#u cant impose it on a partner who is clearly uncomfortable.
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some of yall in the iwtv tag tonight do not understand bdsm and why this dynamic is deeply unhealthy rn
#my post#iwtv#holds ur hand. kink is not therapy. it can b therapeutic & cathartic. but its not a substitute for therapy & your partners arent therapists#and you cannot on a whim without agreement try to initiate scenes in public#u cant ask ur partner on a whim in the middle of a convo abt very emotional stuff for them to make decisions for you bc “d/s”#you cant use it as an excuse to lose control the rest of the time#u cant impose it on a partner who is clearly uncomfortable.#like theres much wrong happening here
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