#unpopular opinion here but i DONT think that him domming all the time would solve the intimacy problem he has.

[villaincock]

can we be so fucking for real for a second

ghosts intimacy issues would be solved if he was touched patiently yet consistently enough that he would be used to the sensation of it. spooning him would help. holding his hand. adjusting his equipment when its askew. a gentle hand on the back or shoulder, especially as positive reinforcement… all im saying is that if youre tender and treat him with care, like a treasure, he would open up some more. be more comfy with you and eventually even learn to reciprocate.