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clarabowmp3 · 1 month
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You forget that ttpd's streak was broken and then it re-entered number 1. why do you have something to always complain about? is it affecting you? no! are you affecting her in any shape or form? no! am i affecting her? no! so like, stfu for fucks sake
oh….oh my god??? I wouldn’t call my tags on that post complaining ??? That was just my opinion. And I dont know if it’s considered ‘forgetting’ if I never even knew that its streak was broken in the first place. Like you said, it’s not rlly smth that affects me, so the only times I’d hear abt its streak etc would be with the occasional variant drops. Also, Im very serious when I say I don’t care. I’m not celebrating every week it stays #1, and I’m not crowing over her “failing” ie dropping out of #1, I rlly dont care abt chart sales records etc etc
The reason why I talk abt it is cuz my feelings surrounding her differ from day to day. Some days I’m more apathetic so I don’t rlly care, but other days I miss the years when I rlly looked up to her and feel upset/betrayed (yes I know the parasocial is showing) because of how frequently I disagree with her actions these days, in comparison to pre-midnights era. For example, I’m not going to get into it here but I feel like she’s pretty unsportsmanlike with respect to the charts etc, and I think I made a post abt it a while back. Yes, it doesn’t affect me, but my brother in Christ you and I are on tumblr dot com what else would u expect?? this is pretty much my online diary/running internal monologue (like I post abt a lot of my thoughts, a decent chunk of them happening to be about taylor)
On a broader issue, you say that I “always have something to complain about.” In case it wasn’t clear before, I personally am not a cupcake swiftie. I’m mutuals with a few ppl who could be considered cupcake swifties i suppose, but that’s mostly cuz I’m too close to them to want to unfollow them etc. Sometimes taylor does things that warrant criticism imo, and sometimes I feel like talking abt it on my blog, which some ppl agree or disagree with - that’s pretty much the basis of tumblr esp when it comes to discourse. If you don’t like seeing it, you could always unfollow/block me/my #discourse tag (and I’m rlly not being sarcastic here; curating ur online experience to your tastes rlly helps in my experience)
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pclungs · 3 years
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ok talked to a friend abt the pan stuff i think ik how i feel now. the pan label has an inherently biphobic past that im angry about but if you are someone who agrees that bi/pan mean the same thing and ID as pan, i need you to understand that bi ppl have the right to be angry about the label and you should not speak over them. at the same time it sits wrong with me when i see ppl harassing ppl who use the pan label like suibaiting or clogging up their asks/messages because the whole point is to discuss its problematic nature isnt it? like i get it im angry too i would talk about this more if it didnt make me feel gross but what are you really doing whats the end goal ? just like express that anger through your own posts and if ur able to, discuss to pan ppl why the label is an issue. it can uproot a lot of uncomfortable biphobic stuff so ik thats hard to do at the same time esp if ur like me and having to discuss ur own rights feels degrading. and you should be allowed to be openly angry but harassment is a waste of ur own time that ur spending on someone you dont like! take care of yourself instead. im ok with ppl who dont like the pansexuality label following me. if you're pansexual and following me i still recognize you as another queer person and i'm not gonna run you off for that ONLY if you agree that bi/pan mean the same thing. and even then you need to look within yourself and ask if you are choosing that label because you think it is somehow better than bisexuality in any way. and if at the end of the day you are truly a loud advocate for bisexuals then you can stay but im still side-eyeing you for your choice. i'm not going to talk shit about pan ppl as a whole personally because i would feel like i am talking behind the back of ppl close to me like my brother who i genuinely believe actively helps bi ppl speak out for themselves. he's like my best friend and he was the very first person to not only accept me as bi but to encourage me to talk about it and in turn i unintentionally helped him come out to my parents. im not here to spend my whole discourse online esp if i got loved ones who ID as pan. you can talk shit abt pan ppl you have right to that anger but i wont participate in it myself
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dilftaroooo · 3 years
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HELP I WAS TRYNA SEND AN ASK AND I UNFOLLOWED YOU FUCK TUMBLR UI DESIGN FGAJKDSBAKDBA
but anyways even tho i dont write dc i wish people understood that fanfic writers are being very generous and courteous when they tag their work accordingly bc if you pick up a real published work of fiction, they do not have tag warnings and they do not give a fuck
instead of making things someone else's problem, simply take charge of your online experience and curate it to your liking. you'll literally live babes the block button is free FBDSJKFBDSK
lmaooo I was like “hUUUH y she unfollow me?!😭😭”
but that is exactly my point, bestie. books, movies, shows, etc., they can include dark content as well. REAL authors publish dark content and it’s up to the audience to see if they have the guts to read it (same with movies). not everything in this world is gonna be ur typical vanilla sex and cutesy cuddling with ur bf/gf. there’s more in the world than that and not everybody wants to write basic shit.
some movie directors and authors have fucked up minds and i love it.
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shigussy · 2 years
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About inevitable shigadeku on TL. Whenever you see a gross post, you should check which of the people you follow likes and follows that content (right above the post) and unfollow them. I believe that would be you best bet to get rid of it. And if you wanna keep track of the people you've unfollowed you can make a bnha-themed list. I wish you best of luck with curating your online experience and twitter can burn in hell <3
i've been doing that but unfortunately it pops up a lot when im searching stuff on twitter it's not popping up on my tl i muted stuff like 'shigadeku' 'endabi' 'kai chisaki' etc. i just dont have the energy to go through and completely purge people's pages in general i did it once a couple years ago when i was active on mdzs twt to the point where i was known by name by X*EX*AO shippers to hate their fave ship(which was abusive but i wont explain it here)
ugh but i mainly use twitter for news, and like some nsfw artists i trust bc i already throughly checked out. it's a pain in the ass to find new ones tho bc i find one and start looking through their pages and then i see literal incest or smth and i have to block and wish i had eye bleach. but ugh trust me no matter how hard u try you will always see something ur trying to avoid on twt it was my main sm platform for a couple of years bc my old friend group refused to use tumblr
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