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lesboylycan · 5 months

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man it's just a neverending cycle of reanalyzing my identity. if i had a nickle for every time a random mini comic on a particular identity and experiences with it gave me a sudden crisis, i'd have two nickles yadda yadda

#it's me #queering shit up #that ''good little bigender'' comic is fucking me UP #remembering that time i said something along the lines of #''there is another universe in which i'm happy as a bigender bisexual aromantic based on the communities i found connection in (and this--#--is not that universe)''#thinking about that comic.#having to ONLY present as masculine or else never be perceived as masculine at all.#we use it/its and ze/hir pronouns exclusively and explicitly do not use they/them in any context #because of people around us using ''they/them'' not as in ''nonbinary person'' but as in ''quirky little girl going through a phase''#because of people ''correctly'' gendering us so they could *deny* us our masculinity #we cut off any hint of our femininity for so long because people would use it to deny our masculinity #but if the line ''well it fucking breaks her heart'' in regards to having to kill your femininity to be seen as anything else doesn't hurt #ouuuuuhghh. having a normal one #time to sleep before we start crying over everything we wished we'd had but had to kill instead lmao

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