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msnihilist · 4 months ago

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Once again, no, you were not groomed by proshipping. You were groomed by someone using proshipping.

My groomer used a pairing that I already liked to desensitize me to sexual interactions, and it was a completely normal and popular pairing. To this day, I still don't like it. It's completely okay to not like or even hate those things that your groomer used against you.

It's not okay to demonize an entire group of people or lump the ideology itself in with a terrible experience that you had. Your trauma does not make you infallible.

It is not the fault of the content you were shown that you got groomed. Groomers will use anything. They are bad people. The content you were shown is neutral.

#proship #sorry this is just a terrible argument and i see it all the time #grooming is way too complex and horrible to just blame whatever content was used like??#imagine if we blamed the guns in murders and let the actual murderer walk #like no the tool itself doesn't matter what matters is that you hurt people #''proshipping was used to desensitize me to the age gap'' my groomer used roleplay to desensitize me #went from rp with fictional characters to rp between ourselves #if weird ships didn't exist i promise you would have gotten desensitized a different way #because the point is that someone older than you wanted to cause you harm not that weird fanart exists

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