#when my 45 minutes tiktok scroll per day gets interrupted by stupid opinions

[scarefox]

Pisses me so off when a certain side of the BL fandom calls you homophobic when you remind them that actor XY did not come out officially as LGBTq+ or to be in a same sex relationship (yet) EVEN THO they are lowkey obvious and there are rumors about them since ages.

They treat it as if you don't want to accept the actor as queer or in a relationship, as if you are offended at the implication of the actor being queer or taken. Or actually accuse you of trying to force the actor out of the closet when you demand an official statement as proof when these fans put the actor in official LGBTq lists (or tiktok clips in this case).............. When actually it's just simply a thing of respect to a fellow not-outed queer person to not publicly talk and announce it worldwide as if they are out. THAT is forcing them out of the closet!

Even if it's an open secret to close fans, we keep treating it as that! An open secret and not as facts! Till said actor says it themselves or makes it at least so very obvious they don't mind. The only example I know for that last case is PP Krit. I think he never really came out but at some point it wasn't necessary anymore since he never denied it or hid it till he now openly embraces it (i remember a live stream pre ITSAY where random english speakers came in and called him homophobic slurs and he basically said something along the line of "at least i am not as miserable as you" so basically didn't deny that he's gay).