#we have a kid whose dad went MIA 4 years ago and he keeps on shaming his mom

[thatscarletflycatcher]

I will bore you all writing about Doctor Finlay, but bear with me.

One of the most unrealistic aspects of the Doctor Finlay-Nurse Meitland mess is the idea that they got engaged right before or as the war begun, and then for some reason had not seen each other ever since. Brenda has never left Tannachbrae during that time; which would have been an easier fix, had she joined up as an army nurse herself and been sent to units far from John's. I guess it couldn't be because the maximum drama of her new American fiancé living in town couldn't possibly be cut off. The western front didn't reopen till 44'.

The only possible mitigation, then, would be for Finlay to have been on the desert front, and lo and behold, upon rewatching 1x02, he tells a kid he was in the desert, then Sicily, then Italy, and finally Germany. But even on this generous scenario of the writers it doesn't make sense. If Finlay had had 6 years of ininterrupted service without leave home, chances are he'd have priority to have leave home as soon as the war ended, specially because I don't think personnel was being roaded or flown directly from Italy to Germany for obvious reasons of logistic convenience. So he would have been home on leave after may 45, and so the plot as presented is absurd.

But then it is all doubly absurd because the most reasonable and likely course of action would be for him to hear about it through letters. A dear John letter, or even someone from town condoling with him by assuming that the public status of Brenda's new engagement meant that Finlay had been informed too. What is the audience supposed to assume about their correspondence? Was he writing her tender, loving letters and receiving no response? Was he receiving tepid, general letters from her and being unconsciously or deliberately dense?

It makes no sense. Compels me though.

[captainderyn]

OC Meme Tag (x3)

I got tagged by @a-d-u-r-o @legacystarwarred and @ofmistandrain sooo I’m going to do 3 OCS for the price of one...under a readmore of course! (thank you for the tags <3)

Tagging.... @lumielles @moonlitalien @anchanted-one and @greyias if you all would like to join!

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(Muse #1)

- your muse’s name

Erabelle Torven

- one favorite picture/face claim of your muse:

(Era is the white haired gal, art done by the lovely @commander-sarahs-art) 

-two headcanons you have for your muse:

-Era has 4 tattoos that she got once she was out of Intelligence; each one represents her taking back a part of herself from the traumas of being Cipher Nine and how that role changed her as a person. 

-She’s painted a mural (either in a main room or Khas’s kid room) in Wren and A’trixa’s home as a big commission and it’s what really kicked off her art career post Intelligence. 

- three things that your muse likes doing in their free time:

-painting (whether on canvas or body painting on Noa)

-watching cheesy holo movies with Noa

-Watching the storms over Kaas City

- seven people your muse loves/likes

- @delavairesslegacy‘s Noa: she’s been with Noa really since the start in their Intel Academy days, is her soulmate and has been with her through everything. Era couldn’t imagine her life without her. 

- @delavairesslegacy‘s Thea: Agent Mom, Agent Mom! No but seriously, ever since Thea and Five really took Era into their family (with Five going...this agent is now my daughter sorry not sorry) Thea has been a very steady, VERY important, motherly figure to Era. Someone she can always turn to. 

-Five: Look, it started as Cipher Five idolization, then he was her field professor in the Academy, then he became her mentor when she became Nine, then partners in the field, and all around just Agent Dad. He is so important to her and she loves him like a father. 

-Agent: ....Five’s cat, duh

-Noa’s little bastard seeing eye droid: Era won’t say she likes that droid but WELL she does. Even if it’s a pain in the ass. 

-Five and Thea’s spawn: there’s enough of them to count for 2 remaining points, but as much as she never wants kids of her own and doesn’t love the nature of babies (too...squishy and fragile and needy for her lmao) she loves Five and Thea’s kids. 

- a phobia your muse has:

Losing her autonomy again..honestly that’s the big one. 

(Muse #2)

- your muse’s name

Khasir Ethril

- one favorite picture/face claim of your muse:

(my only art of him lol and it’s old AF)

-two headcanons you have for your muse:

-Khasir as a kid always wanted to keep his hair long because he wanted to be like his mama Wren. Even into his adult years he loves having his hair long and luxurious, though perhaps he adds a sideshave in...haven’t decided yet lol

-Khas goes to the smaller, reinstated, Dromund Kaas sith training academy instead of Korriban by request of Wren. Well, request is a nice way of looking at it. Wren didn’t want her baby going through the same shit she did on Korriban or getting hurt the same way she did. 

- three things that your muse likes doing in their free time:

-figuring out new ways he can braid his hair and generally preening his appearance. It’s relaxing to indulge in that stuff for him. 

-Going out into Kaas city and really just soaking it all in. The life, the lights, the activity. Outside of all the fancy stuff he’s been raised in. 

-Training with Claire. Though he himself isn’t as good at combat and doesn’t have much an interest in the sith (by career not power) lifestyle he will sure as hell help her train and keep in badass, powerful sith shape. 

- seven people your muse loves/likes 

- @delavairesslegacy‘s Claire: ahhh yes, a forbidden love sort of story...Khas falls for Claire when she is put under the training eye of Tarissma and thus, Wren, when she develops unexpected force sensitivity (Mirialan force sensitivity skipped Thea...Five said “ahahaha fuck no” to Tython when Thea suggested it, Thea said fuck no to Korriban) and lo and behold despite much grumbling from both the Ethrils and the Slovokos they are happily together. 

-Erin: You get Claire, Erin isn’t far behind...as far as a sister’s watchful eye goes. Claire’s twin wasn’t just going to let her sister fall for a big name young Sith without vetting him extensively and I think in that process they became at least acquaintances. With the “you hurt my sister, I hurt you” sort of caveat. 

-Wren: Khasir adores both his moms but has always taken a biiiit more after Wren, what can I say xD

-A’trixa: mama Sith! Khas’ mentor, mom, and biggest role model. He takes on A’trixa’s family business from her when he becomes an adult. 

-Ega and Aki Thornley: Grandma and Grampa! We love good grandparents and Aki and Ega fit that bill exactly~

- a phobia your muse has:

Hmm this one is hard because he hasn’t seen the same shit that a lot of my other OCs have...I’m going to have to say he is very afraid of doing something to disappoint Claire/do something that “proves” that he’s not worthy of her. 

(Muse #3)

- your muse’s name

Vitaliya Slovoko

- one favorite picture/face claim of your muse:

(my only art of him lol and it’s old AF)

(her FC: Elissa Bibaud)

 -two headcanons you have for your muse:

-Vitaliya was 17 when Five graduated from the Imp Intel Academy and was chosen for the Cipher career. He went “MIA” a few months later. It affected her deeply and is why she chose to back out of pursuing a higher education and enlist in the Imperial Army instead. 

-Despite now being a very accomplished woman in the military she originally struggled with her attitude and not ‘respecting’ her superiors the way she should (really she just wouldn’t keep her mouth closed at opportune times) 

- three things that your muse likes doing in their free time:

1. physical training; she enjoys the fitness she has to maintain for her position and enjoys pursuing it further in her free time. 

2. pouring through old mission logs--she may have pulled her brother’s trait of reading but instead of history its an interest in well...the imperial military.

3. Being around her kids and Five’s kids and just, being at their whims for games and keeping their imaginations alive. 

- seven people your muse loves/likes

- @delavairesslegacy‘s Luka: we love some good ol Imperial military wives kicking ass. 

-Luka’s daughter from a previous relationship (whose name I STILL can’t remember ahh)

-Her and Luka’s adopted daughter, a little nautolan gal who’s name started with an S but we made her so long ago and I forgot to write it down sdjfhskh I’m a bad OC mama

-Five: always Valetyn to her, always her big brother. Despite her being pissed that he was literally gone for almost a decade with no word to her or their family saying that he was alive and horribly sad for the brother she lost (for the Valetyn who graduated from the Intel academy is far different from the Valetyn who survives being Cipher Five in some ways) she accepts that at least she has him back. 

-Mama and Papa Slovoko: Could I go find their names? Yeah. Will I? No, because I can’t remember where I wrote them down and I exclusively refer to Mama Slovoko as either Mama or Grandmama Slovoko when talking to her

- a phobia your muse has:

Losing people she loves the same way she lost her brother: without warning or explanation. 

[beautifullybrokensblog-blog]

Life Imatating art. Im a warrior. Dont get it wrong i have survived, but im not a survivor IM A WARRIOR!

#evenMorriganwascrushbylove, #homewreckerthisallyou #owie

  Are you proud of Who You Are. Do you like Who You Are. I don’t know how you could! I couldn’t like somebody  who purposely hurts children and ruins their homes. I couldn’t like someone who would knowingly cause pain 4 no reason other then she had a ache in her crotch. Did it make you feel accomplished or strong, 2 get your hands on my husband. Real strength is in doing what’s right. Strong women get their own man,  not act like sneaky whoring holes that cant understand right from wrong. How do you sleep at night I ask because my children can’t they keep having nightmares about a divorce or if I leave.   You took their security way.  Shame on you curse you they dont deserve someone like you taking there home and family from them on a whim, how alful. You put them through this only because you want to see if you could, just some game to you, a challenge but its nothing, you dont even really cared about anyone. you have destroyed seven people my family is shattered your affair with my husband has stripped my home of joy so I asked you are you proud? it doesn’t seem right that you get to smile well my adult children worry about a mother that seems empty anymore they watch me fight for so long just to live now i wish i hadnt.  Why did you walk in and take what little bit of joy and hope and happiness I had. Take the pride of family and make it a joke. You took form him to my husband, he lost the respect, lost the trust of his children wife nieghbors church.  You stole from the children the sleep and carefree youth,   the younger two keep having nightmares since this happened they’re afraid if I leave or we get divorced what will happen to them,they  remember what it was like before me and they know what it’s been like   up until now the short lived happiness of family and wholeness and none of us are sure we can do that anymore and here’s a really screwed-up thing if you cared about him you would have thought about these things you would have thought about the fact that if I don’t pay the rent and I’m not here if I leave my husband he will lose this house because he cannot even afford the rent on his income  muchless add electrinity Child Care  food xcetera.   I on the other hand would be just fine my monthly annuity would go up by $450 my medical would be reinstated at full free and I have family here now. I am heartbroken I truly have lost everything I love my family but you don’t care about that you just wanted to get laid. I want you to fully understand the situation you caused the selfishness of your actions I hope someday that you feel the anguish of having to go on while  simultaneously know that the happiness  the joy and the trust, everything you believed has dissolved just suddenly gone. because some girl walked into your life ripped your family like you did mine. I hope that you have to hit your knees like I do and that you pray you wont wake up the next morning  because these nothing worth the pain you gonna feel.  and I hope you feel the crushing despair of waking up the next morning and knowing you’re still there and the situation still exist and then the other woman still exist but she’s smiling and you’ve got  no smiles only uncertainty there is no choices left really, cant leave without children lossing everything, dont want stay anymore because now there is nothing to stay for. And you cant just get over it and forgive because you nolonger have a heart to forgive with.  I hope you have to come to a decision for sake of the children because without you they won’t have a home they won’t have their care because you’re the only mother they’ve ever had and see it’s a little different than other children because these kids have already gone through being abandoned these kids have already been shipped from foster home to foster home.  and while your head spins and you can’t think straight and all you hear is your own silent screaming inside. you have to paste on a smile and you have to do day-to-day life and you have to see doctors and therapist and help your children and you have to pretend everything’s okay even though you’re dead inside. The love you felt is fire that only burns you tourtures you.  they emptiness were your faith in love and husband were  is now dark cold ugly  impossising and swallows all hope all of  you like black whole devoring your soul .And the pain spreads he looses frieds and his family, then three verry good people who called him dad nolonger can look at him with out shame and anger. we are all stuck in a Time Loop of endless imploding doom what gives you the right to be so flippent with other people lives and well being.  You devastated me in a way ( I have to give you credit because you did to me but cancer couldn’t, being raped couldn’t, losing family couldn’t) your actions brought me to my knees your actions have taken form my kids their sense of values our sense of family their belief in wedding vows loyalty and honesty. you ruined the respect for their father and you’ve left them wondering if relationships never work. If anybody is ever faithful because I mean Dad couldn’t do it,  oh but I did and there witnessed to what i got for it.   All I can do is think about the whole situation over and over and there is no going backwards no matter what I do there’s no fixing it it’s just too smashed up. One of the things I thought of since my husband wasn’t exactly faithful honest or trustworthy wasn’t exactly respectful of our marriage. Maybe he wasn’t completely honest with you either about me. So I introduce myself I am the woman the wife the mother you so casually took all hope from. the ones whose foundest memories are now only painful I am his wife we have been for 8 years you probably don’t know. But when I met him he had nowhere to live is children were in foster care and about to be adopted out his oldest son had already been adopted . He was struggling to get sober, he had court issues and fines and a record. but I fell in love so I gave him a place to live with me and my children in my home and I filed all the paperwork with the courts to get his kids back I took him to all of his DUI classes & parenting classes, anger management things that he had to do for the courts. I took him for his drug testing I got him his Sr 29 I paid for his alcohol classes and I made sure that he was able to go through with every hoop CPS through at him. and then together we went back to court with CPS and we got custody now something you should know is his little daughter Mia and Andrew had been in the foster care system being bounced around for almost 1&½ yrs at that point they were only 33mo and six when I brought them home.  It was hard those first 6 years I was the sole provider. So he could do all the things that the courts and CPS wanted him to do. Then there was his criminal history he was unable to get a job so I got all the paperwork and I wrote his dissertation for his judge and I got a lawyer to stand in court with him so he had an opportunity actually talk to the judge and I expunged his record. now he has been working for just over a year. And this last month March was the first month in 8 years that my husband’s pay any rent we split it.  he has contributed to electric bill twice in 8 years. so you see I keep the roof over our heads and his children I keep the power on I get them to school I take them to doctors to therapy I do the all the homework I clean the whole house, he doesn’t do housework at least never has I do the laundry I watch the children this is my day. I get up at 5:30 I have half hour to make coffee take a shower and come to life before I wake up the kids they get on a school bus at 6:30 then I clean the house I start whatever laundry check to see what bills need to be paid or what appointments need to be kept and then my husband rolls out of bed at 10 I drop him off at work we leave here at 11:30 I get back home at 12:30 I now have two hours to clean other people’s toilets to subsidize our income so I can put food on the table because at 2:30 somebody has to be here to get Andrew off the bus because if you don’t know Andrew is physically and mentally disabled and he requires 24/7 care it does not go to regular school he’s in a day program Mia gets home at 4:30 usually I’ve gotten Andrews homework done by then I know it’s time to Mia. Next I have to make dinner so it can be served at 6:30 cuz one of the things with Andrew is autism and he has to have a schedule thats consistent or it throws him into episode he also has ADHD and oppositional Defiance disorder which means that any day the school can call me to come pick him up because he’s not getting along. if im not here what happens to them.  I can make it with out him I do have my annuity from the cancer.  A long fought lawsuit after years ago the government put a magnesium plant at the bottom of the hill we lived on. my mother, father, three Sisters two brothers and my grandmother have all died from cancer I am sole Survivor after 12 surgerys so I get paid every month a breakup of award from the lawsuit that’s what Shawn lives off my misfortunes. I have to stay up and get him after work, and am expected to have time together while he unwinds after work im lucky if i get more than 4 hrs a sleep a day. I havent had a day with out his kids in yrs.  I was home with his kids, paying his way, loosing my medical care while him and his kid get free medical through state, because the kids are not my bio.  so i nolonger have depents and his income is held against me but i get no bennifits or bills paid from him no it gose to his games and nights out with friends, and fucking around with you. You two get drunk and go dancing at the bar, and full around in front of all my nieghbors.  He gets pulled over and gose to jail for dui and i get all your fucked off inappropriate sex text to him.  So for all my doing “the right thing” for being his rock and wife in every sense possible.  Along comes you and 1000’s of dollars in fines and court fees and impound fees. As it is he only sees his kids while they are awke for 8 hrs wk after school on Thursday and Friday. The rest of the time hes asleep when there leaving for school and they’re already asleep when he gets home.  But you two can go out on the town?  I have only been out with my husband with out his kids 3 x in 6 yrs.  How dare you how dare both of you.  That is some shady shit, you two did to this family so dirty AND YOU HAD NO RIGHT OR REASON TOO. If there is any justice in this world i hope it finds you. I hope you get a taste of my life. I hope you get cancer, i hope you get so sick and your teath fall out from it the chemo and the puking. I home the treatment robes your bones of strenght and you get degenerate disc disease and loose use of different extremities all the time with no warning,. and you get to feel the pain of neuropathy from having a stroke. Be cause your so physically over extended and exhausted from doing it all for your family.  And I hope you fall madley deeply in love with some that you would do everything for them and you get to be a mom but to kid that are his not yours and then i hope someone like you comes along and and suduces your husband and it ruins everything and you have to hold those kids why they cry and beg you make it work cause there scared to death of the life had before you, and everyone including that other woman knows, if you go thats exactly were they will be.  So you really cant do any thing but struggle to breath and cry and hurt in ways no one ever should.  And i want you know i mean really understand what a selfish awful person you are. i want you to beg for death like i do because of you.  The only difference between us then will be you will have deserved it.

Amy cannday and your little check out friend now the world knows what you are