#yes it does make other ppl uncomfy when you make too many self deprecating jokes. but the response shouldnt be like oh cringe it should be
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bringing back 2010s nostalgia by continuing to hate myself 🤪
#skye.txt#ppl have rebranded it but they rly do just want depressed ppl to shut up & suffer in silence. we all have to love & tolerate ourselves now.#yes it does make other ppl uncomfy when you make too many self deprecating jokes. but the response shouldnt be like oh cringe it should be#*like 'hey are you ok? do you need help? do you need to talk to me or someone?' bc even if they dont want to the important part is the#*compassion. its not manipulation#its a fucking cry for help. it always has been. no you are not obligated to listen to ppl vent all the time. but the response shouldn’t be#*to shut someone out. & its fine and normal to say 'i can tell youre going thru a hard time but it isnt a good time for me to talk to you#*about it rn'. i would rather my friends establish boundaries like that than just be like 'your jokes are bad and cringe' yeah i know.#but theyre the slightest veneer over how i feel about myself.#and i dont think im a toxic nightmare manipulator when i say that shutting your friends out when they do this actually fucking sucks#just like misogyny we like to pretend mental illness awareness/support has improved among the general pop. and maybe it has a bit. but its#*still total crap. yall still demonize and stereotype and ostracize ppl when they demonstrate symptoms. its honestly disgusting.#i wouldn’t trust any of the ppl who spout militant positivity sanctimonious bullshit w the truth about my MI. i wonder if their friends do#i could go on but my fingers are getting tired ahahaa#ableism tw
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