#uncomfortable whumpee

[whumpster-dumpster]

We generally think of the bed as a good place for whumpees to be but let me tell ya, when the whumpee goes to sleep in the top bunk/a loft bed and only then does something go wrong, it can be a big struggle for the caretaker to get them back down to properly help them or take them elsewhere for help

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You've heard of: singing silly songs to your pet

Now get ready for: defiant whumpees singing silly songs about how their whumper is an asshole Bonus: Whumper is listening behind the corner.

[blooming-bruises]

Caretakers that don't refuse to call Whumpee a dog or thing when Whumpee freaks out about being called a person or by a name (their name?).

Caretakers that let Whumpee sleep on the floor. Maybe adding a blanket to make it a little softer, but not forcing Whumpee to sleep in a bed.

Caretakers that let Whumpee continue to wear a collar until they're ready.

Caretakers that fight the battles for Whumpee to believe they deserve good things within the framework of their conditioning before challenging the conditioning itself ,,,

[foundfamilywhump]

day 100000 of me seeing a post about 'care/whumpers' and thinking 'that is literally just a whumper who is nice sometimes. you are literally just describing a whumper'

[crabofthewoods]

my love for helpless whumpees vs. my deep-rooted fear and embarrassment of helplessness

[cupcakes-and-pain]

Medical whump idea: the Whumper using a cervical collar and/or spine board to immobilize a whumpee (especially if they use it incorrectly >:3)

[whumpitisthen]

hi i’m the anon from earlier :) and i just wanna say thanks for answering my ask you explained exactly how i feel sooo perfectly. like i’ve always felt this way (wanting to be an irl whumpee) my whole life and i never knew what it meant? cuz i didn’t think it could possibly be a kink because whump is absolutely not sexual to me either. but then i learned that not all kinks are sexual and realized whump is probably a non sexual kink for me too. and finding all this out and that there’s more people like me out there feels so extremely validating because i’ve always felt so alone

anyway to answer ur question, i love carewhumpers soo much. like yesss kidnap me and keep me captive but also be nice to me sometimes and take care of me :) but never let me go no matter how much i beg

referring to this ask

You are valid and i love you i will keep you and probably hurt you but its out of love and i will never let you go kissing you on your head

[chaoticdreamers-world]

for some reason, whumpee gets the jumpseat on the 15-hour flight, just as they were already coming down with a cold.

[wolfeyedwitch]

Character who is dramatic... in inverse proportion to the severity of the situation.

Stubbed toe? Cursing in multiple languages.

Minor inconvenience? Shakespearean monologue level of response.

But when something gets serious? When something has really, really gone wrong? They are laser focused, no humor or drama in sight.

Flat Affect Whump

Caretaker doesn’t know something is wrong with Whumpee until Whumpee outright tells them.

Whumpee asks how normal they look and Caretaker says they look completely relaxed. Whumpee then replies that they are not relaxed, and feel terrified.

Whumpee whose affect is always flat during crisis because of trauma making them view it as a weakness others can exploit.

Whumpee whose affect becomes flat during a crisis because they no longer have the energy to mask.

Whumpee who suddenly cannot see straight acting as if they can and looking in the direction of people’s voices.

Whumpee forcing their face into an expression of pain when they’re injured as a form of communication because they’ve been ignored in the past for not looking like they’re in pain.

Caretaker is accused of being cold by other Caretaker for not showing emotion on their face.

Whumpee sounds like they’re laughing because they don’t know how else to respond to the pain

Whumpee who is never afraid in the moment, but experiences a delayed reaction to fear hours or days after. Something happens and everyone praises Whumpee for being so calm and don’t think to check in on them because they seem fine. Hours later, Whumpee is struck by extreme fear while sitting alone in their room. Caretaker finds them and comforts them.

[digital-nova]

Winged whump prompts

plucking out ‘ugly’ feathers and replacing them with synthetic ones.

adorning the wings with heavy, gold jewellery that weighs them down.

feathers that can’t grow back.

wings hurting to open properly because they’ve been uncomfortably restrained for so long.

painting the feathers. a small, intimate task that requires time and patience, from both whumpee and the artist.

wings being held up by chains/ropes, on display for anyone to marvel at.

breaking wings as punishment.

wings being removed entirely to go on display in a gallery/museum. are they known to be real? or does someone take credit for creating them as an art piece?

in a medical setting, wings requiring their own set of restraints to keep whumpee from moving.

wings being the only part of whumpee that is valued and cared for. without them, they are worthless.

whumpee forgetting how to fly after being in captivity.

alternatively: not being able to because of how damaged their wings are.

feathers starting to fall out because of how terrible whumpee’s condition is.

[whumpalicious]

Hehe, it's gammel. It basically means weak or unsteady. You're not sick per se, but everything feels off. Exactly like described there.

Weeïg is another fun one, it has the same vibes but a little more towards nausea

hello whump community, today I put forward for your consideration:

that horrible unwell feeling you get when you're sleep deprived. headaches, stomach aches, feeling cold and disoriented

that's all

[whump-in-the-closet]

give me whumpees with scars they can't hide. Not by a scarf, long sleeves, or even a mask. Give me whumpees whose hair has gone white with stress, give me whumpees whose hands shake and are always unsteady, give me whumpees with amputated limbs and scars that split their features. Uncomfortable scars. They aren't aesthetic they aren't pretty they just are. And then let them deal with hushed "oh god"s and the stares and the whispered conversations behind their backs. Let the recovery break them in ways not even the torture could.

[vivisectedboy]

"Just focus on your breathing. Yeah, good, like that."

Whumpee tries their best to stay in control. To collect themselves. To stop their mind from screaming at how wrong all this is. To ignore Whumper's hand still resting on the knife.

"In," while Whumper counts to three on his fingers, "and out." an other three seconds.

It's uncomfortable at first.

"In,"

Their body isn't used to the rhythm, their lungs fill up too fast and too shallow, and their exhales are accompanied by miserable noises forced out of their throat.

"Out."

But their breathing steadies slowly. Their body isn't shaking violently anymore, their hands aren't desperately grasping Whumper's shirt, their thoughts getting less and less jumbled.

"In."

They recoil at the sheer absurdity of the situation. Sitting in their captors lap, his hands running up and down their exposed back. The same hands that held him down and scarred him forever.

"Out."

They hate how despite this, they managed to calm down. For a moment of impossible peace, only their breaths exist, and the warmth they've been craving for so long.

"In." He says, tightening his grip on the knife.

Their mind switches back instantly as they notice the blade shift in Whumper's hand. With the swiftest movement, it's now held against their throat, threatening to cut if they dare exhale too early. Panic sets in once again, their heart rate rising with every painful second.

They close their eyes as their vision starts to go black. Their chest feels like it's about to burst from the pressure.

"Out." After what feels like several minutes, he finally commands.

Whumpee is only relieved for a moment, as they exhale, but it doesn't last long.

It's even worse this time. Their lungs burn. Their ears start to ring, and they feel their heart pounding in their throat. Black spots start appearing in the corner of their vision again, and they just can't help it. They reflexively suck in a small, hitched breath. They, of course, quickly realise just how big of a mistake that was.

Whumper pushes the knife harder against their throat, and as they try to squirm away, they're stopped by his hands firmly holding his back.

"You only breathe, when I say so. Do that again, and I might just go a lot deeper. Understood?"

Whumpee nods, only driving the knife further into his skin. Whumper grins at their desperate struggle not to breathe, panic growing with each second. Even when he moves the blade, they don't make a sound, only the slightest movement and a small twitch of his facial muscles.

"In."

A horrible gasp, on the verge of tears. They can't cry, that would surely be the end. They keep staring at the ceiling. It hurts so bad. Drops of sweat roll down his neck, mixing with the blood from the wound. Their hands start to go numb, either from clenching them too hard, or from the lack of oxygen. Just keep looking up. They let their mouth fall agape, closing their throat instead. Keep looking.

"Don't pass out."

The ceiling is spinning. Is there a fan? Or is that just a lamp?

It won't stop spinning. It's so bright.

Keep looking. Keep looking. Up.

"You can do it. A few more seconds."

Where is that sound coming from? A repetitive thump-thump-thump from afar. The kind of bass that reverberates in your whole body. Must be a concert somewhere.

Did they turn the lamp off-

"Out."

[thechaoticfanartist]

Things about crying I'd love to see in more whump:

- Being tired. Even if they weren't tired before they're tired now. Crying takes energy. Sometimes they sleep easier after crying.

- Eyes hurting. It may just be me but sometimes eyes can hurt after crying. It's not talked about enough.

- Dried tears!! Whumpee who has cried but can't/ doesn't wash their face and so now they can still feel where their tears have dried and their skin is uncomfortable. Perhaps hurting/burning to tie into the last one.

[sugarsweetwriter]

Whumpee who's required to go to weekly therapy sessions.

Whumpee who takes hours of pleading with to finally get to the car, where they sit quietly for the whole car ride, stiff and uncomfortable.

Whumpee who clings to Caretaker's side for the whole therapy session, unwilling to let go of them even when it's supposed to be a one-on-one appointment.

Whumpee who practically runs back to the car the second the clock strikes whatever time the appointments supposed to end.

Caretaker who feels so guilty for having to drag Whumpee to these appointments while knowing how much Whumpee despises them.

Caretaker who takes Whumpee out to do something fun they enjoy after every appointment.

Caretaker who cuddles up with Whumpee on the bed/couch whenever they get home to watch a show or movie and give Whumpee their favourite food or snack.

[whumpberry-cookie]

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(C:) I'm under impression that you don't really like when I hug you. Don't you?

(W:) ......

(C:) Whumpee, seriously. Don't you?

(W:) Well I don't mind just taking it if you want to.

(C:) It's not about "taking it". I wouldn't keep hugging you if you told me you don't like it! And what about petting your head, or holding your hand or... calling you sweetheart. You don't like those either?

(W:) ...I mean- you can do whatever you please, really. I'll adapt to it eventually...

(C:) Oh my gosh, Whumpee. If it makes you uncomfortable, why didn't you say anything all this time?

(W:) I.. eh... I thought you were doing it on purpose..

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The concept of living with other person that wouldn't be a substitute for Whumper is too wild for Whumpee.