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okay is she being actually immature or is it just a woman over 30 expressing a human experience you find to be immature.
like yeah. at certain ages... let shit go. im not defending the real immature shit. im not defending the karen you're picturing. i worked in retail i hate those people too. (once somebody got mad at me because she didn't like how our winter window decor was a snowman smoking a pipe. i wish i was joking).
but men at 57 will write books about how 17 year old girls are soooo sexy. they will invent worlds where women have to be naked for "armor reasons." they will write songs that treat women as objects. people rush to defend them. meanwhile a woman at 35 will be like "heartbreak is hard, actually" or "i feel betrayed by a friend" or "i am struggling with something emotionally." immediately people will say stuff like this woman is 35 by the way. by the way this woman is SO OLD to be experiencing this. BY THE WAY.
im 31, almost 32. the other day a poet was blasted online because at her "big age", she had written a poem about feeling unloved. top comment was "this woman is 29 by the way." this woman is too old to still be useful, by the way. she has to behave better . maybe if she was a good wife and mother she could stop existing loudly, and the story could continue on without her. this woman has served her purpose, by the way. she's so cringe, by the way. at 29 - so old! - she still hasn't figured out that her existence should be one of shame.
#what the fuck.#unfortunately by the time i'd switched accounts (from personal to my poetry one)#i couldn't find it :(#this is why u SEND URSELF THE POST. WHICH I KNOW TO DO BUT!!!#i was so mad i just was like āi'm about to tear this commenter in twainā and . lost da post#if u urself are the 29 and got recently flamed by instagram#i love u. come here. write with me. i was about to pick up a sword for u.#i mean a BIGASS sword.#like we all know im a wlw girlie but the way ppl will be like ''id NEVER write sad poetry about a MAN not LOVING me!!!"#..... wowwwww ur so cool. anyway. people often experience emotions regardless of what u consider cringe.#& if ur gonna shame straight/bi women for feeling a certain way. hope u never write about the#weird relationship between u and ur father. or feeling different from ur brother.#or how ur male best friend fucked u over. since it's SO CRINGE. to have ANY feelings caused by a MAN#like be so for real. beloved. nobody is fucking saying this when men do it.#''oh it's cringe to like a woman or feel heartbroken by her.''#controlling women's feelings and actions???? it's more likely than u think.#btw op is nonbinary do NOT be gender essential on this post i'll kill u with my teeth#edit: btw for the person who dm'd me ''when is it misogyny and when is it actually valid''#pretty easy. if a man had done it#would it be cringe? . like if a man sang a sad song about ''she broke my damn heart''?#if he said ''i want to have kids with her'' or something sexually explicit?? like would u even LIKE IT if a male poet had said it?#& if it's like. nah a 35 yr old man being upset about this is cringe too. yeah it's just cringe. that exists. we both know it does.#but .... often i see this ONLY about women. and i can't help but hear like. how back in middle school#we were fed the lie ''girls mature faster.'' ... why do i have to be emotionally regulated? but if a man wrote about the same things?#..... idk . im pretty anti cringe culture to begin with. but this one feels so bad to me . ur still a person past 33.
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i feel like this is a topic that needs more than just a tumblr post to fully expand on but. i think that in modern-day christian culture we place WAY too much emphasis on Feeling and Emotion . and i think that this attitude is part of the reason why the most common struggle you hear is "God isn't speaking to me/I can't hear God". feels like the standard set is that you're constantly feeling a Supernatural presence and it's Big and Obvious and it Shows and you can't contain it... when that's just not it. God can be quiet. God can nudge. God's voice is contained in the Bible that you hold between your hands. If you're not "hearing Him" then maybe your expectation of what hearing Him is is flawed.
#julia.txt#the culture around worship.... around Feeling and Performing those feelings#the misuse of the Holy Spirit#the 'well if you're convicted then dont do it but if you're not its fine'#the 'do what feels right for you'#like no actually. we have God's will in written form#its not about What We Feel. its about what is Written#and sometimes even if something is not addressed explicitely word for word in the Bible#you can still very easily discern God's will about it#<- now this is an unrelated tangent#but you get what i mean#not to mention the whole speaking in tongues thing#faith posting#THE HEART IS WICKED AND DECEITFUL ABOVE ALL THINGS!!!
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A scientist can be a haunted house
in other words, the catchphrase from The haunting of Bly Manor rewired my brain chemistry Spiritual (heh) succesor of this piece If you like what I do, hereās my ko-fi and my commission info
#gravity falls#billford#bill cipher#stanford pines#ford pines#the haunting of bly manor#bly manor#my art#my fanart#bly manor's thesis is very explicitely about unselfish love vs possessive love#AND GUESS TO WHAT TRIANGLE IT REMINDED OF#bill wants to possess ford in the most literal way#and his love of ford will not stop him from very much hurting ford#i am so sane i am so normal
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For šš, what about Marx? Little cute creature concealing incredible magic and uncanny features! I think he could be so mean to her ā¤ļø
oh... anon you are very big brained for this one. he could unfortunately be so so mean to her.... and he has such pretty pretty wings! she would be enraptured instantly.
bonus eye-anim version (cw eyes/flashing gif):
#a moth to a flame...#this is maybe not especially... shippy sorry. he's just... Looming Menacingly.#the way he *always* does in my artwork.... boring.#unfortunately my marx is an intelligent eldritch meanie. *feels* a bit more than my galacta knight but no less grey in the morals.#for what it's worth i DID come up with a short comic for this prompt as well. but it's Not Nice. would y'all still want me to do it?#nothing overt or explicit. but like... manipulation i suppose. mean lies. it's not even About Her really. just a pawn.#and yes his lashes ARE getting bigger every single time i draw him. like he deserves. wings too#i gotta learn to simplify these damn hexagons#actually a very big fan of the implied parallel. cute little uncanny creature. i could do a lot with that actually. there's a lot here.#also if i had to wake up in a cold sweat about this so do the rest of you but: Starx.#Starxstrarx if you're feeling especially mischievous. try and say it aloud. it's what he'd want. you're welcome.#cw flashing#<- only under the cut. but just in case.#marx (kirby)#starstruck dee#my art#šš
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Anyone's sent today's Wolverine issue to Brevoort yet? You know since he keeps on yapping how the throuple is lacking evidence especially in recent issues LOL. This is exactly what the starving throuple fans deserved. It's not EVERYTHING of course, because this is still Marvel, but you can read it however you like and they didn't just retcon it from orbit as was at some point rumored. These panels make me mighty emotional, and now I'm ready to write ALL the throuple and scogan things for pride month :D.
#x men#across misc x verses#scott summers#scogean#scogan#this is what my hurting heart needed#after last week's bullshit#thanks to dear scottxlogan for the find#i wasn't a big fan of this wolverine run#because i don't see the need for all the gore in an all age medium#like god beware you show anything explicitely queer#because THINK OF THE CHILDREN#but who cares about children seeing all the gore amirite#anyway imma write now#wolverine#jean grey#countering all the poly hate i have to see in these tags lately#SO DOES LOVE INDEED#and this leaves the door open for a return someday#if that's what they're courageous enough at some point#and even if not#this is our we'll always have paris#cyclops#no i don't know how to tag in proper order thanks for asking
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banging my head against the wall every time I see someone reblogging a post of mine with tags mentioning the āunrequited confessionā. we have been OVER this it is NOT a case of unrequited romantic love it is completely canonically up in the air as a possibility. listen to jayden revri himself and be enlightened i am begging you
#rambling#payneland#also getting recommended posts with this rhetoric fhdhfjdhd itās just annoying cause itās like. misinformation#if that scene was actually a rejection Iād feel a lot worse about this show as a whole like really it Matters that itās not#do you really think Superhell 2: Escape From Superhell would be a good idea. because I feel like theyāre actively trying to counter those#kinds of damaging or at least exhausting and overdone queer tropes#tragic unrequited gay boy hopelessly in love with his best friend suffering forever because heās gay#is. exactly the kind of exhausting overdone queer trope that almost unequivocally makes me lose a lot of respect for a show#so it is very very very important to me that this is. not that. and the actors have cemented that fact openly#pleaseā¦ā¦ā¦..please just listen to the words being saidā¦ā¦ā¦donāt conflate uncertainty with rejectionā¦ā¦..take my hand#thatās not to say edwin didnāt TAKE it as a rejection. because based on what he says to niko he absolutely did#which will make it all the more juicy when what he thinks is impossible starts to become real and within reach. eventually. hopefully#also- less explicit- but Charlesā hand-on-heart thing after their last hugā¦ like you really donāt have to be a film major#(saying this as a film major) to deduce what that means and what its calling back to. itās pretty easy to put 2+2 together there#but anyway. I digress
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Silm Advent calendar 7: Light
(thank you @edennill for your headcanons, here's a small hc of mine)
Varda smiled, looking at the young Noldo bowing nervously before her. Despite being named āthe spirit of fireā, he wore pale blue and yellow, both clean narrow hues, but not too narrow, matching the outer colors of the Treelight surprisingly well for something made by an incarnate.
āI want to show you something, my lady.ā There was a tone of anxiety in FeanĆ”ro's voice. Why?Ā
He pulled out an ornate box which shone richly from the inside and opened itā
They were beautiful. A harmony of two lights, resulting in a wide and balanced white, almost like a reflection of the light in her face. This brilliance was the fairest thing ever made on Arda, surpassing the glorious lights made by the Valar, even though it was born from two of them. Three gems in perfect harmony with each other. Almost too beautiful for this marred world, like a pure sound of a violin, narrow, and impossible for the imperfect beings to harmonize with.
She reached for them but stopped, waiting for permission.Ā
āI love them dearly,ā said Feanaro apologetically. āBut of course, if you wish to take a look at them, I would be honoredā¦ Forgive me, o queen, but I feelā I feel they are so vulnerable, so ā they are near impossible to destroy and yet ā I do fear for them.ā The last part he was almost a whisper.
Varda nodded. Light could only shine where it could be touched, of course. And what could be touched could now also be hurt. Did the Elves not know it? It was difficult to distinguish what was new to them and what they would consider too obvious to even mention.
She studied the scared prince. The best she could do for him was to put some thin glass to protect the light a little and hope for the best. Half-measures, always half-measures. But that was the way with incarnates, wasn't it?
She took the gems and kissed them gently. They were warm and alive, even though unmoving, and they rejoiced seeing her.
No wonder FeanƔro loved them.
āNeither evil nor hand unclean shall touch you and stay unharmed,ā she said. āNor a mortal manāā she paused, seeing the Elfās expression. What was he surprised about?Ā
Anyway, the blessing was done, for good or for ill.
She kissed the gems farewell and gave them back to the prince. āThank you.āĀ
She rarely spoke, indeed, but some occasions were worth it.
#silm#silmarillion#tolkien legendarium#silm advent calendar#the silm#the silmarillion#varda#feanor#feanaro#silmarils#being cute#the valar and their understanding of elves#...what do you mean they don't know what a mortal man is???#also yes the hallowing of silmarils was consensual#i mean she does not explicitely ask but a) fefe seemed fine with it b) fefe was fine with it c) again the understanding of elves...#what do you mean he might have not liked it#d) she did check if she could take them or touch them or what does fefe want from her#and yes that's how i imagine it happenned#more or less#maybe in a more official way with more people present#and maybe fefe was less awkward about it#also: yes Varda totally sees light as it is (ie the spectrum not the three colors) (idk how to exlain better)#anyway you know fefe was ok with the valar until some point#and with showing his shinies to others#but i imagine he was emotional and somewhat insecure about them from the start#because he made them from his grief (and the trees that too)#rambling in the tags#silm shortfic#eri draws
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