#we qent to her house and she told my sister that she was fine with whatever we wanted
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I really hope my sister is ok she is so stressed and I feel so bad for her I am trying to be supportive and let her know I will help how I can but I don't feel like I'm doing anything
#our mom wanted a direct cremation no funeral or burial#and she didnt want all the family there because she didnt fuck with them#so we are gonna cremate her then do a celebration of life at my sisters place sometime this weekend#and her sisters and my grandmother are wanting a funeral and all that shit#and my aunt is upset and refuses to be a part of anything because she feels like we arent including my grandmother#we qent to her house and she told my sister that she was fine with whatever we wanted#and to keep her in the loop. but they want a funeral so extended family can come#cousins who i havent seen since i was a kid are trying to add us all on facebook and saying they loved her#which is ridiculous because they didnt fucking bother to check on her while she was alive but now they want to say goodbye#my mom always said ahe didnt want the fake family coming to a funeral for her#she wanted my sibling and the grandkids and i to get together and cremate her then celebrate her life#and thats what we'll do regardless of who the fuck shows up or not#they want us to push the celebration of life back for a month or two which sounds ridiculous to us#its not like we're trying to rush and forget about her but rhats too long#everyone has their invitations to the gathering. wherher rhey show up or not is on them#my mama is gonna be celebrated and remembered regardless
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