#what really gets me is if I forget to tag valentine as nonbinary somewhere in the meat of the post or at all

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Still surprisingly not over the Other category but the other part of marketing nonbinary pairings is like the lack of terms we have. I can’t exactly call Abernathy/Valentine toxic yuri because Valentine isn’t a woman, but she was when that ten year uneven relationship started! And to some degree she enjoys “playing” the loyal butch role, even if that isn’t quite the right descriptor to have for her. Anyway it’s such a pain not to have easily understood words or terms for yourself and idk why I’m experiencing it mostly through trying to tag my writing but here we are. If I was *smart* I could come up with some kickass terms myself but alas…