#while ned interacted with all the starklings bar rickon
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oh, so close, buddy, so close. why, yes, it is sexist of grrm to use sansa this way while writing the starkling bonds involving brothers as all but conflictfree! (we only get that one flashback of robb hurting jon by screaming about his bastardy and it's revealed pretty late in the game, near the end of asos, after robb's death. and clearly happened when they were quite young, an isolated incident, without which robb would have been pretty much a perfect brother to jon.) but it's especially bad when sansa/arya aren't just the only stark sisters in present timeline, they're also only one of two developed sisterly relathionships in the entire series, the other being their mother and her sister. that relationship had cracks in it years before catelyn was aware of them, and ended with a death threat from lysa leaving cat bitter towards her. is kinslaying or near-kinslaying the resolution y'all want for arya and her sister or just never meeting again period? what a great sisterly track record that would be for grrm! not to mention a great ending for arya, ignoring her own desire to see all her siblings again and finally have a good relationship with sansa! it's true that you can really tell that agot sansa was created just as a foil to arya and it's clear which sister the writer favored back then, who we're meant to side with. but to think that grrm has done nothing better with sansa since then, has never developed her beyond the token unstark and a "camera pov" for more plot important characters, that she has never once expressed any care for her sister, and that there is never any hope for sisters with a bad childhood relationship to grow and get along better once they're older, that they can never have a good relationship and should never even try, well, i'd say that makes you more sexist than grrm ever was as a writer and also kind of insulting toward his later work. congratulations on that!
#asoiaf#sansa stark#fandom w@nkery#ftr one does not need to be a sansa stan loving above all other starks and other chars to be bothered by sexism#idt feminism equates to uplifting feminine women but it is an interesting choice of grrm's#that he could only introduce conflict for the starks thru more trad girly chars the mean stepmother and prissy princess sister#with the lady of wf defined by her motherhood yet only having scenes with robb (and jon)#while ned interacted with all the starklings bar rickon#and it never occurred to grrm to show conflict w robbjon a rship which should be tinged with jealousy and unintentional enforcement of such#until the 3rd book when robb was already martyred#asoiaf meta#(c)lsb
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