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whelpimnauthuman · 1 year ago

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I hate the fucking disability system.

I hate how I just had friends advise my spouse and I to divorce, because they look at both our incomes when I apply, and if my spouse makes too much, so do I (despite me being unable to work and not making anything) so I'm automatically disqualified. "You would have better chances if you were divorced."

And they're not saying it maliciously! They're going through the same thing; wanting to get married but applying for disability, knowing it's going to fuck them over so just. Not.

I hate that I was on disability when I was a baby, but my parents made too much money so I was taken off, and my parents just. Never followed up when they had the chance (bc. They didn't want to? Religious reasons?)

#disability #i hate this system #like. my friends are going to have their own ceremony in a church and everything just. without the court paperwork #which is great im happy for them! but also like - gjdjdjkfhs #idk the knowledge that. if something happened my spouse wouldn't be the person they'd look for #im probably way overthinking but it just kinda freaks me out a bit #also like. my mom always complaining growing up about not being able to afford my meds and shit #when. ma'am you KNEW i qualified for this (at least at one point) why did you not follow up???#AND THAT WAS BEFORE ALL THIS STUFF NOW GJDBDB #I'm just. tired ig #idk if they would've had an easier time than i am but... with how big a deal everyone made all the time you would've thought...#idk man i'm just tired

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