#why can't i multitask smh

[samuelroukin]

how am i literally unemployed (= endless free time) and yet there isn't enough time in the day to do everything i want to do ??

[starstruckmoony]

call it what you want.

masterlist

pairing - remus lupin x fem!reader

summary - pure social media chaos. the whole gang is here. proper romance/fluff starts in the next part!

trope/tags - band/celeb!au, instagram/social media!au, modern!au, fluff, terrible humour

word count - 610

warnings - language

part 1 / part 2 / part 3

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[b-lessings]

why is it that so many men in the muslim community just don't know how to be great husbands. Why have so many mothers failed in their duty to raise good responsible men. They have a soft cushioned life in their mothers homes and then they seek out marriage and intentionally or unconsciously want the wife to mother them. Why is it so difficult to feel like an equal. I feel like women are so good at multi tasking and managing a huge deal of responsibilities and it's so tough when you aren't met halfway. It feels like a burden and a heavier one with kids in the picture.

Why are the muslim men of today so inadequate at leading their families. At being strong loving muslim husbands.

It's just so heartbreaking feeling like you married your person but you can't bask in your feminine energy.

Listennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn! I have talked about this a billion times with my girls!!! Aaaaaaaaaaaaah sis!!! Amen to everything you said!! Sadly, it is very very very true. But I'll break my answer into three points, and I'll start with the easiest one:

- The fact that women are so good with multitasking, yes we are, because we are the superior creation, the more developed one 😎. No but seriously, scientifically, our brains and their brains don't function the same way. I have read about this a lot before that unlike women, guys need to process things one step at a time, one thing at a time. Let's say for example you're asking your husband for a pair of socks. You'd get better results, more efficiency, if you tell him "go to my side of the closet, open the last drawer, you'll find my socks, grab me any pair" than saying "can you get me a pair of socks?", because in the second scenario he'll go into freeze mode and he will ask "where are they?" blah blah and they might as well be in front of his eyes but he won't "see" them. Whereas, as wives, we'd anticipate that he's gonna need a pair of socks and we'll get it ready before he even asks 🙃. Men's hearing skills are also not as sharp as ours tbh. Sometimes I feel like they exert selective hearing, only hearing the bare minimum, or like you need to really get their attention and make sure their eyes are alert and on you before you ask them something, smh. (Well, because most of their brain is used to figure out how to provide and how to protect blah blah blah .. oh well, that's IF THEY WERE PROVIDING AND PROTECTING tsk tsk).

Lmao, listen sis, I don't want to sound like I am frustrated with our fellow humans, there are really some decent men out there, doing their absolute best to provide for their families, may Allah swt bless them and reward them with Jannah, ameen. I just wanted to clear out the physiological or natural differences outta the way because that's just how Allah made them, and it has nothing to do with culture or upbringing. Which leads me to your first point.

- It's not about Muslim men, it's about some certain cultures rather than religion. If you are seeing this trait in Desi men or Arab men or North African men, Islam is only relevant in a way that they did not have good Islamic teaching or guidelines on how to treat their wives and how to detach from their moms, same thing for the moms who didn't raise these men per the true Islamic teachings that preach qawamah, responsibility, self-reliance, etc. Yes, these moms they failed as you said because they were over coddling their " princes ", sadly they never cut the umbilical cord. Hypothetically, they never stopped breastfeeding. Siiiigh. My ex boss once told us that a guy only becomes a man after his mom dies, but as long as she's alive he'll always be a child even if he's a grandfather. Which, back to the upbringing, is what leads to their inability and inadequacy to lead their families and to step into the role of qawamah that Allah swt entrusted them to. That is very unfortunate wallahi, and that's why the wife feels like she has to step in and fill in the gap, especially if she is too conscious, too anxious, too frustrated. This reminds me of a quote I have read somewhere " I have never known a relaxed woman, a successful woman yes, but never a relaxed woman" .. oh well, because she doesn't feel safe enough in her environment to relax, she doesn't feel safe enough to let go of control, she doesn't feel reassured enough, she has to stay on top of things and she has to always be on the move, to make sure things are getting done. This affects her mental AND physical health, and then scientists wonder why women are more prone to auto-immune diseases. Astaghfirullah.

See, Islam solved everything. Islam teaches the guys to be responsible for providing for the wife and kids, whereas the woman's job is to raise a new generation of good Muslims. But when we move further from our deen, when our values get stained by the western propaganda, when our women are forced to be slaves to capitalism, that's where the imbalance happens, and that's how the system glitches.

I really want to get @heruwrittencanvas s opinion on this, so I hope she also replies to this.

And finally, I just want to reinforce that I am not talking about all men out there, but unfortunately, it's the majority. Allahu al mustaan.

[sewerfight]

I think sometimes some of you guys need to appreciate individual drugs for what they are instead of taking lots of them. Like why do you even want to smoke weed if you're going to be drinking hard later. Why do you want to combine an upper with a psychedelic. It's like saying you can't eat an omelette without making custard like yes the fuck you can. Sit down and enjoy yourself. People who try to multitask drugs have no understanding of how to entertain themselves. See, this is why I could never get into Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas. I kept saying "you are fundamentally unentertained" at the screen in damning judgement every time I saw Benecio Del Toro..smh

[beast-feast]

I need to be held but I also want to draw but I'm so SLEEPY why can't I multitask smh smh

[legalmargamind]

Dunno how you bishes throw 69 in the mix like it's no big deal. I can't multitask like that. 😕 it'd be more like 6...or 9. Either way my bish is gonna be mad smh

HAHAHAHAHA 69 is fucking awesome. You cum simultaneously. Daz why your bish is mad. Try to multitask. 😎🤙🏻