#when such a MAJOR component of your identity-centric space-carving revolves around excluding women... you're just a fucking MRA
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i will never understand the insular fraternalism that so many (mostly white) ftm/trans men participate in... why are you so hellbent on having no transfeminine friends? you don't want to get to know any trans women as people? you don't want to listen to their life experiences? you don't want to play videogames with them? you don't want to talk about book recommendations with them? you don't want to talk about their pet dogs or cats or fish or birds or lizards with them? you don't want to share parts of your life with them? why the fuck not?
#part of the reason i have never related to transmasc insular fraternalism is that so much of it derives from transmedicalism#like a lot of those original 'trans men only space' types are or were transmedicalists/truscum#who automatically disqualified me from transmasculinity as a 'faker' for not wearing a binder or wearing dresses#or never wanting facial hair despite going on T#invalidating my gender fluidity or invalidating my partial manhood because of my remaining proximity by choice to femininity#because god forbid i have a complex gender identity#i've always felt safer around my in-person transfem friends... as far as in-person trans friends go#when such a MAJOR component of your identity-centric space-carving revolves around excluding women... you're just a fucking MRA
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