#url positivity ; ooc answers.

[littlebadger]

✨✨✨✨ i won't pretend i know much about danny phantom - i was too old and already in college/uni when it was airing so didn't watch it. HOWEVER, that being said you are a delight on the dash and not a burden. and it clearly shows that you care for this character a lot and that you love writing him. don't give that up! you are a fantastic writer and a very kind soul, and you my friend are not a burden, trust me. we can sometimes feel like that but just because our minds tell us this, does not mean that it is true. hold your head up high because you have a wonderful blog and a terrific character <33

// oh lordy, I'm a baby compared to you then aaa !! /j /teasing

I thank you so much for sending this; I have a lot of anxiety about everything (gee, thanks GAD) so seeing positive stuff like this really helps a lot !!

I can't wait to see more of you on my dash and I have the desire to dig through your blog and go down the rabbit hole of your threads, too! <3 I love your writing!~

[whiskeysmulti]

Send me a URL and I’ll share some positivity about them- accepting!

.Whiskey. Got this one twice so answering it like this as it was sent by both @queenharumiura and @parallelroutes-ooc

Moth, I love you so much! Your portrayal of Byakuran has given my Sho so much life. I love hearing people get excited about their muses like you do. I love just chilling on discord and listening to the headcanons you have and discussing things without any pressure or strain, you're so easy to plot with and it makes things so much easier.

I could spend all night just chatting with you and listening to you get engaged in your headcanons and world building and hearing the differences in how you see Byakuran from canon. It's so cool hearing the different headcanons you come up with. The dash comm tonight had me laughing into tears at the fashion crimes comments. Seeing his interactions with Haru is different as we saw canonically she didn't really interact with him, it was the guys because of -motions to everything going on TYL- I also love that you understand Byakuran and that the smile is a lie and in 2 seconds flat he can go straight to kill mode depending on the setting and verse. I like that you also have Shioryuu too as some of the box animals can play a part in the plot too, Uri isn't thrilled to see him but I am lol.

Another thing I love is that you want to acknowledge his wrongs and fix it, as we mentioned, there is a lot that needs fixed between him and Shoichi before they can have a stable relationship otherwise it's toxic and basically forced by Stockholm syndrome. You don't know how many times I've seen this ship portrayed as toxic in fics and it made me want to cry. I am so happy you agreed that they both need to heal first and Sho needs to acknowledge that Byakuran did actually do wrong and hurt him and not be so quick and easy to forgive. You are acknowledging that yes you write a villain, and not all of them get their redemption arc so quickly. And that's my favorite thing about your portrayal, you're making him more realistic by acknowledging his wrongdoings and not just glossing them over easily.

Could say more but I'm gonna cut it here and just say that I love your portrayal and enjoy talking with you as a friend too and hope to write more with you for a long time!

@parallelroutes

[imaginarianisms]

Before going into further details, I want to mention that in order to allow the actions below, you just have to leave a like on this post and to please not reblog! By liking this post, I’m going to assume that you have read my rules and got a basic understanding of my portrayal of the muses that are available by reading through my blog pages. I also take it that you are interested in interacting with my muse(s) to develop possible relationships ( positive or negative, platonic or romantic or otherwise ) with them. It’s required that we’ve have to have interacted in order for you to like this post - this is for Ask/RP blogs only, personals, do not like this post.

Go on, punch that ❤︎ button, I won’t bite, I promise! By liking this little beauty, that means you all are okay and are giving me full permission with the following from yours truly:

🌹 Write completely random starters and mention you in them.

🌹  Write headcanons about our characters, depending of course on the bond between them and tagging the other mun.

🌹 Tag other muns with their urls in pictures/videos/audios etc. that somehow represent our friendship or the unique bond between the muses.

🌹 Spam your askbox with any of my muses whenever, with any verse I have in mind. However, you can also suggest any verse or plot idea as well.

🌹 Talk to the other mun OOC or IC.

🌹 Contact the other mun via IM or discord whenever something new related to their character crosses the mun’s mind.

🌹 Send memes, inbox starters, turn asks into threads, request to plot with you.

🌹 Tag and/or @ you in random starters.

🌹 Tag and/or @ you in graphics or text posts which remind me of your muse.

🌹 Talk and/or to you via tags, instant messages or asks, if I don’t have your Discord.

🌹 Answer and/or reply to any of yours asks, text post or open starter anytime.

🌹 Invade your inbox at ungodly hours whether it’s IC or OOC, with an idea.

🌹 Contact you to plot or to set pre-established relationships. My muses need friends, enemies, old mentors, old friends/fling/colleagues, people they work with now, people they stumbles upon… there are many possibilities, no matter the verse! I’ll talk to you but please talk to me, too. I don’t bite!

🌹 Writing spontaneous headcanons, drabbles or anything else about our muses’ bond which could pop up in my head.

🌹 Making you gifts (Pinterest boards, Spotify playlists, drabbles, promo banners etc.) and tagging you in them.

🌹 Send you some love and cookies and wrap you in a blanket!

🌹 Be friends that have fun roleplaying and being dorks together.

🌹 Liking your starter calls.

🌹 Chill about the alien invasions and fangirl and finish each other’s conspiracy theories.

🌹 Showering you with love, chocolate, hugs and cookies!

🌹 Plotting and crying screaming and suffering with me.

Finally, by you liking this, I, in return, give full permission for you do all of these things but also be aware that I know your muse(s) and have read your own rules. Don’t be shy to come by and like this post, throw a meme at me or come and prod my IM space at any time.

Also, by liking this post you are saying that you have;

🌹 Read my rules.

🌹 Skimmed through the verses & about pages.

By liking this post, I am okay with the following:

🌹 IC asks and inbox invasions (also chill about alien invasions and the zombie apocalypse too and a bunch more tbh.)

🌹 Liking my starter calls.

🌹 Random Starters.

🌹 Plotting and suffering.

🌹 Random little gifts be it drabbles, drawings, aesthetics or anything else. ( I will love you forever and shower you with chocolate, affection and love tbh.)

🌹 Tagging me in stuff that made you think about our muses.

🌹 A simple chat over IM or Discord if we're close.

Any of these I am just thrilled to do because that means that you enjoy rping with me as much as I do with all of you wonderful and talented people! Thank you all for reading this, I’m looking forward to interacting with the wonderful writers out there and their magnificent muses! Stay safe, I love you all!  — Sincerely yours, with all of my love, Angie ♥

[2c75ff]

//sliiides url over

🔵 -- 'MY OPINION ON...' meme . ACCEPTING

my opinion on;

CHARACTER IN GENERAL. I like Vegeta; but my relationship with him as a character in the canon is a bit complicated by the fact that, at various points throughout the series, I like him more for what I think he could or, in my opinion, should have been rather than what he actually was. I feel like he's given an awful lot of chances and faith by other characters which, quite frankly, I don't think he's strictly done the work to deserve. (Which could be an interesting incongruity to explore at greater depth. Unfortunately though, it often doesn't pan out that way, at least to my eyes.) He's pretty Not Great in a lot of ways, which, honestly, is what I actually like about him. I think it's interesting for him and those around him to have to wrestle with that reality; but then a lot of times it feels like he gets granted a weird amount of slack for those significant ongoing flaws, and it's like...why? He's at his best when he kind of Sucks in ways that have actual consequences for and effects on both himself and those around him.

HOW THEY PLAY THEM. You do a good and very conscious job of maintaining/highlighting Vegeta's antisocial tendencies while simultaneously leaning into traits and little situational manipulations that ensure it's possible for people's characters to interact meaningfully with him, despite him being the way he is in general. Those interactions might not be light-hearted or easy to navigate, mind you, but they are interactions, and they do have weight. I'm sure you've experienced for yourself before just how frustrating it can be when you're trying to interact with a 'withdrawn, surly loner' kind of character, but the writer isn't doing any of the legwork to help make the character accessible in a way that still feels on-point and natural for them. It's an incredibly irritating position to find yourself in, so I appreciate the effort you put into making sure that people have ample openings for interacting with Vegeta, while still allowing him to be the rude, violent, mercurial piece of work he is.

THE WRITER. We haven't necessarily talked a great deal yet, but already I appreciate how able and willing you are to come to the table with your own thoughts and ideas in hand, in terms of both IC and OOC interactions. (Like, some people simply can not hold up their end of the conversation. You don't suffer from that particular affliction; and by god, I adore you for it already.) You also draw a clear distinction between Vegeta's personality and your own, and don't at all come across as unwelcoming or standoffish yourself despite playing such a famously prickly character.

do i;

FOLLOW THEM. Yes. RP WITH THEM. Slowly but surely. WANT TO RP WITH THEM. Of course.

SHIP THEIR CHARACTER WITH MINE. As is my long-standing and glorious custom, I'm going to preface this answer with the understanding that I pretty much always need to see how characters actually interact with each other before I can say with any confidence whether or not a ship might be interesting or feasible to try out.

With that aside, I'll say right up front that I really don't anticipate that Seventeen or Vegeta will be each other's 'types'. I'm open to surprises, as always, but my kneejerk impression is that they won't be drawn to each other in those particular ways. However, I’ll also say that, if they do indeed end up sort of Weirdly Getting Along in the way we’ve talked about some, then I could see Seventeen being willing to casually fool around with Vegeta anyway without feeling the need to make a big ol' deal out of it, if Vegeta turned out to be down to clown. (Please note how much heavy lifting the word ‘if’ is doing in that sentence.)

what is my;

OVERALL OPINION. I hate this question because it's like [gestures vaguely at the previous multiple paragraphs], so I'm just going to fill this space with whatever song happens to be in my earbuds at this exact moment and call it a day.

[wdova-archive]

Send me a url and I'll write some positivity for it. Am I allowed to send my own? Have we talked enough for it to be a thing?

Send me a url and I'll write some positivity for it. || @naturesloopholed

i think we have followed one another enough FOR YEARS throughout TVD and other blogs to have earned this, because I think, you, Jennifer, you are one of the bright spots on the TVD rp community, you bring Hope to such care and light but also a dedication to the fandom, with your rpc help blog and graphics and making icons, you are just one of my favorite people in the community and everytime I come back after a hiatus you are there to greet me back and I wouldn't be happier. I know the community has gone a bit downhill for a while but I'm happy you work so hard for everyone to keep it together. And what can I say about your writing? It's wonderful, you bring depth and cohesive narrative to Hope that the writers would never dream of and I couldn't be happier to have you on my dash.

if you guys have a TVD verse or want some nice blog disregarding verses and just have a wonderful person around, give jen a follow!

[punsandfuturekingsmen-archive]

splatterlewis

SEND ME A URL splatterlewis

/Splatterlewis!! one of my top favorite Lewis muses. I don’t really do like-- rankings because each interpretation of a character is different and interesting in its own right, but he’s definitely at the top of the list of enjoyable muses i’ve interacted with. I love how he’s written so so much. He’s so conflicted and he struggles with a darkness and hating himself for it and I just adore his struggles and how he’s changed over the years and grown and the person he’d developed into. He feels real and interesting and well-rounded and every time i get to rp or interact with him, like bluescarf I just-- vibrate (internal Arthur also does the brain machine brr noise whenever I see  him on my dash lol)

The mun is also incredibly kind. They are smart, clever, passionate, and have interesting stories and have such detailed worldbuilding it leaves me in awe. I really love listening to them talk about their different muses and talking or rping out thoughts or ideas and I love when we get to do something bigger, especially with others like bluescarf and stuff. it’s clear how much they love and enjoy the muses they make and I love the chance to even for a minute interact with the worlds and characters they build and create. 

The mun is also funny and sweet and cares about their friends. I’m lucky to know them and be able to talk to or even just listen to them and I adore them and am fortunate to call them a friend. it’s also endearing how they get when I do something nice for them, which only incentivizes me lol because there’s nothing like hearing how much someone loves something you did or how much it means and they do an excellent job at that

[maestrcd]

♥ for @feebledetective !

SEND ME ♥ AND I’LL WRITE SOME POSITIVITY FOR YOU. ( accepting! )

@feebledetective oh dovey, guess who’s turn it is for some positivity!~

hi there! hope you’re having a good day whenever you’re reading this! okay, but can i please just go on a ramble with just how good dove is??? not only are they a good shuichi roleplayer, but a lovely friend! i’m so glad that i got the chance to reconnect with them, they’re still the same silly bird i met nearly a year ago. (or maybe it has been a year already who knows-)

if i remember correctly, it was through sparky’s blog that got you to find mine, and again me being the silly baby i was, found you intimidating too. but i adored you back then too; i wasn’t interacting with too many people. so when we started interacting with both the normal and pregame children, it didn’t take long for us to become friends, especially since you were on the discord server!

anyone that isn’t following dove for some unknown reason, please go ahead and do so! you’re really missing out if you’re not.

but rayne, were you here thinking i wouldn’t give you some positivity too??? silly, silly! we don’t really interact, but we really should! another thing for me to admit but i,,, adored you back then as well- and still do! i particularly remember this one ask i sent you and basically died from laughing at the response kaede had gotten. i hope we get to interact in the future!

and some hearts for both you dears. ♥♥

[frailcompass]

Okay, so I’ve put some thought into it and I still want to write V, but I think I’m gonna be a bit more picky about what I do with him at least for the time being. Things are still probably gonna be a bit slow, but I’m gonna try my best! That being said I’m gonna clear out some things. I know I still have some stuff I meant to answer in my inbox but I think I’m just gonna completely clear that out. For drafts I’m gonna only keep what I feel like I have the muse to answer. I’m sorry to those that were waiting for replies on things, but if you want to continue something or start up something new with me then just come talk to me so we can get that sorted! Just for the sake of my inspiration and energy I have to do this. Thanks for everyone being so patient with me! ♥

[waywcrdmemes]

I like how the mun clearly loves their ocs and also how they are a very chill person

What’s a so special about my blog?

( Heh, thanks, nonnie! However, there are sooooooo many others I feel this can apply to as well– )

@daemonknight @fragmentedsilhouette @soulwitch @timestrandedodst @verfolgxr @glassheartcd @cxniunctum @twinfoxtails @omnecosmos @reticexce @rosirae @rosemillennials @softestmood @porcelainghosts @moonlitsorceress @yuutaiga @phantxmthief @electrograin @alicehart @mixedfcclings @betterhealing @bcbybats @unhingedsea @unsustainableimagination @cowardlycourier @cothurnal @of-diffxrent-wxrlds @panta-rhei-psychi @violentmusebox @quantum-magician-michiko @illusionoftransience @unladylikc @bearxclaws @bewitchinglore @witchrt @thespacecontractor @rianaithe @fckebiitch @ajisaiko @embersiisms @sageofmanyworlds @ingrid-matoi @digitalfcte @univentorem @fxtelism @echointheforest @sakuraari @xanican-exile and I’m sure there are many more I’ve missed, but these are peeps I’ve seen on the dash quite a bit who also love their OCs a lot, and are pretty chill themselves! ( ´ ▽ ` )ﾉ

[icarusblade]

Boxing Day, Ice Skates and Snow Angel

DECEMBER POSITIVITY MEME | ACCEPTING.

Boxing Day: tag someone whose writing style you love

Someone whose writing style I love...Well, I gotta say @luciferborn and @creatordeath . They both have such wonderfully unique styles, and I can’t help but fawn every time I see stuff they’ve written. They manage to take such gory characters and make an absolute masterpiece.

Ice Skates: positivity for male roles

Um..how do I do this? Just...tag people who play male characters or something???? Fuck man idk I’m going with it.

@shinigamikiddo @skyvar (although they also write female characters) @ridireacht @excaliburgalatine @regalius @aifeala @porteur-of-arondight @arthxrian @ardenssolis @ryusxnka @cursedjustice @narxkami @lionbred ...uh...look i know there are a ton more but i can’t think atm--

but anyway y’all are fab and i love you

Snow Angel: positivity for female roles

now for the ladies!

@marie-the-demon-hammer @virtusferocia @noircisaint @iribells @irigalis @fatethroned @dovecrafted @gooselullaby @solisregalia @snwdoom @amaiiyashi @merrillya @treeofcrucifixion @rosaxui @moongrail ...crap i’m blanking again...

well you guys are also amazing, and i love you, too

happy holidays to all!

[littlebadger]

@floraprin​ sent a URL !

                     Send me your URL and I'll tell you

My Opinion on;

Character in general:  Cute, girly, graceful and not a jerk!~ An actual nice rich girl; super pretty too~

How they play them:  

With love and elegance. <3 I can tell you care about her a lot; she’s a nice OC !!

The Mun:  

Super friendly and cute !  An amazing writer who loves all their muses on all of their blogs. <3

Do I:

RP with them: 

Starting to !!

Want to RP with them: 

OH 100% !!

What is my;

Overall Opinion:  Be my mutual for eternity?~ <3

[wolfvirago]

send me a 🍒 + an url for positivity [accepting]

@cnlyluck​ said:  🍒 + cnlyluck 🥺👉👈

Lev! I dunno if I have told you this, but you’re really special. Your portrayal of Lucky is so consistent, so wonderful, that Robin and I couldn’t help falling in love with him~ I’m a little afraid to read Doc Aphra now, because I doubt the comic would portray Lucky as well as you do. As far as I’m concerned, he’s your OC now, no buts.

Even if I don’t always continue certain threads or answer asks, I will always want to write with you and talk with you ooc. You’re my friend and your patience and loyalty means the world to me. Thank you!

[ircnwrought]

SEND A URL AND I WILL ANSWER THE FOLLOWING

places my url for the meme because narcissistic tendency and ilu   //  @heygutlcss​

Do I Follow Them?:  pssh do i follow them hell yeah i do and i’ve been on this feels train for like eight years now Why Did I Follow Them?:  unabashed loyalty tbh i followed way back when i wrote morgan/a from bbm and darks wrote igraine. i was a scared bean to approach and ask to interact esp since i was a sideblog back then,  but it’s been a gr9 ride ever since and i will literally follow any blog darks puts up even if i know nothing about it (dune? hadn’t even heard of it until darks and now i’m super into the lore) Do We Role Play?:  absolutely we do i’m also lmao because we inevitably end up shipping because the chemistry ooc translates to ic so well. our characters have given me some of the most amazing non-canon ships ever (harmonia/hades owns my soul to this day,  maria/riff decimate me,  don’t get me started on tristan/esyllt or wanda/clark, etc etc) Do I Want To Role Play With Them:  i’m greedy give me all the things An AU Idea For Our Muses:  for a new combination of characters like we were discussing earlier after the plotting call,  imagine the motoe plot was pushed up into the wss timeline so helena is going through all that (either growing up in new york with sonia/john or post plot with rudolph) and gets to know any one of the wss babes A Song For Our Muses: for maria/riff i set work song by hozier here Do I Ship Our Muses?:  every single time What I Think About The Mun:  darks my love, my everything, my ride or die.  if anyone was going to drag me out of permanent hiatus it was you and i’m so glad you did.  i left the community after it left a sour taste in my mouth & this has been an overwhelmingly positive experience.  i can’t believe i’ve known you for years and that you only live like two states over ??  name a more iconic duo than us,  i’ll wait. Overall Opinion:  great mun,  great plots,  great time. Blog Rate: 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | 10

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bluescarfvivi

SEND ME A URL @bluescarfvivi

BLUESCARF!!!! Gosh that Vivi is absolutely one of my faves. Whenever I see her on my dash my brain Arthur machine goes brrrr. He is absolutely in LOVE with this girl and I love how well written she is. She’s sweet and smart and brave and kind and tough and so well-rounded and it’s so fun to see her and her writing on my dashboard. I simply adore that interpretation of Vivi and how she’s written and I get excited every time I get to write with her or thread.

I also love the mun so much. Like she’s so fun and silly but in the best way. It’s fun to talk to her or listen and I love how excited she gets over things (like persona or threads... or threads with persona muses haha). She’s a delight to be around and I feel super lucky to know her and do stuff together <3

[darlcng]

ㅤ ㅤ ㅤ ㅤ 𝐆𝐎𝐋𝐃𝐂𝐑𝐄𝐒𝐓 𝐑𝐄𝐒𝐈𝐃𝐄𝐍𝐂𝐄  .

ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤthe  𝒃𝒓𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒕  𝒔𝒊𝒅𝒆  of  life  !

[  CLOSED  !  ]  𝐆𝐎𝐋𝐃𝐂𝐑𝐄𝐒𝐓 𝐑𝐄𝐒𝐈𝐃𝐄𝐍𝐂𝐄  is  a  ten-room  &  two-story  house  located  in  the  suburbs  of  los  angeles  ,  about  fourty  minutes  driving  from  downtown  la  ,  which  offers  a  cozy  living  room  ,  a  fully  equipped  kitchen  and  even  a  pool  and  a  backyard  .  sounds  like  a  dream  ,  right  ?  except  that  the  rent  is  not  as  good  as  you  thought  .  however  ,  you  really  liked  it  .  that’s  why  ten  struggling  strangers  who  fell  in  love  with  the  house  decided  to  do  something  rather  risky  :  rent  the  house  together  and  share  the  expenses  .  their  lease  is  starting  soon  ,  and  they’ll  all  have  to  learn  how  to  live  with  each  other  even  when  they  have  no  idea  of  who  they’re  gonna  live  with  .  sleeping  under  the  same  roof  as  strangers  can  be  exciting  ,  and    i  wonder  what  will  happen  !

the  group  is  a  semi-appless  ,  small  discord  roleplay  revolving  around  the  residents  of  the  goldcrest  residence  and  their  lives  as  strangers  learning  to  live  together  .

if  you  have  any  questions  ,  concerns  or  suggestions  ,  my  inbox  is  open  !  if  you  want  to  send  your  app  ,  please  use  my  submit  box  .  thank  you  !

𝐬𝐮𝐦𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐲  :  a  semi-appless  ,  small  and  chem-based  discord  roleplay  with  chill  activity  ,  focused  on  the  lives  of  the  residents  of  the  goldcrest  residence  and  their  interactions  as  ten  strangers  .  it  is  a  safe  environment  &  diversity  is  highly  encouraged  .  template  cred  goes  to  kaori96  on  deviantart  .

#  𝐑𝐔𝐋𝐄𝐒  .

one  .  basic  roleplaying  etiquette  .  muns  must  be  above  the  age  of  eighteen  and  muses  /  faceclaims  must  be  over  the  age  of  twenty  .  no  godmodding  ,  bubble  rping  ,  ooc  drama  or  discrimination  will  be  tolerated  here  .  since  this  is  a  small  group  ,  everyone  should  be  welcoming  and  treat  members  respectfully  .  should  you  have  any  problems  with  a  particular  mun  ,  please  message  me  privately  .  you  don’t  have  to  be  my  mutual  to  join  ,  but  that’d  be  nice  !

two  .  this  is  a  chem-based  group  focused  on  character  development  so  there  will  be  no  plotting  ahead  required  .  some  sort  of  literacy  is  a  basic  requirement  .  while  you  don’t  have  to  write long  paragraphs  or  use  gifs  ,  paras  are  encouraged  !  

three  .  interest  checks  will  be  held  weekly  to  make  sure  everyone  is  still  interested  in  the  group  .  you  have  twenty- four  hours  to  react  ,  otherwise  you’ll  be  removed  .  if  you  need  a  hiatus  ,  please  let  me  know  and  we  won’t  remove  you  from  the  group  !

four  .   banned  faceclaims  are  those  deceased  ,  who  do  not  wish  to  be  roleplayed  ,  anyone  below  the  age  of  twenty  ,  and  it  includes  :  tiktokers  , the  vlog  squad  ,  kardashians  /  jenners  ,  biebers  ,  kj  apa  ,  cole  sprouse  ,  camila  cabello  ,  ariana  grande  ,  ansel  elgort  ,  ester  exposito  ,  nicola  peltz  ,  gavin  leatherwood  .

five  .  only  one  muse  will  be  allowed  per  mun  and  i’ll  be  carefully  selecting  the  muses  that  vibe  more  with  the  group  .  there  will  be  nine  spots  as  the  tenth  spot  is  mine  .  i’m  looking  for  characters  that  fit  the  house  and  bring  interesting  elements  to  the  group  !  things  like  diversity  and  originality  will  be  taken  into  consideration  .

#  𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐋𝐈𝐂𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍  .

(  faceclaim  ,  age  ,  pronouns  )  the  goldcrest  residence  welcomes  you  to  your  new  home  ,   [  FIRST  AND  LAST  NAME  ]  !  here  are  the  keys  to  the  house  and  we  hope  you  have  a  good  time  here  .  we’ve  heard  that  you’re  a  [  AGE  ]  years  old  [  OCCUPATION  ]  from  [  HOMETOWN  ]  ,  is  that  right  ?  you  look  very  [  POSITIVE  TRAIT  ]  ,  but  also  a  little  [  NEGATIVE  TRAIT  ]  ,  and  i  heard  the  reason  you  moved  here  is  that  [  REASON  ]  .  i  wonder  if  that’s  true  !  anyway  ,  go  ahead  and  make  yourself  comfortable  !  (  ooc  name  /  alias  ,  age  ,  pronouns  ,  timezone  ,  tumblr  url  ,  triggers  )

please  answer  at  least  one  of  these  questions  in  character  :

what  do  you  think  are  your  biggest  qualities  and  why  ?

do  you  think  you  are  a  good  roommate  and  why  ?

what  are  three  things  you  can’t  live  without  and  why  ?

#  𝐓𝐀𝐊𝐄𝐍  (  01  /  10  SPOTS  )  .

faceclaims  :  avan  jogia  .

#  𝐀𝐏𝐏  𝐂𝐎𝐔𝐍𝐓  (  14  )  .

alissa  violet  as  tessa  kingsley  .

anya  taylor-joy  as  cora  maddon  .

christina  nadin  as  sora  pacaon  .

florence  pugh  as  luciana  ‘  lucky  ’  lombardi  .

froy  gutierrez  as  wolfe  escobar  .

jack  gillinsky  as  isaac  fisch  .

logan  lerman  as  forest  eller  .

maggie  lindemann  as  blair  eller  .

matilda  djerf  as  paxon  lund  .

normani  kordei  as  aaliyah  howell  .

rudy  pankow  as  lee  kilbride  .

sab  zada  as  evangeline  ramos  .

zayn  malik  as  iskander  al-kasiri  .

zoey  deutch  as  arlo  wisniewski  .    

[rpbetter]

Thanks for your thoughts. Nope, I don't have another problem with the psa. It's the subtle word choice pretty much, but nothing else. I don't mind if people use me as a meme farm, so when I see psas like that or comments like that, I get upset because I associate it with people who make other blanket assumptions about all rpers, I have it linked in my head with people going around saying "rp is a hobby not a jobby" and making other assumptions about how all rpers do their thing.

Thank you for answering those questions!

The assumptive quality of the RPC can seriously be annoying as hell, especially if you're in the minority on any particular issue. When that's the case, the PSAs are so rarely geared toward you and any issues you might be experiencing that it's legitimately upsetting. I absolutely feel you on that!

I mean, obviously. Obviously lol I do. It couldn't be much clearer that I have a serious issue with the constant bombardment of PSAs insisting that we normalize shitty behaviors that are the damn norm, that we're all just losers RPing on tumblr so no one should be anxious about anything ever (instead of, you know, maybe trying to legitimately boost people's confidence, radical thought), or that anything that isn't being hostile to oneself is being hostile to everyone else.

I think the issue is that, while there is obviously a majority set of takes/issues/experiences (though, those, too, absolutely can skew toward one's particular RP corner and style), there's no way to address every instance and variable of an issue. Particularly not when anything other one paragraph is too lengthy for a lot of people here to engage with in a meaningful way.

So, I know I have to frequently ask, "is this a legitimate or hostile sort of blank-statement, or is it just addressing the majority experience? If it's the latter, is it genuinely enough of a problem to address?"

Like, did they mean that this is an experience most RPers have, or did they mean this is the only experience/is the correct and only way to do things? And that's not always answerable, of course, but when I feel like it is, it's usually found on OP's blog and RPC itself.

If OP has expressed things that are not the majority experience, expressed that they do not agree with blanket-statements, and doesn't imply with every rule, PSA, point on the DNI, and so on that to approach and proceed with RP in a way they do not is to commit some manner of terrible IRL crime? It's almost certainly that they were just expressing a majority experience and nothing more.

And in this case, yeah, as I'm sure you've noticed from being on the opposite side of this, it is the majority experience. I don't recall ever seeing very many RPers who do not espouse having an issue with having their memes and aesthetics reblogged without some manner of (rules specified if they're not a dick) interaction/relationship with the other mun. (Such as "mutuals are okay to reblog" or "I expect reblog karma and practice it.")

I don't know if there has been an influx of newer RPers or those who have migrated from more relaxed areas of the RPC, but recently, there really has been an increase in at least my corners of muns being used as resource blogs when they do not wish to be. They've all expressed in their rules their particular boundaries for that, have made overall posts politely but firmly asking that people who do not write with them and haven't even read their rules not do this, and have gone directly to the worst offenders to ask them to stop. And it continues to happen. So, I imagine that is why you might be seeing an influx of PSAs about the matter in response.

For anyone watching this conversation that might not understand why some muns are so against this, some reasons are:

clogging up their notifications

the aesthetic was their picture, edit, quote, etc. and not meant to be shared off their blog/only by the partner(s) tagged in it

when you reblog from someone, their URL is obviously attached, spreading them to another dash full of people - they might like you, but not want some of your mutuals following to their blog

their muse doesn't get much interaction, but other muns keep reblogging memes/aesthetics from them when they won't write with them or send anything in

they feel used for the above reason or any variety of other reasons

I'm really sure you know that, Anon, but I think it's important that we all understand where we're coming from because there are so many different preferences and experiences. It's really not good enough to just feel like everyone can do whatever they want, so long as it isn't harassing anyone else/they're being respectful of others. Because can feel that way all we want to while still getting upset when we lack the understanding of preferences that are extremely different, or even in opposition to our own.

We can't effectively respect each other without that sort of understanding of even the things that annoy us, you know? So, I try to promote that understanding and explain things for people who might simply see this on their dash.

Like the "hobby not jobby" thing! I don't get that, I think it has some concerning IRL connotations people are not recognizing, and it's a great way to treat other muns like shit while justifying the behavior. It's in opposition to what I do not because it exists, but rather, because it is weaponized in order to excuse bad behavior and vilify muns who do not engage with the hobby in this way. It doesn't have to exist in hostile opposition to how I enjoy RP, the use of it has made it this way, is what I'm saying.

But I understand where it came from and what it means for the more rational, adult muns here who feel this way. To them, it's just that this is an ultra casual hobby. The way I engage with RP is like a full contact sport lol it requires a lot of effort and engagement, and the effort and engagement is fun. They way they engage with RP is an act of disengaging, it is more like what watching TV is for me - they're just here for some light, quick entertainment.

Understanding this difference is understanding that not everyone who feels so casually about RP is a jackass insisting that everyone else better feel the same way, that their way is the only correct and good way. I'm still not interested in writing with them, it's far too different for that to work out, but it allows for delineating who is enjoyable on my dash/OOC that is into casual RP and who needs to stay behind a block somewhere because they think anyone who has RP as a primary hobby is trying to ruin it for them somehow, attacking them by existing, and the following list of terrible things as a person.

I think that all problems in the RPC could be drastically mitigated by a combination of understanding and mutual respect. People who are alright with others treating them like a meme resource absolutely can and should interact with people who don't feel that way without a problem, for example - all that takes is being aware of your mutual's rules and respecting them.

Damn near 100% of the PSAs out there honestly should not ever have to exist, they come down to the same factors of just exercising some easy respect for each other.

Again, the trouble often comes in at those very differing factors we need to be mindful of. When we feel like the weird one out in the RPC constantly, whether something is actually othering us or not, it starts to feel like it is. We start finding reasons and evidence, and much of the time, at least among those whose first inclination isn't to label OP as various terrible shit as a person, that takes the form of "not everyone."

Well, of course, not everyone! But unfortunately, when we are of the minority opinion/experience, we sometimes have to just realize that very thing. It isn't personal, and that while someone has caused issues coming from this side with that difference, we are not for our mutuals, so this isn't about us. We're actually doing the thing the PSA is speaking of by not pushing our preferences on others. If that PSA is just speaking from a place of the majority experience and nothing more, we're just annoyed with it for that reason and nothing else when it comes right down to it. We're just kind of sick of being in the minority opinion on this issue, and now are geared to feel like we're being hounded by most PSAs.

It's not an easy thing to get over or work with, it's not even something that gets to be faultless, but it definitely makes the experience less irritating when we can get to a point of stepping back and analyzing the situation without those emotions intensely in play. Seriously, if I allowed the issues I have with most PSAs out there to be evident by reblogging them with refutations or anger? That's all I'd spend my time doing, that'd be my hobby and not actual RP...and I'd absolutely be the most hated and blocked mun on tumblr in short order no matter how valid my points were. (And, I think, with good reason, I really do not support reblogging that sort of thing with negative commentary.)

What helps? Make your own positive PSA about your experience! Make one of those "reblog if" posts, I have never seen one that says "reblog if...you are alright with your mutuals reblogging memes and aesthetics from you without reblog karma."

I'm being dead serious, I encourage you to do that! It's great when you're of the minority opinion and do something like that because you can literally see not only that you're not alone at all but also that it's made other people feel seen. If you do that, let me know, I'll reblog it, even.