#very c/tholic website i've been saying it forever and i will continue to say it
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nothing pisses me off more than something asking for your money with a phrase like "do you ~really~ need to spend that money on yourself??? do you REALLY need a little treat... consider... this person deserves it more/I need it more than you" because not only is it a shit tier guilt trip but it's like. probably The Worst psychological method of getting help from anyone except for those prone to extreme guilt-trips / moral OCD
#dis.txt#i really wish more people would talk about how things like this are OCD unfriendly in such a severe way REGARDLESS of cause/motive#on top of language like ''you are LITERALLY KILLING PEOPLE by not doing this'' or ''YOU HAVE NO SOUL!!! unless you give me money lol''#very c/tholic website i've been saying it forever and i will continue to say it#if you are in a bad situation monetarily or in your own life you do deserve small joyful things. you should keep your money unless-#it's someone/something you can verifiably trust and you are sure it will not put you in a worse place financially#tithing is Fake. you do not need to give up your money or your things to be a ''good person''. you can do a lot b4 draining the bank#sorry i'm just really really angry about this shit as someone with loved ones w/ OCD & others who've been scammed b/c of guilting#especially w/ this kind of rhetoric. goddddd. the s*lvation army bucket ppl are the fucking worst with this sometimes
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