#transfem positiviy

[our-queer-experience]

knowing i'm a girl makes me so happy, and i don't even know what kind! am i a demigirl? just a binary trans girl? something else? who knows! and it's kinda beautiful in a way <3

i love being a girl, it's made my life so much more enjoyable <3

girls, yall are the fucking best <3

[our-queer-experience]

i (transmasc but not trans man, any prns) was talking to my (similarly transfem) partner, and she called me her boyfriend and i felt amazing for days

also last night i drew them a fem and (still somewhat androgynous) masc pair of icons, so they could use the masc one where they weren't comfortable being out, and the fem one where she can!

also also! a couple days ago i helped her pick out a skirt , specifically picking one that would be super fun to twirl around in, showed her different ways to play with it, and seeing how much fun they were having made me so so happy

t4t couples are amazing. every single one of them. theyre always so wholesome and sweet and just cjdjdjdjdbcb trans people loving trans people. yes.

[our-queer-experience]

Since a few months into estrogen, I'm just so happy when I see myself. The physical changes are so great but also I've been happier and happier with the parts of me that haven't changed so much. I love looking in the mirror every morning, because I see myself and remind myself how pretty I am. And then I do like a pose or say something silly/cute and it gets me so excited with joy I do a little jump and squeal. im just so pretty! it's crazy. love ur page btw

aw, thanks! im glad your transition is going well :)

[our-queer-experience]

wearing a dress rn and feeling girly

Also I can spin in it which slays

skirt go spinny!!!

[our-queer-experience]

Hey! You asked for gender euphoria stuff, so have a bit of a ramble!

I'm transfem but gender non-conforming, and after years of suffering from the most awful dysphoria and dysmorphia about my face hair I'm letting it to grow again and it feels genuinely so euphoric at my tiny little beard and mustache, I'm really surprised.

I've also been trying to wear more masc clothes and although I often just look like a cliché lesbian with my turtlenecks and my flanel shirt I really do feel good about it! I find it funny how a few years ago I dreaded never being able to "pass" as a woman for x and y reason and now that I try to be more typically masculine it's made complicated by how intensely feminine I've become.

Also I got myself some really awesome looking ear weights to keep stretching, I got nose piercings a few days ago, I got a medusa last month after wanting it for so long, and those make me feel really great about my gender expression! I get to look more alt and hot and slightly confusing every day!

Next week I've got an appointment to change my HRT after a few year on T blockers and E, and the day right after I'm getting the sidecut I've craved for so long now!

And it all makes me happy, because while I know most people can't tell I'm trans at first glance because I "pass" well as a woman because I'm ultra-femme somewhat despite me, the more I express myself through those things, the more people catch that I'm queer and strange and it feels great! I get compliments and eyes from other queer folks and I get frowned upon by uncomfortable cishet men and women for not fitting. I know that if myself from two years ago could see me now with the confidence I've gained and the way I look they'd be in tears <3

I know there's a lot of rage and dark days coming for all of us from in and out of the queer community, and not all of us have the joy of expressing ourselves safely as we ought to have it by right, but I try to find comfort in all the big strong openly queer flamboyant folks out there who look menacing and comforting exactly to who they should for transgressing norms and being so open about it. And that's what I aspire to be someday! Something for younger and hidden queer folks to be looking up to, and hopefully someone who can actually help and care for our people from where I stand.

I hope all this made your day a bit better! Stay safe and take it easy <3

gnc transfem people are literally the best. like. im not kidding when i say that. this ask made me smile so hard, good luck with your transition!

[our-queer-experience]

yesterday i wore a white tanktop underneath a sweater and when i looked in the mirror i could see small outlines of it underneath, i’m transfem and it was kinda like wearing a bra but not really and it made me really happy.

similar feeling for me is when my shirt collar covers my binder and it looks like im just naturally like that, its so freeing. like yes!!! i do look like that!!! and its really cool!!!