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obstinaterixatrix · 1 year ago

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air was telling me about that ultimatum reality dating show thing & that’s crazy. I know it’s probably mostly the aromanticism but I can’t imagine clinging to someone when you’re at the point of making an ultimatum. I’d just leave.

#my ramblings #well I don’t want to fight to be in someone’s life #we’re all busy and of couse I’m gonna try to stay connected to pals #and there are some friends where you don’t talk for a year and then you have a nice convo and part ways again for another year #all chill #but there are. some things that can happen. [resentful]#wait I need to kick her out of something brb #OH MY GOD!!! THAT FEELS GREAT I can’t believe I’ve been waffling on that for like three years #BYE!!!!!#oh I also can delete her contact she probably doesn’t even have the same number #LMAO I ALREADY DID #BYE!!!!!! I KIND OF HATE YOU NOW BYE!!!!! and with that I can release my one-sided resentment and get on with my life #I think it’s also been 3+ years since the other situation as well #there wasn’t any dramatic fallout but honestly? cooked in the oven for a while but now I know: I’m mad as hell #they didn’t do anything wrong I’m just pissed and our ways of navigating relationships is incompatible #almost wish I didn’t block him months ago it would’ve felt great to block him now #wow this is great.#I should get stuck in another one-sided resentment loop so I can block them in 5-7 years and feel this rush again.#lmao

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