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samuraisharkie · 9 months ago

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trying so hard to hold my tongue abt one of my best friend’s husbands who is in the fucking reserve army. trying to leave it kind of light but genuinely losing resolve to shut up abt it. I do not understand the cognitive dissonance bc she’s an activist herself? he was in there for college shit but he’s had plenty of chances to leave and he hasn’t. I’m about to just start breaking bridges. I’ve known this friend since I was in elementary school and I’ve known her husband abt that long too and I never expected him to just be this fucking. stupid and willfully ignorant. and for there to be absolutely no resistance from anyone in his life, even the ones who KNOW the army sucks.

#getting dangerously close to just blowing up. fucking selling his soul #watching as your husband is attacthed to the very things you’re upset about. and not saying anything #is she saying something but being ignored??#it’s starting to scare me because he took a training job. and they’re moving.#and part of me wonders if he did that on purpose. bc he knew how much I would hate that #I’ve literally told him how much I would hate that #he used to be my friend. I do not want to call anyone willfully staying in the army my friend though.#and he’s got his claws on someone that means the world to me #and part of me wonders if she agrees too and I’m losing two friends. I think I would genuinely get close to a new low mentally

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