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legofemme · 3 months

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Other people w adhd . Do you guys also just... Suck really bad at one on one conversations. I always feel bad about talking to people one on one because i genuinely dont know how to navigate talking without feeling like im needlessly infodumping. It makes me feel guilty when i see my other friends talking about how much they talk to people, because it then feels like my inability to talk is a moral failing, and not something inherent to my particular neuroses.

#vani verbals #i just saw a post abt how someone had to literally undergo training as a kid to learn how to talk like a normal person one on one #without just devolving into hyperfixation talk and it made me think about how it might not just be me #its hard to articulate how i feel without also feeling like im guilt tripping my friends or being a hypocrite #i just really really struggle to talk to people and i constantly feel bad about it because i dont want to initiate anything #if i feel like itd be one sided. and i dont know how to make it not one sided because i just. dont know what people casually talk about

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