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i’m starting to feel like losing my grandpa is hitting me even harder than losing my dad tbh
#death /#family death /#i miss my dad very much but by the time he passed he was a completely different person#we were estranged#i saw my grandpa all the time and we always had a good relationship#even when his poor health made him (understandably) cranky it was never a question whether or not he loved me#he was a constant and loving presence in my life and in the lives of my immediate family#i knew he was going to pass soon but it doesn’t make it any easier#it sucks when you don’t realize just how much you love someone until they aren’t with you anymore#i know his spirit is still out there and watching over me. but it doesn’t make it any less hard#it’s really hitting me today sorry#I guess this is something that will get easier over time#but right now it hurts. a lot
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it's still unhinged that they didn't really plan out ford's actual character until his debut and he's built backwards from the question of "who would make stan the absolutely bitter hurting person he is while also being someone stan would do anything to save"
#the naive era when we didn't think they were estranged and had all those mystery trio aus....#stan being described as a 'well of sadness desperate for any type of affection' from the get go.....
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let me be clear i like veilguard but it does suck that no one disapproves anymore outside of like. three choices. i want to be fighting for my life earning approval back again someone has GOT to hate my ass. i should be careful about party composition and companion reactions again. i miss tactically taking fenris out of the party before i'm nice to merrill like those were the days
#please omg can someone hate my ass . not really. but in previous games it sometimes did feel like i was earning approval back#like a. 'even when we fight i still love you. don't forget that' way . i wanted some uphill battle and dav IS super sanitised#the difference is more staggering to old players than new ones. i think dav plays rly well for someone who doesnt know the franchise#but i keep asking questions like 'should the dalish not be more worried about solas/etc' 'the crows r not this nice'#'why wouldnt isabela ask about varric' 'there should probably be more fantasy racism here'#of course these r the devs who were slandering zevran weeks before release. however its also just. man.#I AM ENJOYING THE GAME THOUGH. just wish it had a bit (a lot) more relevance and respect to what its built up in the prev games#dragon age#dav spoilers#veilguard spoilers#dav#txt#like for example i think one of my favorite small writing moments is cass asking about the inquisitor's family in dai#where she approves if you are also estranged but disapproves if you say you want to go back#because for a split second she does not just see a so called 'herald' that she's forced to work with#it's someone just like her who never got along w their family and despite herself she likes the inquisitor more for it#or it's someone who couldn't be less like her and her dislike and initial mistrust becomes more certain#it just. there's is an amount of depth lost when vg tries this hard to make rook be loved as a default
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Let me assign you an affection language.
A Knife Called Grief You have left your house, you have left those people behind, but what are you going to do about the memories which have taken root in you? You can run but not without them. You want someone to sit with you on this cool marble floor while the sun burns everything.You want them to cut your rotten heart and theirs too. You want to sit with it in front of you, let them see you with all your flaws, which haven’t been your fault but you have been made to believe so, and you want them to love you anyways. Because you know you’d do that for them.
[yoinked from iobartach]
#[inch resting]#ooc#dash game#[reminds me of a post I saw about Miguel's infidelity-- I can't find it anymore but basically it boiled down to#his betrayal of Gabriel and Xina being a sort of betrayal of himself. Now the OP was also trying to make sense of the comic's writing as it#also mischaracterized Xina (per their words)‚ but since Miguel knew Xina since they were young and she protected him from bullies‚ and#Miguel grew up shielding Gabriel from their parents‚ his betrayal and subsequent estrangement from them for someone new‚ someone his brothe#loved‚ and also apparently supported Alchemax whereas Xina was much quicker to criticize it‚ can be seen as Miguel trying to shove down the#vulnerable‚ hurt‚ HUMAN side of himself to make way for the idealized version he tries to protect as a corpo snob.#Which is an interesting viewpoint considering post-forcible-genome-splicing‚ comics!Miguel was also desperate to prove his humanity. He see#himself as an abomination‚ a freak. So how do we reconcile this with movie!Miguel‚ who we admittedly don't know much of his mental state#other than he is basically having The Worst Fucking Day Of His Life Constantly due to grief and leading hundreds of Peter Parkers?#I guess in my own characterization‚ Miguel is trying desperately to shut down that vulnerability‚ BE the inhuman juggernaut‚ the leader‚#but at the same time time‚ esp post-BTSV‚ is so ridden by his mistakes and sins and endless list of shortcomings‚ ALONG WITH the grief for#his daughter that he doesn't seem keen to heal from‚ that he's simultaneously trying to REconnect with that. Figure out what and who he is#outside of work‚ outside of Canon Events‚ outside of everything that Miles took and shook upside down. But that's difficult when#you're so determined to shut that down too‚ huh? Spider-Man can't do both. Not this time. Miguel is going to have to learn one day that he#needs to allow himself to FEEL human instead of constantly shutting it down or drowning it out. Maybe then he'll BE human again too.]#[🍻 if you read this far; I fear this was largely incoherent]
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#film: while you were sleeping#while you were sleeping#sandra bullock#bill pullman#i think jack kind of has an obsession with being the good son#the one who doesn't rock the boat#doesn't upset his parents#doesn't make decisions with himself as first priority#because we all know peter does#he's estranged from the family at the beginning of the movie#he's...well a putz#and i think jack feels like he needs to pick up the slack#when honestly his parents just want him to do what he wants to do#and he's a bit blind to that because he's trying to compensate for peter#things i made
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Joking abt tommy and tubbos apparent legal marriage somehow spiraled into THIS HwhduwuxhGAHDHAHXUAHD
++ just dsmp doods in general :3
(to anyone who may NOT know this doesnt mean i support dream, idk if ppl still make the association of dsmp character -> dream liker but man FUCK that guy. Glad gumball "walk em down" watterson got his ass)
#NOT poppytwt ... poppy tmblr? i guess the twt doesnt apply#WHATEVER#all slash jaying we were just dying on call fucking talking abt this#ctubbo#ctommy#cranboo#dsmp fanart#dsmp characters#CHARACTERS!!#not shipping#again just goofing aboot#how you say a GAG#benchtrio#beeduo#clingyduo#cclingyduo#cbenchtrio#cbeeduo#ugh cbenchtrio is so fucking funny#two husbands and their estranged dog who's slowly losing it#ps: forgot ranboos horns like 90% of the time#IGNORE THAT
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ID: Shaded art of Noelle and Kris from Deltarune. They're in their dark world appearances, with lace on Noelle's dress and Kris' armor. Kris' boots are more detailed. Noelle has cross earrings and Kris has anti-cross earrings. Noelle dips Kris as if they're dancing and raises a knife above their soul. She scowls at them, crying. Kris looks up with a blank smile. Red strings fall from Kris. Two rings of rainbow light burst behind them both, centered between their faces. The background is dark shades of blue, purple and pink. End ID thought about snowgrave and the idea of there being a noelle boss fight too hard
#deltarune#noelle holiday#kris dreemurr#snowgrave#described#safe utdr#star art#what if we were semi-estranged childhood friends and you had to kill me to free us both of the entity possessing me
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i gotta wonder what my chinese mutuals think whenever i post an image containing hifumi's name written out in kanji because god. that guy's legal given name sure is one two three
#we have a guy named 十四 as well so...... yea#furthermore 😔 my blorbo's name is first son#his younger brothers are named second son and third son#he and his boyfriend once went undercover and their undercover names were fourth son and fifth son#the brothers' estranged father is named zero#extremely normal idol franchise. love it here
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#Tom Cruise#War of the Worlds#War of the Worlds 2005#Ray Ferrier#pilvimarja edits#we were talking on the Roosmav server about the dads Tom has played and ranking which of them is actually the best dad#and believe it or not but we think Fail Dad Ray might actually be the winner#he starts out as a selfish weekend dad who's completely estranged from his kids but the character arc he's given turns him into a true Dad#who would sacrifice everything for his kids
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Giving a complicated tragic childhood backstory to your favorite character is all fun and games, until you realize you need to account for how old all the other adult characters would have been at the time and realize that scenes that would work perfectly if one character was twenty three and the other was fourteen stop working when you need other characters who are played by adult actors clearly younger than they are to be in college at the same time so your story beats line up thematically.
#Don't worry. I made an excel document for this over a year ago#Was that unhinged? Yeah. But this is harder than you think it is#In unrelated news it is now reasonable to have a child in your 20s 30s or 40s depending on when the plot needs the child#Also people in their early 20s can be in grad school have already established careers and adopt children now. I've declared it.#Also: Hollywood stop trying to trick me into believing women in their 30s are the same age as men in their 50s. It's never gonna work.#I'm fighting for my life to make these age gaps normal even on a platonic level#Don't worry I aged the girls up and the boys down#But still this is a bit ridiculous#If you use the actors' ages it doesn't work. Garrison's actress is 16 years younger than Curtain. Why?#I mean I like the casting. But SQ is a teenager. We know Curtain has had his evil plans at least since SQ was born and lost his bio dad#and if the Whisperer is Garrison's invention that means she and Curtain were working together when SQ was born#If SQ in the show is 16 (the actor was older I believe) and Garrison is 37 (that's how old the actress is now she was younger at time)#That means Garrison was only 21 and Curtain was well into his 30s. And that's after you age SQ down and Garrison up for the calculations#So Garrison was likely (according to the shows' casting) even younger than that which begs the question what was Curtain doing?#Was he spending his 30s lurking around college campuses and high schools looking for a kid whose inventions he could steal?#What in the Marcus Cutter is that about?#All these jokes about Garrison being SQ's uninvolved divorced stepmom but nah she's really his estranged big sister#also this is very frustrating because the irl age gap between the actress who plays Number Two and Tony Hale only 7 years#but they're the ones for whom a 16 year age gap would have actually made sense because he adopts her in the books!#but now since Garrison is clearly so much younger than Number Two Curtain and Benedict I have to deal with this#(Don't worry I figured it out and made the age gaps normal. You just now have to believe Number Two is only a year older than Garrison)#It was the stress of living with her family that aged her and Garrison just looks naturally super young that's what we're going with.#And don't get me wrong:#I do like the actresses and actors they casted they're great but sometimes I google the ages and I'm like oh you cannot be serious#But we've (more or less) figured it out#Rant over#writing#writing struggles#tmbs
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this is flynn to me
#hes my best friend in the whole world#hes my dad hes my son hes my uncle we picked apples together in an orchard were estranged we talk daily were betrothed i wanna punch him#the librarians#flynn carsen
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"Some modern historians, apparently fascinated by the fact that Matilda was eleven years older than her second husband, Geoffrey of Anjou, have been quick to assert that the marriage was unhappy. The historical basis for this assertion rests upon the word of the Durham chronicler, who stated that when Matilda returned to Henry I’s court in 1129 it was because Geoffrey had repudiated her. [Historians have thus assumed that their mutual incompatibility led to hostility and an eventual separation]. However, it must be noted that the northern chronicler was hardly in a position to have first-hand information about events across the Channel, and that he had the chronology of the affair completely wrong. The author placed Matilda’s marriage in 1129, and wrote that only a few days after King Henry returned to England on 13 July of that year, he was told that his daughter had been repudiated by her husband and had returned to Rouen with only a few attendants. The marriage actually took place in 1128, and Matilda was in Anjou with her husband in 1129 when the la Haye brothers brought a charter in favor of the abbey of Fontevraud to her for her confirmation. The other contemporary accounts of Matilda’s separation from her husband did not record her departure or suggest reasons for it, but only noted her return to Anjou in 1131.
It is possible that Matilda’s return to her father’s court in 1129 was not a marital separation at all, but rather a political mission. Perhaps Matilda and Geoffrey grew uneasy in their isolation and began to doubt the commitment of the Anglo-Norman barons to their cause. Leaving her husband behind to manage affairs in Anjou, Matilda may have travelled to Normandy seeking clarification of her position. A few scraps of evidence point in this direction. A letter that Hildebert of Lavardin wrote to Henry I in 1131 expressed pleasure that the king was now reconciled with the count of Anjou, who ‘had now fallen in with his wishes in everything concerning him and his daughter’. Henry of Huntingdon and Robert of Torigny stated that a ‘great council’ held at Northampton on 8 September 1131 decided that Matilda should be returned to her husband. The wording implies a decision made by the great men of the realm for political reasons, not a family’s success in persuading a tearful daughter to return to a husband whom she disliked. Furthermore, William of Malmesbury wrote that ‘no small gathering of the nobility being held at Northampton, the oath of fidelity to her was renewed by those who had already sworn and also taken by those who had not done so previously’. The renewal of the oath also suggests that Matilda’s mission may have been occasioned by concern over the succession rather than by the marital discord that historians have often taken for granted."
-Jean A. Truax, "Winning over the Londoners: King Stephen, the Empress Matilda and the Politics of Personality", The Haskins Society Journal 8 (1996)
#empress matilda#geoffrey of anjou#my post#12th century#We don't and can't know the historical truth but this is an interesting alternate perspective for sure!#though it doesn't change the fact that Matilda does seem to have been coerced/forced/pushed into the marriage#and that fact in turn cannot be used to determine what they thought of each other or how they got along after they did marry#also both perspectives are not mutually exclusive - they could've become estranged AND she might have left to settle her succession#But ofc it's entirely possible that this alternate version may have been true#It does fit the claims of chronicles like Torigny who spoke of how there were tensions between Henry and Matilda & Geoffrey#before his death because he refused to surrender her dowry castles or pay homage to her as he should have#But ultimately however the marriage began they do seem to have formed more-or-less functional partnership#and were evidently mutually invested in their kids#so there's that#I really like alternate perspectives like this that make you question established historical narratives by scrutinizing the actual evidence#(also I had many many problems with this chapter and how it dismissed and downplayed gendered criticisms against Matilda#but that's another issue)
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every year i fight the battle of not remembering if my mother’s birthday is the 30th or 31st and every year i figure it out just in time then immediately forget again. im nearly 30 and its just a massive blank spot in my brain
#we’re close as well it’s not an estrangement thing#same with my oldest friend but i have a system for them now in that we were both born on a monday in the same year so when i need to know#i just look up calendars from that year
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Honestly screw fanon romantic and platonic relationships. Tell what character pairings (with little to no interactions in canon) which fandom insists would be great friends but you know it in your heart would kill each other without hesitation
#I personally think Keith and Pidge would hate each other if they were allowed to have more than 5 minutes of convo#And it is directly because they are so similar to each other. Dog barking at its own reflection type of relationship#Also Kuron and Shiro would be uncomfortable/estranged family cousins who are also twins AT BEST#Like this is even ignoring the entire hijacking life/hijacking body thing#We are talking awkward silence AT BEST!!! Neither of them are willing to talk about their emotions#Also Lotor and Lance#I hate vld for depraving me of 'Dignified only child of 10k years old deals with the brattiest most annoying youngest sibling in existance#Fails miserably because said brat has zero shame'#empty thoughts#And Hunk and Lotor#Honestly Hunk should beef with more people with more people as a treat <333
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It’s really funny being so deeply involved in the Naruto fandom while also not knowing anything about the plot of Shippuden other than what I’ve seen already.
As far as I know Itachi just straight up murdered his entire family right in front of Sasuke like. For fun. And then was like ‘tf you gonna do about it, punk bitch?’ And then spat on him and kicked him and flipped him off and then kicked his ass AGAIN like five years later
but everybody’s like HE WAS THE BEST GUY AROUND!!!! Omg isn’t it sad that Itachi never got to meet Sasuke’s daughter????? isn’t it sad that they weren’t a family ???? :((
like. Yeah man we’re all lookin for the guy who did this
#I’m sure he redeems himself later or it was secretly all a misunderstanding or whatever#it’s just an extremely funny place to be that everyone is head over heels for Itachi while I’m like#guys he. he’s. are we talking about the same guy?#Naruto#WERE ALL LOOKIN FOR THE GUY THAT ESTRANGED ITACHI FROM HIS FAMILY#whatever it is it’s old news as of like fifteen fuckin years ago but idc
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i have some Thoughts about the claire plotline obviously and i actually genuinely like her as a person but i dislike her character wherein i don’t like the fact that they introduced her with the sole purpose of being carmy’s love interest and posing as a conflict for the restaurant? considering she’s supposed to be a childhood friend of carmy’s and grew up with the rest of the berzatto family i wish she had gotten the chance to be developed and fleshed out as her own character instead of just being used as a plot device. the buildup of her and carmy’s relationship was definitely very abrupt but in a show that revolves around (found) family it just felt very out of place for us to be introduced to a character with explicit romantic intent like that
#won’t be going into why i think it’s uncharacteristic for carmy because i’m sure other people have already pointed it out as well#but yea there was that too#when we got showed the scene of them running into each other in the season trailer i was getting the romantic Vibes but i was like surely#they won’t go that way.. and when they were obviously Going That Way i was like ????#might write a full thinkpiece later but yea i don’t hate claire. but i hate that her character only exists to serve a purpose and not as a#stand-alone. like maybe she’ll get fleshed out a bit later but it felt very cheap and tacky#for them to drop the ‘oh actually she and carmy have always known each other and they’ve always liked each other’ lore during e6#especially in a show where every character is very lovingly fleshed out and developed and given this sense of familiarity? like in the pilot#when we see richie and sugar for the first time even though we’re not explicitly told what their relation is to carmy the sense of#familiarity and history is there. we didn’t get that click with claire and i get they were supposed to be estranged but…?#my txt#the bear spoilers
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