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#vent post incoming feel free to ignore lol#i know it's stupid to be stressed abt having to swap all my makeup out#but with my self esteem on the floor i really cannot leave the house without it 😭#and i'm so scared of using any of my old stuff bc i have had so many stye flare ups this year#almost done with the antibiotic ointment my doctor prescribed#my next therapy session is on sept 6th and atm i don't have the funds i need to replace stuff so i'm stressed#getting emotionally attached to someone who did not give a shit back rly fucked me up this summer i h8 everything abt that situation :(#this year hasn't been a bad one i'm just so overwhelmed rn over small things & things out of my control#i think my therapy sessions have already helped build some resilience in me tho & i'm so grateful for that#here's to hoping the rest of the year brings more healing#trying to think of rn as a transitional stage i hope better things are ahead!!!
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vent post incoming feel free to skip lol
Guys gals and nonbinary pals... We realize that oppression is not a competition, yes???? That everyone from trans women to trans men to every queer person in between gets punished for not performing gender/sexuality according to patriarchal standards, right??????? Like it doesn't MATTER how you identify or what your AGAB is, if a bigot clocks you as queer and wants to make an issue of it THEY WILL DO SO!!! If you're a butch cis woman who gets targeted because some bigot thought you were a trans woman... That's still bad??? That's still harmful bigotry??? It doesn't matter that you aren't actually a trans woman, you can still get hurt (or worse!!!) because some asshole decided you weren't performing gender correctly.
Screaming crying throwing up over the queer discourse on this hellsite
And don't even get me fucking STARTED on how the majority of this transfemme vs transmasc false dichotomy ALSO conveniently ignores how race and racism play into queer oppression as well. As if all queer experiences are universal regardless of race (they're not!!!!!) and if you disagree well then YOU must be the one who's wrong! I'm starting to see more people acknowledge the racial element but I've still mostly seen it from POC themselves. Yet another reminder that the queer community has a whiteness problem and that just having a marginalized identity does not stop you from perpetuating harm!
I genuinely believe we can move past this as a community and work together to make life better for all of us, but jesus CHRIST I just wanna go to sleep and wake up when everyone finally gets that we should be going after PEOPLE IN POWER and not each other. Boy fuckin howdy
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