#yeah yeah yeah marriage as a system is often used to uphold various aspects of oppression we all know this but liiiiiiiiike

[harpalion]

my roommate is so annoying... we were just chatting and i mentioned that me and my gf want to get married at some point and they Immediately with 0 prompting starting talking about how them and their partner will never get married because he would lose his benefits and also because he is so anti-marriage just as like a concept that he won't even go to his friends' weddings. and then my roommate was like "there's so many cons to getting married you should really think about it it's actually usually pretty bad". like..... ok ? what. quit projecting onto me and my relationship -_-