys may feed each other like it's normal and your friend just stare at you like "wtf??" They love our two though lol they'll get used to it. Possible meeting at s grocery store when in the bread isle or nearby. May have you call them lieutenant or some strengthening name at times or they won't even move to do what you want them to.
Other zodiac influence in your life through people: Gemini moon, Virgo moon, sun, ascendant. Possible same mercury and venus? Random. Cancer mars, Neptune.
Health/future: watch for dogs (i love dogs but I see some trouble here) cars when walking on roads or streets. Just saying duck and lay attention for the next 2 months when in a dangerous working areas or smth.
FINALLY DONE SORRY THIS TOOK LONG
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bro i hate fatherâs day sm because itâs also my d*ds bday and so my mom and i went out today to get him something but i had trouble figuring out what to get him cause like. 1) i hate him because heâs abused and traumatized me 2) heâs hurt my mom as well 3) iâm overall indecisive but she basically told me i was a selfish asshole because of that and like haha i wanna kms
hey man im so sorry to hear that :( ur dad is a CUNT and ur mum is an asshole for consistently putting you in danger and then just expecting you to get over it. while sheâs a victim too, she still has a responsibility to protect you and you have every right to be mad. god itâs like parents just donât grasp that kids are absolutely allowed to have a response to the trauma theyâve been through, and that theyâre deserving of the help that is necessary to process and accept their pain. that includes you. no matter what they put you through, you must know that youâre a better person than theyâll ever be and that there is so much waiting for you out there. in terms of love, independence, happiness, and a future you can make your own. divorced of your mum and dadâs toxicity. no matter how hard it is to believe, itâs true. and while itâs completely unfair that you have to carry the weight of your childhood when it was entirely out of your hands, adulthood will lend you a lot of time and resources to recover in your own way. more than you realize in this moment, anyway. one of the side effects of abuse is not seeing a way forward, but there always is one, even if all you can do in this moment is survive. thatâs enough. your older self will be so glad you did. but as far as your dad goes - honestly get him any old thing like. you donât owe him a thought or any effort at this point. suburban middle aged men have no taste. maybe some cologne or a smart shirt or some shit. i know fathers day is rough when you have no reason to respect yours, and i hope youâre able to take it easy on yourself as you work through the emotions caused by that realization. itâs alright to be sad, angry, hurt and numb. itâs to cry and vent and to grieve. but itâs not alright to use those feelings as an excuse to hurt yourself or to slip into a self destructive cycle. so if you find yourself going down that sort of mental spiral, i really hope youâre able to get into the habit of trying out different positive coping mechanisms that may be able to break you out of it. even if it feels dumb. writing, taking a walk, meditation, watching a comfort show, breathing techniques, talking to a friend or loved one. none of these things are solutions to the fundamental issue at hand, but they buy you time to recuperate and that often makes all the difference. you donât have to have it all figured out, you just have to work with what youâve got. and i believe in your ability to do so. ALSO i can 100% relate to being indecisive. ppl get mad at me for it too. but it doesnât mean youâre selfish at all, it usually just means youâve been ridiculed a lot in the past so youâre scared to make the wrong decision. your mother is on some bull shit and one of the greatest parts about growing up is realizing that, realizing just how wrong parents are sometimes. anyway this is all over the place and i dont want to make it too long, but i really hope youâre alright and that youâre looking out for yourself despite it all. as a side note, iâd really recommend maybe bringing up how much youâre struggling to like - a school counselor, or your doctor to see if they can refer you for some support, or even a hotline that deals with mental illness and abuse. if possible, anyway. i understand why it might not be, or why the idea might make you extremely uncomfortable, but i hope you know that itâs always there for you to refer back to. that you truly do not have to shut yourself off from seeking a support network and that you have a RIGHT to talk about the everything that hurts. while taking the initial step is scary, itâs also never as bad as your brain envisions it to be. and thereâs a lot to gain from opening up, you know? thereâs no relief in suffering in silence. but thatâs just a suggestion, no pressure. itâs totally normal to need time and to want to approach this at your own pace. again, iâm really sorry your parents are so blinded by their own ignorance. if you need a friend or anyone to talk to, my inbox will be open. youâre not alone. please take it one day at a time x
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while weâre at it, imma just list all my discourse-inducing opinions here to get it out of my system
feel free to ask for clarification, unfollow, ignore, etc etc. as long as you arenât a dick, iâve got no problems with any of that <3Â
- asexual + aromantic people are part of the LGBT+ communityÂ
- drag isnât inherently transphobicÂ
- trans women are women and TERFs are bad people
- you can want/ work towards a cure for a condition while respecting people with that condition. itâs sure as shit not ableist to want a cure for your conditionÂ
- ableism doesnât get enough attention and is left out of many social justice movementsÂ
- mentally ill ppl need to stop silencing the struggles of physically ill/ disabled ppl for the sake of making a point (i.e. those comics/ videos that show people telling physically disabled people to just âwalk it offâ or âjust try yogaâ to try and highlight how wrong it is to do that to mentally ill people)
- ideally, we should all work towards eating less meat and fewer animal products. you arenât a bad person for not doing this, but you are kind of an asshole if you mock vegetarians/ vegans
- climate change is a fuck-off huge problem and we all need to be panicking about it a lot more than we are
- people with paedophillia who have never offended and want to get better deserve help and support, not hatred and death threats
- OCD is still very poorly understood and rarely portrayed correctly by the media and I really wish there was more shown of the obsessive side of itÂ
- using mental illnesses as adjectives (âcan we change the volume to an even number? sorry, Iâm OCD about thatâ; using âanorexicâ to mean âskinnyâ; misuse of the term âpsychoticâ) is a bad thing to do. itâs not language evolving, itâs misusing terms in an offensive way that belittles mental illnessÂ
- the mental illness advocacy movement needs to push awareness of less âacceptableâ conditions. i want stuff on psychosis, bipolar disorder, severe OCD, personality disorders, intermittent explosive disorder, addictions, binge-eating disorder. iâm sick of advocacy being for skinny white girls in big grey jumpers with anxiety and depression. donât get me wrong, those girls deserve support (hell, i am one of them). but goddamn, advocacy cannot work by putting your âprettiestâ issues forwards and hiding the ones at the back that are harder to dress up
- iâve basically never encountered a well-written anorexic character (bar maybe Tix from MMFD) and I very much wish people without eating disorders would do a LOT more research before attempting to write them
- asking for a source/ fact-checking is in no way a bad or offensive thing. âjfc couldnât you just google it?â doesnât work when the burden of proof is on you
- feminism is equal rights for all genders. menâs problems deserve help & attention, but not in a way that overrides or ignores womenâs problems. the same is true of the opposite. that being said, feminism focuses on women because more often than not, itâs women are being looked down on and treated poorly.Â
- donald trump is a dangerous and stupid man and i really canât believe he is the president, what the literal fuck
- the tories are dangerous and i loathe theresa may
- calling women whores, sluts etc is slut-shaming and basically never necessary. âbitchâ is a hilarious word when used appropriately (see: Aaron Paul, Glenn Howerton) and is awful in its standard use of meaning âany woman who dares speak her mindâ. i prefer to reserve the use of âcuntâ for people who have hit a significant level of evil. there are very few people who have met this for me, but katie hopkins is one
- the daily mail should be shut the fuck down
- brexit is an awful fucking idea
- if you cannot take care of a pet adequately for whatever reason, you should take action to get the pet to a home where it can be taken care of well. pets are a privilege, not a right.
- there is no real need for white people to have a significant voice in discussions about racism
- pornography is like alcohol: in an ideal world, it wouldnât really exist/ be used, but we arenât in that world. most people can use it in moderation and not have a problem with it; some people become addicted to it, and they deserve support to overcome that.Â
- addiction is a disease and addicts deserve support & help. you can become addicted to essentially anything, and making fun of people for their addictions makes you kind of shitty
- mental illness is an explanation for poor behaviour, not an excuse. if you did a fucked-up thing due to anxiety or depression or mood swings, you still need to accept responsibility and apologise
- if alcohol and tobacco are legal, weed should be legal. legal does not mean âthis has no risks and everyone should do itâ- it means people should be able to make their own choices about whether or not they want to use it, based on actual fact and reason and not heavily biased anti-drug sources
- family is chosen. âbloodâ and âshared DNAâ means very little. you are under no obligation to ever stick with an abuser.
- prostitution has always existed and always will. it should be legalised and regulated, and the people working in it should be protected
- the demonisation of sex workers is very fucked up. you canât demand a service (e.g. watching porn) while demonising/ belittling the people who provide it (see also: fast food service)
- if two consenting adults want to do something in private, they can go ahead and do it. iâm not into policing how people fuck. if a grown woman wants to get tied up and spanked, itâs patronising and offensive for me to start lecturing about how her childhood and mental illness might have influenced her choices.Â
- incest ships weird me out, but like, you do you.Â
- marketing food as âguilt-free!â or âsinful...â is gross and implies eating is a moral choice, which it never is
- goatâs cheese is awful. just awful.
- you can basically cook anything and everything at 200CÂ
- crocs are the worst shoes to ever be invented
- skyler white deserved so much better
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