#we can centre transmisogyny without denying that transphobia exists and also overlaps with many other bigotries outside it

[proudfreakmetarusonikku]

i wish ppl would stop saying “terfs see non transfems as allies!” no they see them as easy grooming victims. and unfortunately often that’s in the sexual sense- underage trans people have their bodies fetishised, and the amount of terfs i've seen openly wishing to sexually assault trans people who aren’t trans feminine is astonishing, along with a whole lot of “they should be raped and impregnated to fuck the mental illness out of them.” and even when it’s not literal terfs do not wish to Help non transfem people. they do not see them as people, they see them as objects to protect, infantilise and dehumanise. their “allyship” would entail them controlling and dehumanising trans people and treating them like disobedient children at best and again- i have seen multiple terfs fetishise sexually assaulting trans men.

like the violent extermination rhetoric is less prevalent and the violent transmisogyny of terfs should never be erased but if you think infantilisation at best and unwilling sexualisation at worst is actively welcoming trans people then you genuinely haven’t read enough on how terfs see non transfem people. wanting to groom people into a toxic ideology, control them until you “fix” a fundamental part of them, and in an unfortunate amount of cases wishing to force sexual acts upon them to “prove” they’re really cis is not seeking alliance it’s seeking a vulnerable population to prey upon. especially neurodivergent trans people erasing the forced infantilisation of neurodivergent trans people who are not transfem is not in fact very helpful the intersection between transphobia and ableism is massive and discussing it should not be seen as opposition to talking about transmisogyny and anyone who uses it to claim transmisogyny isn’t real is an asshole but reducing neurodivergent trans people being objectified and treated like stupid babies who should never be allowed bodily autonomy as “wanting allyship” is also shitty like did you actually read jkrs ableism if you think she wants to “protect” anyone you didn’t she sees us autistic folks as- well, she's not far gone enough to say the r slur, but she clearly wants to, and thinks we all are too incompetent to know ourselves. like. bro.