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Anon, I don't think the TZ breakup was just about Tom being impulsive. Z had a deep conviction that she could not date publicly in the industry. She had never dated publicly and it was extremely hard for her to break free from that concept. It worked well for Tom and Z initially as Tom's popularity exploded and Z was transitioning out of Disney into adult dramatic actress, but after some time it started to make their lives very complicated. So I think that there was a strong argument supporting Tom's position of easing the secrecy and the breakup was the shock that Z needed to reconsider her beliefs. Her first 4 months with JE were extremely private (we could not get any pics of them together even though waitresses and theatre workers reported seeing them together), but then she started easing the secrecy without publicly acknowledging that she was dating him. That experience (even though it didn't end well) allowed Z to have a different outlook when Tom and Z decided to get back together. Likewise, Tom learned that his fame will always attract people to be curious about his love life, even if he dated people that are not famous. It also opened his eyes to his relationships always having a long distance aspect even if he dates women from his hometown, since his job takes him all over the world. Tom & Z were able to finally compromise in what had been the biggest stumbling block in 1.0 and were able to better understand the value of the other

Anon, I don't think the TZ breakup was just about Tom being impulsive. Z had a deep conviction that she could not date publicly in the industry. She had never dated publicly and it was extremely hard for her to break free from that concept. It worked well for Tom and Z initially as Tom's popularity exploded and Z was transitioning out of Disney into adult dramatic actress, but after some time it started to make their lives very complicated. So I think that there was a strong argument supporting Tom's position of easing the secrecy and the breakup was the shock that Z needed to reconsider her beliefs.

Yea, there were definitely other things going on for sure. Things we'll never know. And we have to keep in mind too that we're just assuming there is some truth to the "Audrey Tea". There might be, there might not!

I do think that the secrecy in their relationship played a role, but maybe not to the extent that we THINK it did. I just looked at how Tom freaked out about the Tolivia pics, about how quiet he tried to keep the fact that he had Nadia living with him in his house, the fact that he and Z were also VERY private even when they got back together, etc. Like, I really don't think Tom is against having a private relationship. I actually think he PREFERS things to be private....just like Z. I actually think they were pretty much on the same page regarding that? Believe me, he would not have dated her for two+ years during the 1.0 era if he was NOT on board with the secrecy. But you're right, maybe over time it got to be a bit much? Even Z stopped doing Damage Control in 2018.... So maybe even SHE realized it was getting to be a bit ridiculous lol.

I'm just glad that she no longer has to put out videos/IG posts/silly little excuses for why she's hanging out with Tom anymore... LOL 😅😅 Whew that used to be soooo CRINGGEEEE....

Her first 4 months with JE were extremely private (we could not get any pics of them together even though waitresses and theatre workers reported seeing them together), but then she started easing the secrecy without publicly acknowledging that she was dating him.

Uhhh....girl...did you forget GREECE in August lol??? 😅🤣

PIcs of them together came out pretty early if I do say so myself lol.

But yea...I know what you mean about it being hard to find pictures of them after that for a couple of months. Z also seemed allergic to LA during that time lol, so she was barely in town lol...so that could have also played a role. I think they were also denying photos with people earlier on.

That experience (even though it didn't end well) allowed Z to have a different outlook when Tom and Z decided to get back together. Likewise, Tom learned that his fame will always attract people to be curious about his love life, even if he dated people that are not famous. It also opened his eyes to his relationships always having a long distance aspect even if he dates women from his hometown, since his job takes him all over the world. Tom & Z were able to finally compromise in what had been the biggest stumbling block in 1.0 and were able to better understand the value of the other

EXACTLY!!!

Very well-said Anon. 🥰🥰

I 100% agree....