#twin flame runner

[thatspiritualbabe]

How Societal Influence Makes it Difficult to Navigate a Twin Flame Journey

Raise your hand if you ever felt victimized by the following quotes:

"If he wanted to he would"

"If he truly loved you, you wouldn't have to question where your relationship stands"

"Actions speak louder than words"

If you've been on your twin flame journey for awhile, you probably already know the formula. There's always a runner and there's always a chaser in the relationship. If you're reading this, you're likely the chaser, otherwise known as the one more spiritually awakened than the runner. The runner is not nearly as awakened as you are, so they panic. As a result the runner may ghost, withhold a commitment from the chaser, get involved with a third party (or 3p for short).

I've been through all of the aforementioned examples in my twin flame journey. This really put me through the ringer emotionally. I'll be honest, some days it still does affect me. Twin flame relationships are meant to trigger you--bring insecurities or fears to the surface-- so that you work through it and grow as an individual and as a twin flame. It's not an easy thing to heal from, yet this healing stage is a piece of the puzzle that guides you to reunion with your twin flame.

I feel my healing hasn't been linear. I'm much better mentally than I was when these incidents happened, and I'm proud of how far I've come. I think societal influence has played a factor in why my healing has come in waves, and I'm sure other twins can relate. This goes back to the quotes I placed at the beginning of this article. There is much more awareness on social media nowadays about toxic relationships. On the surface, one can see the runner's actions and say "this relationship is toxic", "it's not logical to pursue", "the writing is on the wall", etc. When we have negative experiences, it's human nature to want to seek comfort from family, friends, maybe even a therapist. In my experience, seeking comfort can be both helpful and harmful. I say harmful, because the ones we seek comfort from usually tend to give unsolicited advice. And, if that person is not as spiritually enlightened as you are, you are likely to get a "logical" response in return. "You deserve better", "he's a douche", "there's other guys out there who wouldn't put you through this"--believe me, I've heard it all. I've always been a hopeless romantic and I truly want to believe in all the good that comes from a twin flame relationship. Once you and your twin conquer all of your triggers and heal and come into union, it's said to be the greatest love of all--you'll never have to relive any of that bullshit ever again.

So part of my healing includes trying to kill the noise. Take "logical" advice with a grain of salt; most logic is influenced by ego to begin with. Now, that being said, there are times you should reconsider if you want to persist with your twin flame. The ghosting, non-commitment, 3p-- we're human, we're flawed, we make mistakes. If the runner can grow from that, take accountability, and treat you like a queen/king going forward, I say explore the connection and see if you both can move past it. However, if mistreatment and disrespect is a constant you may decide you want to reconsider. We all have our limits for what we can tolerate. NEVER condone abuse. The Universe will often provide you signs for what path you should take. If you still have love for your twin and you decide it's worth persisting for the reunion, you need to try as much as possible to tune out logic. After reading others' experiences, it seems like a common theme that the runner usually behaves out of fear or insecurity. Maybe your runner felt you were TOO good for them and didn't think they deserved you. Maybe your runner ran to a 3p that they felt was more attainable/in their league because they have a low opinion of themself. Evaluate and see if it's possible one of these deeper underlying meanings could've been a reasonable explanation for their actions rather than what you can see in the 3D, or on the surface.

I hope this makes sense. I hope it provides you with insight and comfort that you are not alone. If you made it this far, please consider liking, following, and sharing. I'm still very new to this and I appreciate all of the support I've gotten so far. Even if I reach one person, I'm happy to be helping that one person and making a difference. <3

[soulmates-twinflames]

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[half-oz-eddie]

Thursday's Broken Promise

Steve woke up to the buzzing of his alarm with a soft smile on his face. He used to hate mornings, but Billy changed all of that for him. They fell into a love-filled routine of alternating between who cooks breakfasts, and who cooks dinner. 

It was Thursday, which meant it was Billy’s day to cook breakfast. Normally, by now, Steve would smell the aroma of Billy’s “anti-breakfasts” as Steve called them. Billy would make fried chicken, burritos, breakfast pizzas, anything that didn’t feel like French toast or pancakes. 

Billy only liked those foods when Steve made them, because “Steve’s the sweet one,” and he knows how to make those sweet and delightful deserts for breakfast—“cinnamon-sugar-whatever-the-fucks” he’d teasingly call them. 

They were in love, and it was beautiful.

But this particular morning, Steve was confused. Why didn’t he smell those savory aromas in the air, or faintly hear Billy’s metal playlist playing downstairs? Not a clanking pot, sizzling pan, not a curse being mumbled, nothing—the house was purely silent.

He went downstairs to investigate, calling BIlly’s name. 

He wasn’t in the kitchen, not in the bathroom…nowhere at all. 

Steve grabbed the landline and dialed Billy’s phone, but it went straight to voicemail. 

In the 2 years, 6 months and 25 days they’d been together, this was unusual. Billy would always do his own thing, but he never made Steve worry. 

“Okay, okay, don’t panic. Sometimes Billy’s just a little overwhelmed and-and he goes off to his favorite spots to relax.”

He checked the woods behind the Hopper-Byers house first. After the Starcourt incident, Billy would wander into the woods there to be alone and reflect. Joyce would bring him dinner or dessert until he eventually warmed up to them.

Billy wasn’t there.

“Okay…maybe he’s with Max?”

Billy and Max repaired their relationship over time. Often times, they’d both sneak off to the skate park early in the morning, or go to the quarry together.

Billy wasn’t in either of those places. 

Steve checked all the places he could think of, calling all the people that came to mind, calling Billy’s phone, leaving him 5 voicemails, and then a 6th, his voice breaking. 

“Billy…baby, please come home. Whatever happened, I promise we can fix it! I'll fix it! I'll do better. I promise. Just...please call me?”

Steve returned home hours later. He was a no call, no show at work, likely to get fired, but he didn’t care. If he lost Billy, it was like losing everything already. 

He tried to keep a clear head, but he could feel himself spiraling, his stomach churning at the thought of Billy actually being gone.

He looked around for some sort of clues, anything. He quickly learned that Billy’s basketball duffel was missing. There was a small pile of hangers on the floor, and a space on the wardrobe where his clothes used to be. 

Billy left him.

“Wh—why’d he do this? We were so good, so happy!”

He went down to the police station to file a missing person’s report. Something had to be wrong. 

“Can’t file a missing person’s report over this, Steve.”

“What? Why not?” Steve questioned Hopper. “This isn’t like him, you should know that!”

“This is exactly like him, kid. He’s a loose canon, sporadic, doesn’t like to be told what to do or tied down. Just cut your losses. He left you. Probably went off to find himself.”

Hopper’s words were so cold and matter-of-fact, but maybe he was right. Even still, Steve refused to give up on him.

He spent 2 weeks driving across the country, stopping at all the places Billy ever mentioned in conversations. A bar he wanted to visit in Texas, how intrigued he was by facts he’d read about Salt Lake City, his plans to gamble in Las Vegas, and of course, his endless memories in California. 

Steve traveled to each of those places searching for Billy, finally stopping in California. 

On his way, he called Sid. 

Billy was so scatterbrained after Starcourt. He’d write numbers down and then misplace the papers all the time. Sid changed numbers a lot, so Steve would save the numbers every time Billy wrote them down. He just wanted to make things easier for Billy.

Sid told Steve that Billy called him 2 days prior and told him he’d been planning a trip back to California. A permanent one. Said he needed to get as far away from Hawkins as possible.

Steve’s heart sank. He automatically assumed it was his fault, but Sid assured him it wasn’t.

“Billy loves you, man. Loves you more than anything. I dunno what happened, but he said he needed to get out of Hawkins as soon as possible and that it was gonna hurt like hell when he never saw you again.”

Steve could not stand the possibility of never waking up to the aromas of Billy’s breakfast, or feeling his hand sliding across his chest in the middle of the night for reassurance. He couldn’t cope with the thought of never hearing Billy’s laugh again or how noisy he made the house all by himself. 

They had so many plans for the future. So many things they were going to do. So many tomorrows they'd talked about. This couldn’t be the end for them.

He drove around California for another half a day, finally spotting Billy’s Camaro parked by the beach.

He parked a few feet away and just watched him. He watched to make sure that there wasn’t somebody else, relieved when he saw Billy get out of his car all alone, but also so distressed to see Billy so lonely again. 

He sat on the hood of his car, eating a bag of sunflower seeds. Steve wondered if Billy was taking care of himself, neglecting the fact that he’d barely eaten or slept himself. 

He got out of his car and ran toward Billy, shouting his name. 

Billy stiffened up, trying to pretend he couldn’t hear Steve, even when he approached the car. “Billy. Billy? Wh—what the hell’re you doing? Why’d you just leave home like that?”

“I was hearing his voice again.”

“What? Who?”

“The fucking mind flayer, Steve!” He raised his voice to a volume Steve hadn’t heard in a long time. Ever since they got together, Billy became much quieter and softer, where’d that Billy go?

“You were hearing the mind flayer again and you didn’t tell me?”

“I didn’t wanna hurt you. I thought I’d just get away from Hawkins to where the mind flayer couldn’t reach me, and everyone could move on and forget about me.”

“Forget about you?!” Steve nearly pulled his hair right out of his head. “I uprooted my whole life to find you. I tried to file a police report, I searched all the places you’ve ever mentioned to me—I even called Sid!”

“You called Sid?” Billy raised a brow in surprise. 

“Of course I called Sid, you idiot! I haven’t been to work, I’ve hardly eaten, barely slept…all I wanted was for you to come home!”

“I can’t come home, Steve. Why can’t you just forget about me after everything I’ve done?”

“Because you’re part of me, Billy! And I-I’m completely done for. I can’t live a life that doesn’t have you in it. When you left, you took every part of me with you that existed.”

Billy rolled his eyes. “I didn’t—“

“Look at me, Billy.”

He refused.

“Look at me!”

Billy met Steve’s sunken, bloodshot eyes. His skin was pale, his hair was messy, and he smelled pretty damn bad. What did he do to him?

“Steve, I’m sorry—“

“Sorry for what, exactly? For breaking my heart? Or sorry for “doing what you thought you needed to do?” Huh? What is it, Billy?!” 

“I’m just…sorry. Sorry for everything. I left Hawkins because when I started hearing the mind flayer’s voice, I thought he was alive again and gonna make me hurt people. I wouldn’t be able to live with myself if I ever lost control and hurt you.”

“Billy. The mind flayer is gone. El told you that more than once.”

“Then why did I hear his voice?! Something’s not right, Steve. I can’t go back there. I can’t.”

Steve deflated. “But…what about me? What about us?”

“You’ve got a life there. You have a family, friends that love you. I don’t have anything like that. You could meet a nice girl and have that shit load of kids you wanted and forget about me—“

“No. I can’t. If…if you’re gonna stay here, away from Hawkins, I’ll stay here too.”

“You sure?”

“All I wanted to do was find you, Billy. All I could think about was being with you, and nothing else. You’re the only future I want.”

Billy leaned in and kissed Steve. “I’m sorry.” He apologized again.

“You’d better be. You still owe me breakfast. I woke up that morning expecting some of those spicy burritos.”

“When we finally get a place again, I’ll make you as many fuckin’ burritos as you want.” He kissed Steve once more.

“I’ll hold you to that promise.”

[fili-is-gone]

twin flame

Involuntarily, he reached into his pocket, jabbed his fingertips against the wooden figure he was carrying for Thomas, before finding the note which lay below. It had become a habit in a short time, a constant need to make sure it was still there. And with the horrifying image of the dead woman and the grieving man in mind, Newt made a decision.

Abruptly he stopped, bringing Thomas to a halt as well who turned to him in surprise.

“I need to talk to you, Tommy. Just you. It’ll only take a second.”

or: Newt learns he isn't immune to the Flare and decides to take precautions. Thomas does not like this.

(written for the Newtmas Fest 2022, prompt: “You might be ready to die, Newt,” Thomas said, arms shaking with effort, “but I’m not ready to let you.”)

[alyjojo]

Twin Flame 🔥 Journey - June 2024 - Scorpio

Your Energy:

King of Wands rev - Page of Pentacles - 4 Wands

I try to do these one area at a time, but here I needed your Twin’s energy just to decipher yours, I can only see you’re upset. Your person moved onto someone else, maybe got engaged, moved out even, could’ve broken a lease and left you with the bag…maybe even left behind your child (that I assume you share). Just woke up one day and decided to be with someone else, commit to someone else…or they’re doing things with other people they never would’ve done for you. You’re like WTF? Angry, hurt, bitter, fuck them 💯 Why couldn’t they have shown you half of that, or made those decisions for you? It’s made you feel like you were chopped liver, or I’m seeing “friend-zoned” for someone.

For the friend story, there was never talk of love, this person was never yours, and even you’re aware you can’t really be mad and yet, you are. Or this person may have just ended things suddenly and wasn’t clear as to why - but it’s because they’re moving on with another person and never mentioned it. A house or lease may have been involved, or an engagement even, breaking one or forming one very quickly - so fast your head spins. And you’re left feeling overwhelmed, hurt, and angry. Never speaking to them again 😞😡

Oracle:

NOT TODAY 😤

- Boundaries & Hurt

- Avoiding Conversation

- Not Dealing

- Still Upset

11 Overwhelm

The hard work we love can leave us feeling burdened, drained, and burnt out, among other problems.

72 Nature

Go out in Nature as much as you can, for it’s pure creativity can teach you everything you need to know.

Messages:

- I just want to talk to you.

- New Perspective.

Their Energy:

5 Pentacles rev - 2 Cups - 8 Pentacles

This person is extremely immature, and they’re a coward. That’s why. They knew how you’d react, how it would make you feel, and that terrifies them. They aren’t one to be held accountable for their actions, certainly not publically, and they’re accountable enough, but it’s like “we move on now”, they’re not going to linger in that energy. You’re over here lingering in the hurt and they know that, they can’t face it. They’re not sorry 🤷 It’s what they want. Now I’ll describe their character here, because it may help this New Perspective for you.

This person is superficial, materially oriented, all about status and reputation. They don’t care if the inside matches the outside, yanno? Depth doesn’t matter, TRUTH doesn’t matter. It only matters what people see, so if they wear a suit everyday looking like a boss and actually live in their car - it’s no one’s business. They’re not wrong, lots of people are like this. When it comes to this new love interest, I assume they met at or through work, because they have work in common. High standards, reputation, a healthy bank account, perfectionist tendencies, they want it all - and by all - material shit. They want other people to think they have it all, that’s all that matters. Do they have feelings for this person, yes, and it’s meant to be this way. Right now as it stands they are not good for you and would only bring you down. Justice at the bottom with giving up, seems like it’s more for you than them. They’re a lost cause for any depth or spiritual meaning, and a Twin connection involves all of that - showing how spiritually “off” they are right now. Not aware at all. And they’re not sorry, that’s important, they’re more relieved it’s finally come to light - so I’m not sure how long this was going on beforehand tbh. And they can’t face you.

Oracle:

DRAGONFLY 🌾

- Light-hearted & Adapt

- Finding Out & Change

- Things Coming to Light & Heal

6 Habits

Examine habits that may impede the pathways to your goals and encourage beneficial ones.

20 Willpower

Use your willpower to bravely overcome thoughts of compromise and defeat.

Messages:

- What other people say matters too much to me.

- I don’t know how to communicate!

Mutual Energy/What is Mirrored:

Judgment - 8 Wands - Queen of Swords rev

There will be a return at some point, enough to bite each other’s heads off for what happened between you. Holding the other accountable. Calling each other out with a big “fuck you” and other bitter feelings that still exist between you, or just you, because you’re trapped in rumination. Trauma. Grief. And they will not reciprocate whatsoever, the reading shows there is no point. Some people just suck, they have no regard for your feelings or what they’ve done, they just want it to be over and onto the next thing. Snake 🐍 at the bottom of the oracles makes it clear. In your case, and especially being Scorpio, I don’t see reconciliation ever being possible here - this is a perfect example of why it’s sometimes not. You’re likely to tell them to go fk themselves until the day you die, the next life, and all of the lives thereafter 💯

Oracle:

OLD SCHOOL 👵🏾

- Outdated Thinking

- Conditioning

- Replaying Events Over in Your Head

Possible Signs:

Heavy Virgo, Cancer, Scorpio & Taurus

Charms:

Optimistic ♐️ on Partnership (both) shows there is reason to look positively towards the future. You aren’t cursed, you don’t deserve shitty people, there’s no little black cloud of karma following you around to zap you every time you fall in love - it’s one experience, and it’s here for a reason: to remind you what you’re worth so that you appreciate it when it comes in. To show you the worst of a person so you can sense it when someone is not the right fit. More or less. That’s it. I get they already are optimistic about love and will get their karma in other ways - financially 💯

Clover 🍀 rev on King of Pentacles is their energy, the career-oriented, responsible, reputation & status obsessed King that doesn’t want to feel things is going to get knocked, time after time, where work is concerned. Because that’s all that matters, it’s the only lessons they learn, love is not considered as important unless it makes them look/feel important, you see? It’s not you, it’s them, and Spirit has to move in different ways with this person because they literally live in a 3D material vacuum. Probably an earth sign or has that heavy in their chart, or they may get with someone who simply cannot get it together financially, after all of that judgment on you/others for the same thing. Reconciliation isn’t the goal in this one, Growth is. At least that I can see. You deserve better than this, and someday they will be forced to see that too.

[soulmatepsychic]

Lions Gateway Portal: How it Affects Soul Connections & Twin flames

Lions gateway opening started on 7/26 and will peak on 8/8 and go on until 8/12. There will be intense Energy shifts for twin flames. The Lions gateway energy portal triggers our soul center and activates the energy deep inside our core to a higher level with deeper emotions and purging negativities. The Lions gateway energy portal triggers our soul center and activates the energy deep inside…

[lunarwildrose]

11/11~Twin Flames day; Karasu says we're twin flames. Original legend says half of the soul is male, and the other is female with one staying in spirit to watch over the other one, and taking turns doing so until reuniting on Earth in their last life. This is a more romanticized version of soul mates, in turn inspired by Plato. The Bible says you only become spiritually connected by marriage. Either way, Karasu is my husband in my world. 💍🐦‍⬛🩷🐈‍⬛

I've had…a lot of strange comforting "romantic fate" signs of Karasu… like a cel I wished for ended up on Ebay 12 hours later and I won it; me wondering if Karasu knows my name followed by Micky who didn't know my question bringing home my rare name on a Share-a-Coke later that day; Quantum Leap episode about a Japanese psychic Karasu says reminded him of his first wife i look like, plus he told me this episode proves we're twin flames; I found out it has an actor from Yu Yu Hakusho; The Crow paralleled events in my imaginary world when we first watched it; mysterious relevant songs; dreams others have about us (including one a relative who doesn't know about us had about me as a Japanese woman around the time we watched the QL episode connected to YYH); Karasu's seiyu Ryo Horikawa sharing a birthday with Brandon Lee from The Crow; Karasu telling me in a dream he wanted to celebrate his birthday that day, and Micky told me twas Brandon Lee's death date surprising me, etc…those kind of synchronicities♡

i know the trailer came last night but I was surprised by Karasu in the trailer this morning on 11/11, so maybe that was a sign? I bugged him to give me another one (last one also surprised me when i looked up the QL episode as I saw the YYH actor from it on FB, then saw the episode takes place on Brandon Lee plus Ryo Horikawa's bday, a fact I didn't know), plus bit of a stretch, but the show will be airing in USA on 12/13, my kindred spirit and namesake Pris's prototype incept date, and i've been called Pris since I was 18 (Blade Runner and The Crow are my top two favourite movies!)

[livingwellnessblog]

The Twin Flame Lie: An Anxious Attachment Trap or Narcissist's Playground?

The twin flame concept often traps individuals with anxious attachment styles, promoting insecurities and tolerating emotional abuse under the guise of deep connections. Exploitative gurus manipulate this vulnerability, perpetuating a narrative that equat

The Twin Flame Lie: An Anxious Attachment Trap or Narcissist’s Playground? The twin flame idea is a seductive one: the belief that somewhere out there, a perfect partner exists, destined to unite with you in an extraordinary, soul-deep bond. For many, this concept is more of a trap than a promise, especially for those with an anxious attachment style or those who have been made to feel…

[silvia-moon-twin-flame]

(via "Letting Go: Embracing Change and Self-Discovery")

[georgiasedify]

Twin Flame Series of stages

Twin Flame Series of stages How do these stages resonate with your own experiences?

The Twin Flame journey is often described as a series of stages that reflect the deep and transformative nature of this unique connection. While the specifics can vary, here are some commonly recognized stages: Yearning: This is the initial phase where you feel a deep longing for something more in your life, often without knowing exactly what it is. This yearning is your soul’s way of seeking…

[haialliecat]

Letting go is hurting like fucking hell.

If you’re in a twinflame union please hit me up with some of that advice because I’m trying so Fucking hard and I feel like I’m breaking down every night and I’m top of that having to hide these feeling’s because nobody would understand honestly and if they did I think they’d just think I was some love sick puppy trapped in a delusional daydream… FUUUUUUCKKKKK This is madness!!

Someone please reach out

[thatspiritualbabe]

The Double Standard of Twin Flames

As I still continue to navigate and make sense of my twin flame journey, I can't help but notice a double standard lately.

I'll read articles that say things like, "the runner may ghost or block the chaser" then read "You should never block your twin flame runner."

Or something like "the runner may begin a relationship with a third party. This will lead to a lot of character growth for the runner, as it will help him realize you're the one he's supposed to be with." Yet I'll see statements in the same article such as, "It is dishonorable for the chaser to engage in another relationship during separation" and "the universe will try to sabotage the chaser from forming a relationship with someone else."

I've also read while the runner can be miles behind the chaser and underdeveloped spiritually, it is up to the chaser to do enough healing for the both of them in order to bring reunion.

Why does the runner get to have all of the fun?

Why does the runner get to have other relationships?

How come the runner doesn't have to take any accountability or experience growth?

Why does this theme perpetuate of the chaser having to abide by all of these rules while the runner is free to do what they want? We're expected to endure a painful separation, sit back, and remain celibate and when the runner is ready to reunite with us we welcome him back with open arms. This relationship is basically on the runner's terms. It's unfair, and I don't want to resonate with those ideas. I personally find those examples to be kinda toxic. But sometimes, I worry--like it or not--it will happen regardless. As I've been planning on attending events in hopes of connecting with other people, I find every time something happens that prevents me from going. A migraine, a road closure, a nearby fire, the event itself gets canceled... I'm just thrown for a loop. If the Universe really wants me to be with my twin flame, then make it happen. It's unreasonable to expect us chasers to wait forever.

I'd like to know your experiences. Did you ever try to move on from your twin flame? Did you find love with someone new or run into roadblocks?

Thank you for listening to me vent. At the very least if you have the same struggles I hope it provides comfort you're not alone on your twin flame journey. If you made it this far, please consider liking, following, and sharing.

[soulmates-twinflames]

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[freelancershahin]

It's When You Let Go and Surrender That The Magic Happens!

[merbabylvr]

[alyjojo]

Twin Flame 🔥 Journey - June 2024 - Leo

Your Energy:

Page of Swords - The Emperor rev - 3 Wands rev

It’s easy to know who it is, it’s the one you stalk constantly but refuse to speak to 😆 This isn’t saying you’re wrong, just proud and stubborn. You refuse to be the one reaching out to them because of two things: 1, you will be the one being pursued, not the pursuer, you’re old fashioned like that; and 2, you already felt like this connection was one-sided, they didn’t give you enough in the first place - so you’ll die before you go chasing after them & that ever again. Maybe you did before, now it’s more about proving to yourself you’re better than that and they can make the effort.

With that though, you’re obsessively watching their every move, what they’re doing, who they’re with, where they’re going. Ruminating in your head everything that’s happened, what’s been said or done, and wondering why they aren’t making moves towards you. 3 Wands rev shows you’re waiting for nothing. You’re standing on principle, and you should, but this person is probably either clueless or over it…not even on the same page as you. You’ve internalized a battle of wills that only you’re playing, they’ve given up or moved on. Everything at the bottom of the deck says this is going nowhere, and with your messages maybe you want it that way. Partly.

Oracle:

OLD SCHOOL 👵🏻

- Outdated Thinking

- Conditioning

- Replaying Events Over in Your Mind

38 Limits

Know that limiting attitudes are often formed as protective reactions to past events.

42 Courage

Have the courage to see lessons in all situations and face them constructively.

Messages:

- Going in different directions.

- I’m NOT that person anymore.

Their Energy:

9 Swords rev - 9 Cups - 7 Pentacles

Yeah, their energy was strong on your side too. They’re over it, and they don’t think about this much. When they do, it’s more of a wistful happy thought than anything negative or grudge-holding, and they consider it “the past”. It was a different time for them. Always Acting Single can show they didn’t take this as seriously as you did, they don’t invest as much of themselves as you do, they’re a very logical sort. Right now, their focus is 100% on their career and they’ve been working hard towards something they’re waiting to manifest into reality, probably related to business. I’m seeing one person staring at another’s social media page, and the other person is staring at spreadsheets & doesn’t even log in or care - that’s the vibe between you. You can’t make them give af, I think you’ve accepted that much. You wish you could though. If they’ve said or done something harsh to you, they do regret that, an apology weighs on their mind, and the bottom shows they didn’t want you to go. So they wish things could’ve been different, but they also chalk it up to a missed opportunity and have moved on with their life. That’s just the kind of person they are, I don’t think that they think that you even think about them. Another day, another dollar. That’s life.

Oracle:

CAMERA 📷

- Reminiscing

- Making Memories

- Learn from the Past

- Perception

16 Dream

Connect to your intuitive dream world of metaphors and symbols.

37 Manifest

Soon you may manifest the goal you focus spiritual energies on.

Messages:

- Always Acting Single

- I’ve Moved On.

Mutual Energy/What is Mirrored:

2 Swords - The Hermit - Queen of Cups

Stubborn, both of you 💯 The Taurus charm came out but the sign isn’t heavy, though they are described as King of Pentacles, one/both of you could have a strong placement there. Or it’s just the vibe. Neither of you are moving, acknowledging the other, giving even an inch. Not messaging, not starting over, not even entertaining the thought. So that’s where it’s going. Both of you are solid people, practical, stable, concerned about the material world and the reality in front of you - not a bunch of what ifs, maybes, destiny, karma, it could all be a bunch of hoodoo nonsense as far as both of you are concerned. Twins. Pfft. Fair. That’s also what delays everything so…be right and alone, basically, that’s what I heard 😆

It is necessary to take space apart in order to grow, and both of you tend to stunt your growth with narrow mindsets. The only way out of this is communication, and both of you are so heavily resistant to the idea of that, it could take years. Ages. Till near death. God himself may have to make you two enter the same gas station just to have *something* to go off of, give you the excuse. You both avoid your feelings, avoid healing, avoiddddd everything. And don’t take very good care of yourself, you both tend to make Distractions your priority and not feeding your heart, mind & spiritual center (which is healing). Work, obligations, responsibilities, we’re busy people, too busy to…love. Feel. Heal. Enjoy a too short life by spending all of your time on things that…meh. Neither of you care all that much about. We need some fire in this LEO reading ijs 🔥 too much earth energy is drollllll 😴 That sentiment alone shows you have to be the first to change. This person will die in a routine and probably think that’s how it’s supposed to be. Resistance and Not Today at the bottom, probably not today. June. This year. Idk but eventually, something’s gotta give. Or not 🤷🏼‍♀️ The sooner you move towards things that make you happy and let this go, the faster they’re triggered to wake tf up and do the same.

Oracle:

GROUNDING 🪨

- Stability & Security

- Performance

- Growth & Endurance

56 Distractions

When you are trying to solve a problem, you will often be tested by distractions.

66 New Start

Sometimes we must realize that what we have done needs to be discarded and we must make a new start.

Possible Signs:

Heavy Aries, Gemini, Libra & Virgo

Charms:

Trustworthy ♉️ on Grounding (both) shows two solid people that are focused on material pursuits and stability. Neither of you are unreliable or “too wild” by any means, both of you consider your foundations and future as a constant in every decision you make. Both of you are very mature in this way.

Clock ⏰ rev on Distractions (both) is wasting time. Hobbies, materialism, careers, favors, other people’s dramas, whatever the thing - you both place these things as highest priority in order to avoid the real shit going on inside. That could go on forever.

Fish 🐟 rev on New Start (both) show you both feel like the other person isn’t the one, could possibly be. You’ve tried before, it didn’t work, logic would have it known that “there’s a reason your ex is your ex.” True. And also, God doesn’t operate by anyone’s “logic”, and loooves to make people look foolish when they’re dead set on anything really. Like oh yeah? We’ll see about that…

Gift 🎁 rev on Resistance could be a specific holiday or occasion that’s being resisted or purposely ignored, either currently or that was a thing between you. Neither wants to give to the other in any sense, neither feels it’s their job or should be them. Everything about this feels one sided or unbalanced, and you both refuse to do anything about it.