#when ur not taking care of urself in other avenues

[lavellane]

blowing u a kiss rn @abelas ❤️ i have sooooo many ideas for her life after trespasser i genuinely believe she would be a great candidate for a comic series lmao with the amount of sidequests i have set up for her.....

mainly her priority since trespasser has been learning old/taboo magics and understanding the power that comes with them in a sort of desperate hope to even the playing score between herself and solas. she basically goes into hiding for several years, guiding the inquisition thru decrypted letters between herself and divine victoria (leliana in her worldstate). during those years she goes all over : kirkwall, to interrogate fenris irt his lyrium vallaslin tattoos and their magic nullification abilities, and then staying in the city to learn more about meredith/the red lyrium/the insane blood magic sacrificial altar the whole city seems to be built upon. then back to the frostbacks to train with avaar augurs and learn their techniques with spirits. to revain to study with the seers, to the witches of the wild to study their shapeshifting abilities, to tevinter, to isolated dalish clans, to tal-vashoth, and im sure shes spent time with the wardens and veil jumpers too. just years and years and years of study and practice and building up an arsenal of knowledge while also quietly isolating herself from everyone and seething herself into a frenzy :)

maybe like 2 or 3 years prior to datv is when she Officially returns to the fold as the face of (whats left of) the inquisition. pretty much everyone who knew her is in shock by just how harsh and cold she's become. she was always cranky and impatient, but most of the inner circle understood that she had a lot of kindness under the surface and just struggled to convey it properly. but its harder to find that side of her now. and even if they could, she's too paranoid to let her guard down around ANYONE except the OG advisors . its hard out here !

[cocofawn]

xiva !! hope ur doing well and that logan and yūta is taking care of ya ! so uhm uhm, is it okay if i ask u on how i can widen my vocabulary? (⁠｡⁠ﾉ⁠ω⁠＼⁠｡⁠) i love love love ur writing so much and i get inspired everytime i read them but when i try to write, the words in my mind get all scrambled and messy ... (·•᷄∩•᷅ )

hallo, precious miroooo (◜ᵕ ◝ ྀི ) .ᐟ .ᐟ do take a seat 'n allow mi tew provide chu wif a potful of tea 'n a few pastries 🫖 fwom m’ pantry whilst we chat 🩷 i wld b sho honoured tew aid u wif ur dilemma .ᐟ .ᐟ

fwirst of all, i wld liek tew gib chu a biiig thanku fwor da praise .ᐟ .ᐟ 🥺 hearing dat da vrrie hobby i find solace in is able tew inspire such a creative soul such as urself 'n leave an imprint on ur craft is a privilege 'n an honour .ᐟ inspiring others wif m’  own work is indeed an unforeseen yet incredible outcome . . 'nd i am eternally grateful tew b able tew contribute dis littl bit tew chu 🩷

regarding ur question, well, i fink da key tew expanding ur vocabulary is simply immersing urself in a wide range of mediums. reading is indeed an excellent source fwor improving vocabulary, but there are many more forms of art 'n expression out there dat will help chu develop a rich lexicon, such as poetry, film, music, theatre, 'n video games. 

poetry, especially, can provide a plethora of words, phrases, 'n idioms dat will help build a foundation. a simple google search 'n a few moments spent exploring will lead chu down a rabbit hole filled wif endless opportunities tew learn 'n discover. 'tis also important tew keep an open mind 'n take in a wide range of works, from modern poets, tew ancient writers, 'n even foreign language writers ! i wld recommend dat chu choose pieces chu show interest or haff a connection wif, bcos da experience will be much more enjoyable 'n engaging .ᐟ da last thing chu want is tew feel liek ur doing a chore instead of a passion project .ᐟ .ᐟ

film can offer a variety of new phrases, expressions, 'n colloquialisms, which can be helpful fwor da creative aspect of writing. i would also suggest looking fwor films made by directors who share similar interests 'n values, since dat way, their work will reflect the same mindset 'n ideas dat chu are interested in .ᐟ .ᐟ 'tis important tew note dat not all films are created equal, sho 'tis imperative tew keep an open mind 'n haff discerning taste.

similarly, theatre can offer a wide range of vocabulary, particularly regarding the nuances 'n dialects used in different plays. 'tis an excellent form of expression, but one dat may require some practice 'n adjustment. exploring theatre will not only provide a large array of vocabulary, but will also expand ur knowledge on how language, tone, 'n body language can be used in various ways to communicate a multitude of feelings 'n ideas— which, in turn, can improve writing tenfold.

music is an undisputedly beautiful form of art. listening 'n appreciating it will help broaden ur horizons 'n enrich ur senses. da phrases, 'n words used in music are scrupulously crafted 'n arranged. they are woven together in a delicate balance, creating a unique, complex, 'n multidimensional experience. not only can music influence emotions 'n create vivid imagery, but it can also offer an entirely new world.

lastly, video games are another excellent outlet, particularly if chu are interested in storytelling. da characters, dialogue, 'n environments are carefully created, 'n every detail has a purpose 'n place. video games can provide inspiration 'n fresh material 'n can even help with the creative process itself.

moving away fwom media though, implementing eloquent speech into ur everyday life is another way dat will help chunprogress. using flowery language is 'n indeed a very pleasant 'n enjoyable experience, but if chu are interested in creating an extensive, rich vocabulary, chu will have tew explore different avenues.

using metaphors, similes, 'n allusions in daily conversations 'n texts is an excellent start. 

'n of course, if possible, reading aloud is a phenomenal exercise. practicing pronunciation 'n inflection is a valuable skill, 'n due tew u speaking out loud, da words will become much more familiar— embedding themselves in ur memory 'n providing an anchor fwor reference .ᐟ

when introducing urself tew new stocks of words, ur writing may become awkward, choppy, or even discombobulated. a tip tew avoid dis is tew not add tew many elements at once. instead, take small steps 'n integrate a few things at a time. da words may initially feel strange, foreign, or unnatural, but da more chu practise, da easier it will become ! chu should also keep in mind dat progress takes time.

i hope all of dis helps somewhat 'n provides an adequate solution fwor chu 🥺 if not, feel free tew message mi at anytime .ᐟ a fwend is wat i am here tew be 'n a shoulder is wat i am here tew offer 🩷

[serenityslab]

✷ simplicity is utterly genius

_find beauty and enjoyment in simple things; breathing, showering, dancing, drinking a cup of tea etc

_always remain mindful; when on social media, the words u use, eating, ur environment, the people u let into ur life, thoughts about urself etc

_have gratitude for everything

_become insanely lucky

_be kind and warm to everyone (even those who aren't to u..kill em with kindness as selena would say)

_make beautiful fuffiling connections

_go on fun, enjoyable adventures with ur friends

_find like-minded people all around you and easily befriend them (or anyone u want to)

_small yet close circle of great friends irl

_enjoy the silence/doing nothing (it becomes a fun habit that produces creative ideas, self discovery and clears ur mind)

_fun early mornings (cuz u sleep and wake up early)

_fall in love with old hobbies again and do them frequently

_discover new interesting hobbies that set ur soul on fire

_regularly spend time doing what you love without ever getting bored or tired of it

_view the world and people with a childlike curiosity and open mindedness

_have that childlike confidence where you naturally speak ur mind, be yourself and just doing what makes u happy without a care in the world

_only think about positive things that excite and bring you joy and peace

_only think hard about those you know genuinely love and care for you..the ones who fill u up with joy and excite you.

_go on nature walks daily

_be able to clear your head and feel peace by doing simple things such as saying a prayer, drinking water, going outside etc

_moderately and mindfully use ur phone.. genuinely enjoy using it again like u did when u got a phone for the first time

_effortlessly spend more time with God

_your quiet time with the lord always leaves you with a refreshed feeling, renewed hope, faith and trust in him

_reading the bible is so interesting to you

_effortlessy read and understand the bible + be able to genuinely enjoy it and the way it connects u to God

_you always know how to pray effectively

_you say a prayer whenever u get the chance to

_always remember to spend time with God, first thing in the morning.

_always talk and connect with God throughout ur day

_you are not afraid to be seen or heard

_be confident and secure in who you are

_ you have a 'unbothered, in ur own world just having fun kinda energy'

_always process emotions instantly in a healthy manner

_remain calm, cool, centered and collected no matter the circumstance

_easily adapt to any changes or circumstance with ease

_stop taking urself and life so seriously and be more light-hearted, unbothered, carefree and charismatic

_love yourself and ur body unconditionally

_easily detach and let go of all toxic people in ur life who try to bring you down and ruin ur peace

_you know ur intuition is always trustworthy and reliable so you know to never doubt it

_you don't dim your light to make others comfortable, you're just unapologetically you

_stop caring about what people who don't even care about think; u know their opinions, words or actions don't define or determine how u feel about yourself and in general

_forgive those who have hurt you and forgive yourself with ease

_heal from childhood trauma with ease

_develop a healthy, positive, loving relationship with yourself built on the foundation of love and kindness

_always have delicious meals to eat daily

_get only positive healthy benefits from eating junk food

_effortlessy drink 3L of water daily without feeling the need to constantly pee

_everybody gifts you money without you even asking all the time. (money magnet)

_always find different unique and easy avenues to make lots of money (online and offline)

_you always have more than enough money

_be able to eat anything you desire without gaining weight or bloating

_permanently stop bloating

_gravitate more towards eating healthy

_healthy foods make you so happy because you find them to be extremely delicious

_effortlessly exercise your creativity in different ways daily

_there's always more than enough time for your creative outlets, hobbies and connection

_nothing can ever distract you cuz you are always mindful

_use time wisely. a day feels like 4 cuz of how much time you always have

_be insanely time efficient

_always do everything effeciently/become an effecient person at everything (eg. what is meant to be done in a week, u effortlessly do in 1 hour)

_always see everything you start to it's completion

_finishing what you start is just the typa person you are...you leave no stones unturned. no loose ends when you're involved

_discover calm and serene 'secret spots' near ur home and always have time to go there (protection affs included)

_always be left alone when u want to

_easily be able to make and sustain conversation on the phone, texting and in person.. everyone u come in contact with says you're fun to talk to

_quiet home environment/always have ur personal space to do what you want, no one bugs you

_always have electricity, unlimited data/wifi and water

_make a more than comfortable living doing what you love most

_discover little details about yourself daily

_have a strong sense of self/know who you are

_always effortlessly set and assert strong boundaries when needed

_have a optimistic/positive mindset at all times

_be extremely talented and gifted at your desired skill

_enjoy being in the present and always have positive thoughts about the future

_have that dream big mentality that kids always have

_you know ur future is bright and beautiful. you're proactive and take steps towards making those big dreams a reality and they come to pass effortlessly

_every hairstyle, makeup and clothing looks good on you

_know how to cook spectacularly.. everyone says ur food is delicious

_always be authentic, never compromise on ur values, morals and true identity for any reason

_everybody loves ur authentic self

_you authentic truest and highest self is now out in the open..and u are unapologetically her.

_treat others how u wanna be treated

_your home and work environment is rich in nature and beautiful scenery.. it's such a peaceful and recharging environment

_have time and financial freedom

_you enjoy and thrive in social situations and in solitude

_always do and purchase what you NEED (i.e working on that project you've been putting of rather than scrolling thru socials, buying clothes u know u WILL wear and items u know u WILL use as opposed to what getting what you know you're neva gonna touch)

_always give place ur focus on what matters most

_all ur inputs are healthy and u do them frequently (i.e reading, studying, writing, listening to subs etc)

_you regularly output/create

_while ur social media and phone usage is extremely healthy and enjoyable, you enjoy being present and living ur life in real time than anything else

[oddishfeeling]

Could you explain how burning the neighborhoods down is supposed to fight systematic racism? When they’ve destroyed all the stores people were getting their essentials from, after a pandemic already strained the supply line, do you think they will thank them for that?

has anyone paid the right amount attention to peaceful protest ever?

this country only responds to destruction

they evisercate n starve Black communities, they brutalize them , they plant drugs and keep them impoverished. but u want everyone to sit down quietly n take it jus like the last 300 years

sorry the revolution isnt convient for you but no one cares about ur precious material attachments

way to deliberately leave out alllll of the instances of communities that have come together in the aftermath to feed each other n clean the mess they likely didnt even make

way to leave out allll of the footage caught of the police destroying things and planting bricks and tagged cop cars. or worse, u left out all the people showing up in cosplay with fucking bows & SWORDS. NONE of those people are protestors but protestors were out there peacefully the next day cleaning that shit up

do u think change happens magically. theres layers. theres avenues. stop getting ur info from the news and find the truth for urself. i dare you