#wish me luck chat i haven't looked at it over the weekend

[bookwyrminspiration]

sisyphus moanin about that boulder when he doesn't even have to write a research essay with three strangers

[worldwright]

Good evening !

I saw two acquaintances today when taking the bus. Always like to talk with them. But my day was long and boring

Trying not to drown yourself is hard but tomorrow night I'll be with my partner so everything will be fine

ALSO, "funny" thing, I can be diagnosed with PCOS without even any symptoms except the facial hairs. It's the only thing all the doctors I saw/see seem to believe in EVEN if it makes no sense because I don't have any polycystic ovary. They really don't know and all my blood tests and came back negative but they still want me to be diagnosed with PCOS so thanks ?

I can't get over with the medical staff fucking around with my diagnostics. Like, I have all the symptoms of depression, but nope, for them I don't have it. But facial hair ? YOU HAVE PCOS !!!! PLEASE DO ALL THESE BLOOD TESTS TO CONFIRM IT !!!!! THEY CAME BACK NEGATIVE

ALSO VERY FUNNY I WAS WRITING THIS AND SOME SPAMER SENT ME A THREAT EMAIL AND THEY STARTED BY "Hello, my perverted friend". LIKE. BRO. I READ AO3 FICS ? OF COURSE IM PERVERTED AND OF COURSE I DONT HAVE A WEBCAM. ALSO I DONT HAVE A DICK YET WHO DO THEY THOUGHT I WAS. IM LAUGHING SO HARD MAN. I LOVE SPAM EMAILS THEYRE SO SILLY <3 <3 <3 <3

Have a wonderful morning my friend !

good morning!! I am having a TIME on this work project.......... ughh I'll get there lol

ah that medical shit sounds so frustratingggggg I wish you luck 😭😭

this morning I tried to go chat with my apartment building manager about getting another set of keys (for a catsitter) and they were very late!! so late on fact that I had to just give up and go to work!! because SOME people actually have to adhere to schedules!!!!! but not this guy, apparently!!!! this guy can just show up whenever, and if someone has a problem they can just go fuck themselves I guess!!!!!!! great times :)

the reason I need a catsitter in the first place is because im gonna go visit all my friends at college for a weekend! haven't seen them in a While so I'm super excited :3

here's a picture of Theo to cheer us up

he wants to have a talk with me

OH AND LOOK AT THIS

look at how naive I was 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 "a comedy". wow. it's incredible that I thought that. to be fair I was like six episodes into the 98 series

[living-d3ad-gh0ul]

Tuesday 17th October 2023, 02:45am

I really should be asleep right now. But I can't seem to get comfortable and when I do, my brain just won't shut up. So here I am, writing to you. I've been thinking about you a lot lately. I don't know why. I think I've been missing you a bit. Is it strange to miss you? I don't know. I'm sorry if it is.

I really hope your blood tests came back okay and everything is all well with your health. Do you know when you'll have surgery yet? I was thinking about that the other day and hoping I hadn't missed it, so I could wish you good luck for it. I'm really glad to hear that you've found a job you can do that will turn into a career too and that you can get the training for it. Has that happened yet? Or are you still waiting?

I knew you were thinking of leaving the band, and that's okay. If it's ran it's course for you, then I'm sure your bandmates will be understanding, especially if they're your friends. I really hope the last two shows went well and that you enjoyed playing them at least and I hope the last show you do next month is good too. Will it be near your birthday? Because I know that's coming up really soon too. It's the week after I get back from another comic con, I go away on 17th November and come home on the 19th, so I'm just gone for the weekend. This time it's in Wales, I've only been there once when I was a kid.

Aw no poor Chonky :( I really really hope she's okay now. It sucks when our pets get sick, because they don't have a voice to tell you exactly what's wrong, so it can be pretty worrying. It's a good job that owners can usually tell though when something's wrong and what it could be, because they know their pet well. But it sounds like you did the right thing for her and I hope she's feeling much better now. I'm sure she loved having you look after her and care for her and make sure she was all okay.

Don't worry about streaming and stuff, you can come back to it whenever you feel like it, whenever you have the time. I look forward to the next time you do, I've missed chilling in your chat and just.. hanging out. I liked it before. I actually was playing some of the Cyberpunk DLC myself the other week, it was quite fun haha. But I definitely think I need to start upgrading my PC soon. Definitely a new fan and CPU and maybe a secondary SSD. I would upgrade my GPU but those are so expensive and my 1080 still serves me well at the moment.

I'm sorry it's been a little bit since I last wrote, I've just been busy with work mostly. I haven't had much going on or much exciting happening. Apart from going over to Belfast to surprise my best friend, that was quite cool. We went to another convention, I just booked a flight and a hotel and turned up. She had no clue I was coming and was really surprised when I got there haha. I literally just went over for like.. 24 hours. I'd felt bad cause I had to cancel a trip to go see her at the end of this month just due to work and not being able to get the holidays and stuff. So I was pretty upset and just wanted to do something kinda.. fun and spontaneous? Idk

Ian Somerhalder walked by me too and didn't even notice it, it wasn't until my best friend pointed him out and I was like "oh shit" hahaha. But I was more excited about Peter Facinelli and Jackson Rathbone from Twilight, I used to love that when I was like.. 14. I would have met Ian and Paul too, but it was far too expensive for me. Maybe some day I will. I recently started watching The Vampire Diaries again, since it's spooky season and all and I haven't watched it for years. So I've went right back to the start, I'm at the end of season 1 right now where Isobel is in it (I hate Isobel. And I fucking hate John Gilbert too)

It was also my dad's birthday on 8th October. That was a pretty hard day. I was quite sad and upset all day, but I watched a lot of my dad's favourite programs and stuff and tried to distract myself. Red Dwarf, Monty Python, The Mighty Boosh (which me and my dad actually started watching together) and some Billy Connolly. I also listened to some of his favourite music too. And I got a clootie dumpling from a local bakery (it's like a Christmas pudding kind of but not as rich), coincidentally it was the same bakery me and my dad and grandma and grandpa would go to, it was just down the street from my grandma's house. My grandma used to make him one for his birthday every year when he was a kid, instead of a birthday cake because it was cheaper. And he loved it. It was one of his favourite things. He'd always ask me to bring him some down when I'd go down and visit him in Nottingham, because you can't really get it anywhere in England and to make a proper one yourself, it's a bit of a pain and really easy to mess up if you don't do certain things right lol. When he was in the nursing home, I remember one day the chef had came to talk to him and asked him about food he liked and stuff. He was telling me that they'd asked him what kind of birthday cake he wanted and my dad immediately asked if he could have a dumpling. The chef agreed and said they absolutely could do that and I remember my dad being so so happy. His face was just.. completely lit up, big wide smiles, all excited. I think that's what made me extra sad, because he had been so excited for his birthday and his dumpling. He really liked the simple things in life, honestly.

So even though he wasn't here, he got his dumpling. I went out early on the Saturday morning and picked it up, had a chat with the guy who owns the bakery (who actually weirdly recognised me and asked me who my family were, so I told him and he immediately remembered me from when I was a kid, telling me about how he remembered I'd come in with my grandma to get the rolls and the papers, how I'd come in with my dad for a yum yum or a strawberry tart lol. I unfortunately had to break the news of my dad's passing to him, he didn't know. And he was quite sympathetic. He was a nice guy, just as friendly as I remembered when I was a kid. I'll attach a picture of the dumpling to this so you can see. I stuck a candle in it and everything for him. Sang him happy birthday and cried while doing so. But I knew he'd be nearby. I knew he'd be standing right behind me hugging me while I did. God just writing this is making me tear up a little bit.

I've started some grief counselling too. I think they are really helping me. I'm getting it through the hospice who helped with dad's end of life care, even though the were only involved for.. well a few days.. they've given me more support that some family have (my mother included. I'm still at odds with her. She's done more horrible and nasty shit since we last spoke and.. honestly I'm just seeing her for her true colours now, realising that I've been gaslit, emotionally neglected and manipulated by her for a very long time). My boss has been more than happy to allow me to attend these sessions, because they know in the long run it's going to help me and isn't going to affect my performance at work or anything. I'm actually doing really well at work at the moment, even considering that it is incredibly stressful and emotionally/mentally taxing at times, but I've had nothing but good reports in my weekly catch ups with my manager so far. So I think it's safe to say they can see that I am more than capable of doing the job. I just wanna try get through my probation and then move to a different department. Something that doesn't involve talking to customers lol.

Gran also got out of hospital, which is a good thing. She's back home and still resting and stuff, trying to get her strength back. She was in there for like.. just over a month. Unfortunately we don't think shes gonna be able to get any more chemo though, which sucks. But we're hoping her oncologist will still be able to do surgery for her, we just have to keep trying to get her strength up and make sure she's eating well and we're getting her walking and stuff. Even if it's just to the kitchen and back or around the garden. Small steps. It hopefully will make a big difference. I've been making sure to go see her at least once a week, even just for a couple hours at the very least.

I don't have much else going on right now. It's just work and looking forward to next month when I go to Wales. I don't think I have anything incredibly exciting planned for Halloween, which sucks, but I'll be working this year unfortunately. Maybe I can just relax and watch some spooky movies after work, eat some terrible sweets and enjoy myself a little. Oh and I'm on some new medication too actually, I'm not sure if it's working yet, I don't feel anything different. This is for a physical thing, not a mental thing. But it's nothing too serious, just something I need to like.. manage symptoms of.

I really hope you're doing well, E. I hope everything's going good and that your health is good and Chonky is good and work is starting and surgery is getting scheduled and all the good things. I know it must be getting warmer there too, because it's definitely getting fucking colder here haha. I've been absolutely frozen in the mornings for a couple days now, until I turn the heat on again and warm up. I think it's gonna be a reaaaaally cold winter this year which is unfortunate.

I really hope to hear from you soon. And I hope I've got more exciting things to tell you next time.

N x

"I saw you in a dream then it came to an end, I wonder if you'll come visit me again"

(the selfie was me at the con in Northern Ireland. It was SO fucking hot, I was boiling all day. But I still looked cute I think.. maybe haha)

[sundaymorningwalk]

Sunday 30th January 2022

Hello readers, it's that time of the week again, out on location once again, I've forgotten what it's like to walk the paths of North Worcestershire.

Down on the sunshine coast this weekend and the sun actually came out!

Dawn as I awake and dress, orange hi-viz trousers and a green florescent jacket this should make the cars see me when I'm crossing the road.

With the time at 6.56am I'm off out the front door of our warm guest house into the fresh morning 3 degrees of the Eastbourne air on another #sundaymorningwalk

Off to the seafront I trot, Venus the morning star the brightest object in the sky until the sun rises and hides it in a blanket of light.

I pass a couple of AST's in Treasure Island carpark, AST overload this weekend must have seen at least a dozen.

Eastbourne living up to its AST capital of the world.

Lots of joggers and doggers on the prom and even more photographers with their tripods out and expensive looking cameras perched on top, eagerly awaiting the show which will commence today at precisely 7.38am.

I pass under the pier and notice a couple of Asian lads setting their camera up, perfect for me to try out my little bit of Hindi.

"Nameste!" I say and they turn and look at me smiling, "kya hal hai? I say quickly followed by "Hindi bolte ho"?

Just my luck, 425 million people speak Hindi and i pick on two lads who don't speak it!

They are Indian though which saves my embarrassment from the southern state of Tamil Nadu.

We have a quick chat in English before I wish them a good day and continue my walk.

Bang on 7.38 the first sliver of orange starts to appear on the horizon and within a few minutes the whole ball is visible.

An amazing site which reminds me of an Indian sunset....how I miss Goa.

I turn back adjacent to the Western Lawns and greet every passer by with a smile and a Good Morning, both are reciprocated.

I pause to purchase a black coffee from a beach side vendor, the freshly made pastries smell divine but I hold off buying one as our lovely landlady is preparing a full English for us.

I make my way back to the house and decide to pop into the paper shop to buy a paper, something I haven't done for a while.

I place the paper on the counter and the gent looks at me as I attempt to pay for it with my phone, "£3 minimum for a card". I give him an Indian head wobble and leave the paper on the counter and walk out.

Back into the guest house and it's all quiet, no sizzling bacon or black pudding in the pan, so I take the opportunity to take over the TV with Radio 2's GMS followed by Steve Wright's Sunday love songs.

A nice cuppa as I reminisce the walk I've just completed.

I hope the sun is shining wherever you are today and have a great Sunday everyone.

Weather permitting I'll be out on the bowling green in Nuneaton next Sunday so until next time

Ta-ra for a bit