#we've been relating a lot on the audhd stuff bare minimum bc im knowledgeable but probably bc im one or both
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ok it went well we're good
i think this guy in my fiction writing class is about to ask me out how do i let someone down gently ๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ฌ
#it went better than i thought it would actually? a bit awkward but i mean. yeah??#'im gay' as an opening response to 'i like you' is pretty open and shut and thankfully he didn't like. try to pry or push about that#poor guy was nervous about it but i tried to kinda ease him through bc we both knew what he was gonna say#and we had the 'yeah let's still be friends' and 'no yeah this kinda thing sucks but i appreciate you being upfront with me' thing#bc like!! it's scary!! and i feel a lot better having that all cleared up yknow? i kinda got the feeling it was coming eventually#and he's really open about being audhd so there's the combination 'i dont wanna make him feel unlovable and awkward' and 'thank god we're#both so damn blunt phew' because that makes things so much easier#and again the 'im a dyke' card (if all goes smoothly) is good bc like. not a rejection or inferiority issue im just incapable of it#and because i am in fact gay it's not like im lying to him yknow? it's simple and easy#anyway we ended up talking about birds and vultures especially for a bit and that was really fun#we've been relating a lot on the audhd stuff bare minimum bc im knowledgeable but probably bc im one or both#(who the hell knows at this point)#anyway i think i did good and he didn't feel too bad? i mean it sucks and we both acknowledged it but we're still chummy yknow?#and again i feel like im not gonna be waiting on that from now on so it'll be easier to be friends and not worry about giving the wrong#impression or accidentally leading him on or something#anyway he doesn't crush on ppl often and neither do i so i felt kinda bad bc like. if you want a relationship and can't be into anybody for#months then like a rejection feels kinda dismal. agh. idk i get him though. he's cool we're cool#shaking hands with him firmly in my mind ๐ค#also my bio class got cancelled as i was typing this bc the projector wasnt working so YIPPEE no third class today im free#hot dog!#other topics of discussion post-confession included how he can't wear shorts bc sensory issues (same w baggy sleeves) and dinosaurs#it was fun like idk why i end up laughing so much during stuff like this but my first breakup was like that too#anyway thats the skrunk minute
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