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cruelsister-moved2 · 1 year ago

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btw the fact that butch/femme relationships arent 'replicating heterosexuality' doesnt mean you as a feminine woman are incapable of having desires+expectations rooted in internalisation of the male gaze & then projecting that onto masc women. it means masc women dont "have a male gaze" & are in no position to actually benefit from it, it doesnt mean that you as a feminine woman fantasising about being a tradwife and regurgitating tiktok divine feminine bimbo nonsense needs no further exploration as long as u construct an internal voyeur in the shape of a masculine woman rather than a man

#fantasies abt being financially dependent on a butch girl that is a blue collar worker get a job #like again historically if anything femmes were more likely to support the butches who couldnt get jobs bc of how they presented #bc we are not just a girl version of heterosexuality but that doesnt mean u should try and make it so-_-#anyway every day on this site its the projection of ur own internalised male gaze onto masc women and im soooo sick of it #'male gaze is when theres a man who looks at u' type takes #women perpetuate the male gaze on ourselves and that means lesbians can too #if anything its just worse that u reskinned it as a masc woman bc of what that says abt how u view and treat masc women #butchfemme

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