#ty for tagging stinker

[iovetecchou]

thank you for the tag my beloved stinker and naomi <3

Three Ships: suegiku yatori eimiko

First Ship: CM Punk x Aj Lee (gasps— i was 12 don’t bully me…)

Last Song: It’s Not My Fault - Muu Kusunoki (Milgram)

Last Movie: The Other Zoey

Currently Reading: The Picture Of Dorian Gray (ty for the rec cole<3)

Currently Watching: 13 Going On 30

Currently Consuming: uhhh,, water

Currently Craving: steak and fries, peace and quiet, alone time, a more positive mindset, for things to make sense

no pressure tags: @foranpo @ineedjouno @danhengsdarling @anqelically @nikolaiismysugardaddy +anyone else who wants to join (:

continuing a tag game! "9 people you would like to get to know better"

(the post was really long, and i'm always hesitant about reblogging those, so i hope it was okay to splinter off ^-^ here's the chain i got tagged in!)

Thank you @paradoxlemonade for the tag!!

1. 3 ships; hmm, probably Joel/Etho (double life smp, etc.), Joe Hills/Oli (hermitcraft/empires smp s2), and Witch Shelby/Princess Katherine (empires smp s2)

2. first ever ship; Sokka/Suki (<- first one ever, before i knew what shipping was) or Remus Lupin/Sirius Black (<- first obsessive ship)

3. last song; Take Me to War by The Crane Wives (its. so good. and also influencing a fic maybe shhh)

4. last movie; I want to say Lilo and Stitch? I think?

5. currently reading; Haven't started a new book yet, but the last thing i finished rereading was The Scorpio Races by Maggie Stiefvater. Very good book, i love it (have an au of it planned, may finish it someday)

6. currently watching; mm, it's been a while, but I don't think i finished The Queen's Gambit? That's the last show i was working my way through i think.

7. currently consuming; Boba tea! It's a mango fruit tea with rainbow jellies though, because boba pearls are a no texture XD

8. currently craving; a hug. Might grab one of my younger siblings and get them to cuddle with me :3

9 people to tag; @nevergonnasaygoodbi, @maybitsnia, @ilexdiapason, @neoflames, @bigb-enthusiast, @giddyfenix, @alittlebirb, @bishops-severed-torso, @ellalily

Of course, there's no pressure to participate if you don't want to <3

[hyakuraii]

Tagged

By @kugurii - thanks stinker, this only took me what, 2 weeks?

Answer these 85 statements about yourself, then tag others.

I have next to no friends so do this if you want to and tag me so I can see!

LAST

drink - water phone call - my best friend text message - “STOP” song you listened to - endless night (from toumyu atsukashiyama ibun) time you cried - i...don’t really remember? probably last september when i said goodbye to my parents at the airport to start a new year at uni

dated someone twice - no kissed someone & regretted - yes been cheated on - no lost someone special - no been depressed - yes gotten drunk and thrown up - no

FAV COLOURS

black, red, teal

IN THE LAST YEAR, YOU…

made new friends - yes fallen out of love - no laughed until you cried - yes found out someone was talking about you - yes met someone who changed you - yes found out who your friends are - yes kissed someone on your facebook friends list - no

GENERAL

how many of your facebook friends do you know irl - i rarely use facebook but i’m pretty sure i only add people i know irl do you have any pets - no do you want to change your name - no what did you do for your last birthday - class then went to have afternoon tea with my best friend! what time did you wake up today - 7am what were you doing at midnight last night - scrolling through twitter what is something you can’t wait for - summer!!! what are you listening to right now - 花色衣 have you ever talked to a person named tom - yes, knew about 3 toms in high school something that’s getting on your nerves - my impending exams and graduation most visited website - tumblr hair colour - dark brown long or short hair - long do you have a crush on someone - no what do you like about yourself - my hair, probably? want any piercings - yes, i want to redo my ear piercings but my mom won’t let me blood type - A+ nicknames - chlo, sylfy relationship status - single zodiac - aquarius pronouns - she/her fav TV shows - game of thrones or doctor who tattoos - none right or left handed - right ever had surgery - not to my knowledge sports - badminton, but not since last year piercings - used to have ear piercings but they closed up vacation - stockholm or tokyo/kyoto trainers - bought a pair about a month ago

MORE GENERAL

eating - nothing drinking - water about to watch - nothing waiting for - the sweet embrace of death want - ...tickets to atsukashiyama ibun saien in august get married - ......maybe...? career - dream job would be a photographer, but i have no idea what (realistically) to do

WHICH IS BETTER

hugs or kisses - hugs lips or eyes - eyes shorter or taller - taller older or younger - older nice arms or stomach - arms hookup or relationship - relationship troublemaker or hesitant - neither

HAVE YOU EVER

kissed a stranger - no drank hard liquor - no lost glasses - no turned someone down - yes sex on first date - no broken someone’s heart - probably had your heart broken - yes been arrested - no cried when someone died - no fallen for a friend - no

DO YOU BELIEVE IN

yourself - no miracles - sometimes love at first sight - no santa claus - no kiss on a first date - no angels - yes because sato ryuji exists

OTHER

best friend’s name - christie and tasnim eye colour - dark brown fav movie - off the top of my head, captain america the winter soldier for live action, kimi no na wa for anime fav actor - sato ryuji!

[shroudwayman]

Skills Your Character Can Do: Renaux

[Bold what your character can do well, italic what they can do modestly]

bake a cake from scratch (Ren can barely cook well enough to feed himself let alone bake a cake) | ride a horse/chocobo | drive a submarine | speak a second language | dance | catch a fish | play an instrument | throw a punch | build a deck (maybe) | ice skate | program a computer | change a flat tire (wagon wheels count?) | fire a gun ! !  | sew | juggle | play poker | paint (anyone can paint. Paint WELL? maybe not.) | fly a kite | sculpt | write poetry | change a diaper | sing | shoot a bow and arrow ! ! | ride a bike (if they existed, definitely) | swim | sail a boat  | do a back-flip (he practices) | play chess | give cpr | pitch a tent (:eyes: emoji) | flirt | stitch a wound | read palms | use chopsticks | write in cursive/calligraphy | use an electric drill | braid hair | make a campfire | make a mixed drink (Oh man jokes on everyone Ren had no idea how to bartend when he started at Kiss HE JUST RAN WITH WHATEVER SEEMED LIKE A GOOD IDEA)  | do sudoku puzzles (he’s not good at them but he Tries) | wrap a gift | give a good massage (:eyes: emoji x2) | jump-start a car airship | roll their tongue | magic tricks | yoga ?  | tie a tie | skip a rock | shuffle a deck of cards | read morse code (Ren knows a couple of Codes, a tapping Code like morse could be one ) | pick a lock  (The Scoundrel abides.)

Tagged by: @rokachan​ @keelime-art​ ♥♥ Ty both! 

Tagging: I am always so late on these ;v; If you do it, tag me back! 

Art by: @rokachan !!! LOOKIT THIS CUTE LIL STINKER  X3 

[lifeofclonewars]

so I saw this tag game going around for another fandom I’m in and I wasn’t tagged but I decided I wanted to do it. My stats here will be my Star Wars only ones, so if you wanna check out my full stats, my main is @lifeofmarvvel

Tagging: any of my followers who are also writers and want to participate!

rules: check your stats on ao3 by going to your dashboard and clicking through to statistics

Total Word Count: 97,907

Longest Fic: Zoolffe, Stinker, Zoost, Gonet, and Glo Koon (10,812 words)

Shortest Fic: Dives, Hecko, and Vex (1578 words)

Fic with the Most Kudos: Drawsoka, Gladikin, and Saptain Rex (133 holy cow)

Fic with the Most Bookmarks: Beginn, Shed-ic Kix, and Jessplea (31) (also very wow ty guys)

Fic with the Most Comment Threads: also Beginn (12) (this may have to do with the fact that it’s the only mulitchap lol)

Total Kudos: 1678 (wow!!!)

Total Bookmarks: 266 (I am seriously blown away)

Total Comment Threads: 68

Fandoms Written For: Star Wars, obviously. Within Star Wars, prequels/Clone Wars and one (1) for the sequels (Beginn, which is an AU of course lol)

Fests You’ve Written For: None

Pairings You’ve Written For: So far, I’ve only written gen fics. Maybe someday I’ll write a Blyla fic or something...

Favorite Fic You’ve Written This Year: This is hard heh...it’s basically a tie between like half my fics. Drawsoka fluff-wise, Nu Kyr’adyc angst-wise, and all of WKatMAM and Beginn because I’ve never been the best at series or multichaps but they’re both going strong

Goals For Next Year: Finish Beginn and WKatMAM by the end of the summer

[unloneliest]

hi i don’t think pan ppl are transphobic, just because bi ppl can be attracted to 2+ genders and pan are attracted to all doesn’t mean pan ppl or bi ppl are transphobic. i deal w panphobic things anytime anyone mentions pansexuality and i really thought your blog would be safe from that. i'm pan and don’t use bi bc i recognize i'd be attracted to someone regardless of gender identity as long as i find them attractive (and this has nothing to do w seeing trans ppl as a dif gender), if they're 1/

this is a long post & i want ppl to have the option 2 skip it so i’m putting it under a readmore; above all else i’m so thankful that you sent me these asks and deeply sorry that i rb’d something that made you feel unsafe on my blog. i agree with you; i don’t think bi or pan people are inherently transphobic and i’m really sorry i implied that with that post!

2/ if they ID as demiboy or demigirl, or genderfluid or anything else that isn't binary, then i really don’t care. i'm not saying bi ppl can’t feel the same since i said bi people are attracted to 2+ genders or all, but pan is rooted in the emphasis of all gender identities. yes theres a lot of overlap but just... i'm hurt that you'd rb smth like that, i understand the last line of its root in transphobia but being gay/straight and so many other things have issues that clash w other LGBT+ IDs

3/ if anything, i've dealt with internalized panphobia and homophobia, i just never felt comfortable with saying i was bi, not because it was "boring" or "binary" but bc everyone would just assume i was attracted to guys and women which was never the case and saying i was pan allowed for me to show that i knew that there are more than 2 gender identities and that i was attracted to all of them

hi its the 3 pt ask anon and its like i completely get why bi ppl would be upset w pan ppl but its just so hard when both are oppressed and one of the most common arguments is like: we aren't seen so we have to be seen first before you try to get into this too. i get why biphobia exists but the same biphobia exists for pan ppl. so many ppl say you're just straight bc of a het relationship or you're just bi then. or the whole theres only two genders argument. and its like i'm as open to dating

5?/ anyone. i genuinely do not care about whichever gender they ID as since i just find ppl attractive for being attractive. and bi ppl can be the same. there is a LOT of overlap and i'm not going to dismiss any worries or concerns. all i know is that the pan community i've surrounded myself with to find love in my sexuality and community have constantly explained that theres overlap but it depends to the person and neither sexuality is transphobic so i try to never overstep or invalidate either

but thank you for listening, so many ppl just invalidate pan voices who try to put both bi and pan ppl into view while acknowledging how theres overlap but theres a difference. its hard feeling invalidating when all i (and others) do is be as inclusive as possible and try to never overstep. i listen to others worries like you do and i've learned so much from your blog and your rbs which i appreciate. it was just hard seeing panphobia & biphobia when i've tagged both to filter the words out

8?? sorry i lost count/ ty again for listening

hi and again just. thank you, for sending me these. i’ve privated the post for now, because i don’t want to hurt anybody but i also don’t want to avoid accountability 4 hurtful actions; i’d most like to delete the post but probably only will if you’re ok with that. and if i ever rb something that includes biphobia or panphobia i’ll do my best to always tag them.

and again i’m so sorry to have rb’d a hurtful post especially bc that runs so opposite to what i want to be doing with this blog & i know that when i’ve found something hurtful shared in spaces i viewed as safe it’s somehow hurt a lot worse than when i’ve encountered hurtful attitudes in places i was expecting it. 

in retrospect the phrasing on that post was Not kind, & didn’t convey the nuance i read into it. my baseline assumption of both bi and pan people is that neither group is inherently transphobic; both identities have extremely similar experiences and my perspective on different lgbtq+ identities in general is that our strength is in solidarity and isolating/separating can be really dangerous to the lgbtq+ community’s ability to thrive and work on making the world better and safer for us all. 

i’m really glad that you’ve found love and support within the pan community and i have all the respect and admiration in the world for my bi and pan siblings in the lgbtq+ community! being able to find folks who share your identity and to find pride in yourself together is so healing and important and i’m so glad for the times i’ve experienced that in my life as well. 

you’re right that all communities do have issues with transphobia, and i normally wouldn’t join in on other identity’s in-community conversations; i thought about that when reblogging the post earlier but i do my best to rb posts asking people to examine if their beliefs and identity might be formed on transphobic assumptions when it comes to all labels and that’s why i did originally rb. i do my best to rb a lot of posts asking wlw to examine potentially transphobic ideas they might hold, because i’m an afab nonbinary wlw and so regardless of the fact that i’m not cis, i have a lot more privilege than trans women do in wlw spaces and i know i need to be doing what i can to make wlw spaces safe for trans women & girls.

and the post i rb’d did just have pretty shitty & confrontational wording, which i didn’t think about when rb’ing it. i’m sorry again for that! 

my reasoning in rb’ing that post was the same as when i rb posts asking wlw to examine their views; not that everyone of the groups in question are inherently shitty in some way, but that we all could use reminders to reflect sometimes and that occasionally people will be misinformed or have a shitty view/shitty views - but that that’s not the norm. i also felt more ok rb’ing this post bc i for a very long time id’d as bi, and my attraction as a lesbian still is to women and nonbinary people who don’t feel misgendered by the attraction of a lesbian; some people would call me bi for that, but it’s a common lesbian experience. i really relate to what you said about choosing pan because it really clearly sends the message that you’re attracted to people regardless of gender, bc i chose lesbian as a label bc it sends the message that i’m Not attracted to men! it’s about how i want people to see me.

my reading of the post was connected to experiences i had with some pretty shitty transphobic ex coworkers; they didn’t know i wasn’t cis, but a number of my coworkers at the time were bi. transphobia/biphobia tw for the rest of this paragraph/ the ex coworkers were pan and they adamantly told me/other coworkers that bisexuality was attraction to men and women whereas pansexuality was attraction to men, women, and trans people. my assumption based off of them wasn’t that pan people are transphobic/that pan as an identity is inherently transphobic, but that they as individuals sucked and were transphobic & biphobic?

that experience does touch on what the post was about though, i think. since the bi manifesto written in 1990 “official” definitions of bisexuality have been stating that bi doesn’t just mean attraction to men and women, and that there are more than 2 genders; it’s society’s biphobia that causes people to think that bisexuality isn’t inherently inclusive of more than 2 genders/inherently inclusive of trans people. its clear to me that you know there’s overlap in the communities and that you’re not transphobic and again that’s my baseline assumption of pan or bi people! ik that stinkers are always the exception in communities.

i rb’d the post because i think self reflection on internalized bs is good, and i didn’t realize how confrontational & potentially shitty the post was; i’m really sorry that i rb’d it and made my blog feel unsafe & i’m going to do my best to be more thoughtful in the future. i hope that me sharing why i rb’d it doesn’t come across as an excuse, either; i’m just hoping knowing my intentions might help w/ the experience. 

(if ppl must know, link to the post here )