#using it to describe yourself is whatever although gets a little tacky especially since theres a certain type of strange man who always

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obviously retarded is a cruel word and it's basically only ever said with such intentions and I get why people who value kindness don't want people saying that when it's associated with mostly groups of incredibly edgy and hateful people. but to be fair when you've had that word thrown at you in a genuinely ableist way rather than just a middle school boy generic insult way and you snap one day and start saying it back to those people hatefully it is kind of satisfying like resentfully so and all. so I donr really care that much I think just use it sparingly and honestly sorry.. but thatsjust my opinions .