#whole situation is so fckd up

[ave661]

for Inquisitor, you will be missed♥

tried to create his model based on his cosplay

[tiodolma]

look man, i can still enjoy merthur while also acknowledging how insanely fckd up up their whole dynamic was. The political situation in Adventures of Merlin is downright, oh god, monarchist and fascist. And it's awful because the two main characters are complicit. And it is framed as GOOD. There is no proper self introspection of the characters. They couldn't even step back and think "WAIT I THINK I HAVE BECOME THE BAD GUY" "WAIT I HAVE BEEN THE BAD GUY ALL ALONG" even when they get called out MULTIPLE TIMES. Both of them are so SELF-RIGHTEOUS it makes me sick.

Merlin and Arthur are a fucking train wreck. I'm sure the writers had good intentions but the storyline is way too insidious and propaganda-inducing jfc.

I sweared they aren't worth any braincells. But the sheer audacity of this show. The sheer bullshttery they got away with. It is a work of art. A social commentary for years to come.

I hate it so much but I can't look away.

[jonquilete]

random but stefan’s character was fucked in every way and caroline was the saving grace of his character but also the doom. damon and ian won the hearts of everyone with his character and making them ship delena since s1. the writers tried to write good charachterisation especially for the past but ended up making damon better and human damon in contrast with his vampire self was so delicious especially since he was soooo pathetically in love and didn’t want to live and be a vampire but stefan makes him. stefan never stood a chance. and then we enter the whole i respect her wishes even if it kills her to damon being the bad guy just to save her like?!?!?! and then klaus and being the ripper and the whole s3 lskdjd. yes elena always loved stefan bc that was the right thing to do based on her being the main character so when she still chose stefan in that finale everyone went nuts so they had to come up with something like how stefan wants her as a human and sees her as a problem to be fixed. the only good writing is when stefan says something like i want to enjoy at being a vampire with her and join her but because of his problems he can’t. that’s the only reasonable explanation bc everything else is just out of character. also that whole he stalked her and wanted to know her and insert himself in elena’s life was a turn off even more for some which looking at it with fresh eyes isn’t something that bad. it’s just isn’t attractive. stelena being together immediately was just cliche and not as interesting as delena period. then they inserted delena meeting first ksjdj.

also stefan wasn’t really involved with anyone, didn’t have any dynamic besides caroline, where damon had with ric and liz forbes, the friendship with bonnie is just so beautiful, the occasional matt donovanism. like he just was funny and had nicknames for everyone. stefan didn’t have any besides care. they started involving him in s4 when they knew they were gonna make delena happen so they had to involve him somehow. and then make silas be a doppelgänger. like lmfaooo. That whole storyline is just nonsense written to prop Stefan’s character and importance and frankly is pathetic. They started that tid bit with caroline and some elena scenes and universe bs and he came back to life. S5 is just dumpster fire for delena too and it sucked. which s6 saved it. now we have stefan moving on with his life. I liked this season and rewatching it it was good, ofc the gemini storyline carried. stefan and caroline start to happen. honestly not a fan. and this is why he again was fckd. bc delena was clearly the romance of the show but nina left. they couldn’t make the changes they supposedly wanted to so delena became the endgame. and they make steroline kind of happen but just in the worst ways ever. and left it for s7 to become the main romance. now klaroline had huge fans so yet another situation similar to delena like lmfao it’s bad luck all around. they hated for making steroline happen bc klaroline was already sooo loved and popular. valerie was a nice touch and i liked them a lot while watching. him and caroline just didn’t work at all. stefan’s whole character was elena being his soulmate and how perfect they were for each other he never had a thing with any character for four seasons. he didn’t look at any girl any way, he had eyes for elena always. the writers were dumb man. so putting caroline with him was just not it. i get why julie wanted to have a stefan lexi thing going on. bc it’s something huge and meaningful. she helped him his entire life with vampirism and that’s why she probably wanted that to happen somehow bc what is there left? so they tried doing that with caroline but itjust doesnt work. care was a kiddie pool and shallow from the beginning. she was a self insert character, the audience’s mouthpiece and a karen later on. stefan’s character just didn’t fit with her at all. if the writers actually wrote for him something how they wrote for damon and elena in s1 then maybe it would have been possible. but they just didn’t have anyone to pair him up with so let’s go with caroline even though klaroline was much more loved. and then s8 dying as a hero ksjdndn. like this character had no chance. he was constantly that main character that needed to remind the audience he is the main character, the right best man, but it just made people turn off even more bc he was so broody and always the annoying right character and arrogant somehow. i mean ofc we have him barely treating any girl right like rebekah or caroline. especially caroline. she in s6 was desperate and in love but he didn’t have that till he supposedly figured it out later. and then the whole turning their emotions off was so annoying and boring to watch and they had s*x?! just a disaster ship. he is a tragedy character. damon didn’t struggle with being a vampire. he had a blast in fact. it was stefan who did, who struggled so much, was both the monster of the story but also the hero. who his heart was still pure. and who never stopped trying to be better. being a human again was his desire but damon got that too alongside with elena. i think people just at the end always simplify things. the writing was complicated and the fans were just going with vibes. the first season has all the moody mysterious dark vibes of vampires and that’s all stefan too. the whole red flags of how he stalked her and when he started to take blood how he changed and gaslighted elena and stuff. those are all vampiric sides. we explored everything of a vampire through stefan. the hard struggles. damon didn’t deal with that. he got to be the fun cool one. so much more but anyways

[nongnoopran]

Eps 4 Porsche was clearly drugged. They showed his drink getting “roofied” and the after affects which Vegas wanted to use to take advantage of Porsche and rpe him. It doesn’t matter what kinda drug it was, it altered Porsche’s consciousness, how his body felt, and his physical control over himself (ie he was so easily kidnapped without fighting back). I feel like we’d all do better to just accept that Porsche was under the influence and move on with our lives. Next week we’ll see how he reacts to the whole thing. Personally I feel like the writers did what they could with the original scene from the novel to keep it a pretty fckd up situation but not have it be as sick, egregious, traumatic, and unforgivable.

I mean this is the kinda story Kinnporsche is. It’s not a fluffy romcom and people are trying to act like kinnporche’s dynamic is gonna be like that and be wholesome or some sht. They have a fkd up dynamic since the start when Kinn literally kidnapped Porsche, held him captive, threatened his family to coerce him into being his bodyguard, beat him up, and pulled a gun on him. So while I empathize with Kinn on some things, he’s been on my sht list since the beginning though there are some morally much worse characters in this story imo Vegas.

Obvs kinnporsche are gonna get together and make something out it, but it’s still a dark and disturbing story. I think the comedic elements are making people forget that or people can’t reconcile that they’re enjoying watching something so messed up so there’s all these misguided theories, in denial theories that Porsche got sober before Kinn and him started going at it, or that Porsche forced Kinn (the sober one in the situation), or that Porsche “wanting” it mattered. Wanting it and consenting to it are 2 different things… just let the scene and the story be what it is. This scene is clearly dubcon and it’s ok to say so and still like the kinnporsche pairing as a whole.

[merdibbenj]

I am a kaylor/gaylor blog. I made this blog so I don’t mess up my kaylor aesthetic on my main. I’m also avoiding tons of hate 🤣 But hear me out fam.

The /kaylor troll/metacritic sabbotage event on 8/31 made me curious about Nina Nesbitt. Keypoints:

She’s such a random person to be on the troll anons and on twitter. If the kaylor troll event is connected to the Bottom and Scooper they wouldn’t just use a random person Taylor hasn’t interacted not even once in the last years and Nina has a long term bf btw. Sus. One key point how Nina might have been chosen that I can think of is an anon before. I’m active with kaylor and I recall reading an anon from a mutual turned anti as the kaylordom refers to her /more of a person who questions things which is not a bad thing/ about a girl with pink hair kissing Taylor in London. I have not looked up Nina Nesbitt before the kaylor troll/ back then I thought it was Ruby Rose. This was when? Start of the year? A lot of people had pink hair. Why her? Ruby Rose would be a better choice/ they had recent photos together. Hayley Kioko would be an even better choice/remember the onstage grinding 🤣. Actual lesbian jesus and the snake queen. Instead Scoopy Jokes chose someone I haven’t heard of. Super sus.

Have we stopped and think why this happened? Are we, tumblr kaylors and twitter kaylors that much of an impact to their lives that they sent bots to attack us just to rock our ship? Cuz le bottom is desperate when contract is ending? Taylor and Karlie wouldn’t go bankrupt if we stop shipping. They wouldn’t break up if we stop posting about them on the internet. What our opinions on this situation doesn’t matter to the bottomline. Then who were the attacks for? Metacritic is for Taylor cuz girl gets hurt by critics. The anons and tweets doe. Who are they trying to affect by exposing Taylor hooking up with Nina and Karlie hooking up with everybody after an alleged breakup? Uhhhh, Taylor and Karlie. 🤦‍♀️ If they really broke up, exposing those activities would hurt the possibility of them getting back together and fixing their rs.

What’s there to gain if they wouldn’t get back together from an alleged breakup? Uhhhh a multimillion bearding contract? Uhhhhh satisfaction of Winning? You fckd up $300M everyone knows your dumb ass won’t be earning it back cuz she’ll record them again. this isn’t just business it’s personal. Taking back one thing Taylor likes other than Karlie, control.

Sus sus sus. Botts sending anons here and there then they just stop? Either scoobie and shaggy developed a conscience or they won. They exposed them in an uncontrollable way. Idekk maybe this is part 1 of their plan😭 Just suspicious all over 🤔

Full disclosure, I don’t buy all things this person said 100% cuz threesomes and orgies and prostitutes and fucking someone dressed as your ex /hello/ doesn’t scream like the gal pals I love. I put my foot down there. Periodtttt.

I don’t have any sources like the big blogs. I don’t know if Karlie fckd everyone and if Taylor really fckd Nina but here are coincidences I found. Take off the tinted lover glasses we kaylors have for 5 mins and consider these coincidences I found in the last couple of hours.

Who can volunteer an explanation for this easter egg now that we have the album out? This can be coincidental. Song context of Love Letters is about moving on from someone.

Remember when Taylor used salute to me I’m your American Queen for Karlie’s American Dream line? Nina lives in London, I don’t think that the whole London Boy is writen about her/ its still sarcastic/ but this coincidence in the line stick with me I’m your Queen like a Tennessee Stella McCartney. Something happened in Tennessee. 🤔

How many times was blue mentioned in Lover? We know it’s Joe’s favees. But posting this coincidence before album release. She’s a swiftie but she’s never posted anything 13 related before this.

Nina wrote a song in NYC 2017 called black and blue. She’s playing that song while wearing the Lover palette 🎨 check how their album turned out. The post before is also a random throwback of them. Coincidence.

This coincidence. Sing Daylight with me, Side Stepping Into Monday Like and let it go. This maybe the mother of reaches 🤣 however it sounds like an inside joke about misheard lyrics.

I can do part 2 cuz there’s a ton. I feel like I fell down another rabbit hole again. I know kaylors have great experience with 🕵🏻‍♂️ check the timeline yourselves. I’m not sure when they broke up but it looks recent. Afterglow makes sense and the tweet about Tay sabbotaged PR premier is consistent with this narrative. Maybe they broke up. Is Tay rebounding or did sis cheat? The implication and Kar’s reaction. 🤦‍♀️🤔💔

[nongnoopran]

Now what Porsche said about Tawan was very messed up but he did it cause Kinn came at him with that energy. It was a retaliation to being attacked and as much as I cringed hearing him say that, I can’t really admonish him too much when kinn came out guns blazing. The little aggressive and condescending slap he gave Porsche, the accusation of being loose when he was actually being assaulted yet again, the caging him in against the sink while he’s still got a hand on his gun. Kinn did all that without knowing what tf was even really going on lol. You talk to your lover like that then that’s the energy you’re gonna get back and I think people have a hard time faulting Porsche when he wouldn’t have brought up Tawan like that if Kinn hadn’t acted out on his anger and fear in the way he did.

Like I get Kinn’s point of view and I think a lot of people do understand his anger. His anger is justifiable given what he thought was true based on what Pete said and what Kinn saw. The issue, for me at least, is how he chose to act out his anger. How Kinn chose to confront Porsche, not that Kinn was angry or some expectation that he shouldn’t have been angry…. And frankly, Kinn knew he fckd up too cause when Porsche was ready to walk away from that situation and give up, Kinn folded like origami and apologized.

Also Kinn is in a position of incredible power over Porsche. In relationships you gotta be equals unless it’s something explicitly negotiated. The very nature of their relationship has a huge power imbalance because of Kinn’s position. Kinn even showed his power over Vegas and the minor family in that bathroom scene. So I think also that people tend to sympathize with the weaker person in a lover’s quarrel and Porsche was the weaker person for many reasons, he’s subordinate to Kinn, he was tipsy/under the influence, he had just been assaulted, the fact Porsche was topless and Porsche’s submissive body language the whole time they were arguing, until after Kinn’s apology/hj scene. All this makes people sympathize with Porsche more even though both of them said extremely hurtful things to each other.

Also, are we gonna act like Porsche ISNT a womanizing man whore? My mans was giving out community dick at least twice a week… which Kinn is very aware of…

I just want to know why in this context people are mad at Kinn for lashing out in that way?

Let’s see:

Pete is recounting what’s happening to Kinn, and over romanticizing the situation.

Kinn is on his way, with the worst case scenario on his mind about the man he’s in love with.

Kinn walks in, Porsche is SHIRTLESS, with Vegas all over him.

What was Kinn SUPPOSED to feel? Other than anger and disgust? And THEN he confronts Porsche, based on what he’s seen and been told and has his ex brought up AGAIN as a gotcha moment by the man he’s opening his heart to. The man that he hasn’t told about the situation yet and is still throwing it in his face?

I’m gonna be real, at this point y’all just hate Kinn cause I personally would’ve said worse with the combination of emotions he was probably feeling…

Maybe it’s just me.

[datingadviceonreddit]

What's up guys, I'm the dude from the title. Yep that's me, the mormom dude who grow up in a really strict environment.To start, I respect the church and even though I'm inactive I learned a lot of valuable things from the church and I'm grateful for the values and morals I was tought. However, I'm curious and I want to explore the world around me more without the vast restrictions.I'm 23/yr old and about 5'10 or so. Not 6ft so that kinda sucks and honestly feels like a weight on my shoulders when it comes to dating. Thankfully I'm at least decent looking from what I'm told. My confidence on the other hand is pretty low. What confidence i do have is pretty falsified just to show some semi bravado so I get respect from my peers and don't seem like some little twerp.My hobbies are all but non existent. I know I love motorcycles and extreme style hobbies that give me an adrenaline rush or is a near death. Not entirely sure why but they make me feel something and it's extremely enjoyable for me. Normally I'm overly responsible and like a 23 year old boomer but when I get a motorcycle all rules go out the window. I just feel free of the constraints and I do stupid shit. That's the way I got my first criminal speeding ticket. 😅 Yikes, I know. But I did plenty i never got cougbt for an i had an awesome judge who apriciated honestly."Not necessarily relevant-Skip if needed" Backstory is kinda fckd up but who's isn't? I was born to a low life dad who beat his family on the regular. My mom left him around when I was 5 or so. During visitation he'd pretty much beat the shit out of me and mentally fuck with me the whole week/weekend. That went on till I was around 8 or so then around the time I turned 9 we went camping on visitation one summer. I came back pretty messed up. I'd flinch when someone raised their hand or moved too fast. I'd hide or get in the fetal position and cry when people yelled or raised their voice. Idk the rest but I can't remember my childhood for the mostpart so I'm not sure of all the details. What I know is what I was told by my mom. She remarried not long aftet and we moved away. Step dad was pretty mentally abusive and neglectful but he was a good guy. He clothed me and gave me food and a roof over my head. Can't complain about that one bit. "Not necessarily relevant-Skip if needed"Grew up my my life sitting in solitude playing video games because it was the only place I felt safe and actually found enjoyment in. This continued into adulthood for the mostpart and around 21 i wanted to hang out with friends and be more active in own life. It was pretty late at this point and making friends was kinda tough. I had no social skills aside from shit talking in video games. Fast forward to current and I'm much better at social situations and chatting it up with people. I can get along with almost anyone but I've recently come to realize "a friend to all is a friend to none" that day sucked....THE IMPORTANT PART FOR ANYONE IN THIS SUB* Now, onto the actual issues I have that pertain to this sub in particular. I may have social skills on a normal basis now and be chill with people. I seem to catch plenty of glimpses from girls and I catch them staring at times. Others can be flirty and fun to talk to but I have no game whatsoever. I usually just avoid it because I doubt i could keep em interested for more then a day. I've had plenty of tinder ventures that go great and turns into "let's smash" but as a mormon......I'm sure you can figure out the rest so that never really happens.😅I've had 1 relationships that lasted 2 years but it was ldr and she seemed really happy with me but I couldn't keep it up and got exhausted. We drifted and it turns out she was smashing a friend from high school which she politely let me know after I tried to break it off. (FYI-She was 20 dude was just a high school friend)I'm not sure what I'm really asking here but what I do know is I lack confidence, I know I don't look bad or have an issue with attracting anyone but my confidence and my experience are so lacking for what the majority of my encounters turn into. I want to find someone who is patient and not trying to rush anything because I tend to burn bridges fast if I don't like the direction things go. I almost want to say I'm just a wus when it comes to dating but I'm not like that with anything else in life. I clearly have the assets to be attractive enough for girls to want to engage with me but I'm practically scared of women and I have no idea why. A couple days ago I was coming back from the gym and I looked to my left at two girls staring at me at a red light. I got bright red and just looked strait. They honked at me and waves but I literally blasted out of that green light so fast it's not even funny. Idk why I do this HELP MEEEEE!!!TL;DR: Inexperienced guy has confidence issues and runs from girls interested. Can't find the resolve or confidence to handle my shit around women showing interest. via /r/dating_advice