#yall don’t understand i have thought about this exact scenario so many times it’s probably unhealthy

[sunflower-chai]

so we all agree that anakin would despise meditation, right? bro is too hyperactive to sit still for that long.

so i have this vivid image in my head of 9-year-old anakin having a nightmare and going to obi-wan for comfort. and obi-wan decides this is the perfect opportunity to practice meditation. after all, that’s how most jedi calm down and recenter themselves.

so he and anakin sit on the floor across from each other and obi-wan is talking him through how to meditate, not expecting it to last very long because he knows his padawan. this time, surprisingly, anakin has sat completely still without complaining for an entire 60 seconds. obi-wan is proud of anakin’s progress, until he feels a soft thump against his chest.

obi-wan opens his eyes to see his padawan slumped forward, fast asleep. he can’t hold back his fond smile. maybe anakin still hasn’t mastered meditation, but at least obi-wan was able to help him feel safe enough to fall back asleep. task failed successfully.

[timextoxhajima]

so he said stuff about how “girls are all the same” and kept saying “yall xmms” and went on a rant about how other girls hes tried to “befriend” give like one word replies and don’t want to converse with him or whatever and i was like well maybe she thinks you’re hitting on her and is uncomfortable about that?? i mean what else is a girl supposed to assume when a guy randomly dms her….? also at this point i was like fuck i gotta get out of here he basically admitted that he goes and dms random girls and that’s probably why he approached me too ugh

and then he said why do all girls think they’re always being hit on and stuff like that so i tried to explain from my pov as a girl i have had experiences like that where guys are obviously hitting on me and that’s why girls may be wary of a guy who slides into her dms out of nowhere?? (clearly i wasn’t wary enough since we met in person first at this event thing THEN started texting so i thought it’d be ok bc he seemed nice enough in person… )

ugh i thought he wanted to be friends maybe?? like he’s basically living up to that exact scenario bc now i realise he did have some sort of intention in talking to me… he also asked me how many exes i’ve had and i was like none?? why do you ask and then he was like “good” 🤮 dhsjsjjsjdjd 🥯

ok la i mean the xmms and the girls are all the same sound like lame passing remarks that he might not even know get on ur nerves and i also get that guys find it hard to get into deep talking terms with girls w the one liner stuff because my guy friends who do online dating also complain about that and

YES, sometimes girls do it just to actually play hard to get, ie not all girls are genuinely wary or cautious yknow,,,,

like in general i think your conversations get on your nerves because you sound like someone who's extra careful/cautious about what other people say and he's someone who just says wahtever the fuck he wants to say which i have close friends who are like either of these personalities (and then i gotta come in between and do damage control LMAO)

and while i do understand why you're feeling icky, it's just that maybe this guy thinks with his dick, BUT it might not necessarily be a bad thing la, i mean my guy friends make inappropriate jokes all the fucking time like im not there and then their defence is i think or act like a guy alot of the time too [my personality and dominating?? feels?? wise and im also not very sensi like even if ppl say dumb shit, my tolerance is quite high]

i think what you can do is jus hang out w him as friends MORE first before you think about going any further?? like for me i don't think i can ever decide to meet someone with the expectation of dating anymore (I'm like kinda scared of dating apps now and even if i am on it i don't meet anybody HAHAHA). with my irl friends i just see if i can tolerate their shit before i decide if i wna stick around yknow