#yes transgender and transsexual people have overlapping experiences with intersex people

[corviddusk]

Hey by the way if you think intersex people have it easier or that you as a perisex trans person can ever lay claim to the experiences of medicalized violence starting from infancy, the consistent brutalization for your natural body, the fact it's labeled a deformity when it's NORMAL, and the entire queer community using you as a gotcha to conservatives who love mutilating us you need to get the fuck over yourself and understand that transness isn't the only form of oppression in the world.

You will NEVER be like us. We have similarities yes, but you aren't intersex, you don't have possible health complications that come with some intersex conditions, you don't have ambiguous genitalia by nature, your transition isn't made deeply dangerous because a doctor didn't check your hormone levels and you were on so much it was actively possible to kill one of your organs, you haven't been forcibly mutilated as a kid (unless you were during things like trafficking in which case holy fuck I am so sorry. You're not alone), you haven't experienced being scared and confused when your body did puberty wrong, it doesn't take years to figure out what you even are and why your body is so wrong to everyone.

I'm sorry but if you throw a tantrum over the term Perisex you're just the same as any bigot. It's like throwing a tantrum over being called abled or sane or rich when you physically are those things because you feel left out of a club that is being brutalized by society and facing struggles you never have.

I've tried to be more gentle about this for a while but I genuinely cannot stand the amount of trans perisex people who just brutalize my siblings and myself and expect me to be the nice civil "one of the good ones". I am not any of those things. You need to wake the fuck up and accept you aren't the end all be all of oppression other forms of oppression exist. I'm sorry being intersex is nothing to do with transness it's a separate thing y'all are fucking weird for trying to pretend you "become basically intersex" no the fuck you don't.