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shinraelectricpowercom · 1 year ago

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While I’m on my high horse: if you’re going to disagree with someone or judge them for something they said, at least have the decency to do it with what they actually said instead of your interpretation of it.

Stating that something happens is not endorsement of it. Posting analysis of something is not inherently a claim that one’s analysis is the only possible correct reading. Calling something “common” is not the same as arguing that it’s a majority. Enjoying a particular narrative in fiction is not and cannot be real-world apologism because that fiction is not real. And so on.

#mine #i am absolutely failing my tumblr onion of survivability rn. however if things go well i can retain hope to not be penetrated #maybe i’ll practice the outermost layer starting tomorrow when i get back home #anyways ttp i personally don’t think anyone should judge or condemn anything that isn’t harmful in public spaces if they want #to remain a member of a diverse community. but hey what do i know i’m only a freak who thinks that trauma DOES often make people worse #and that we SHOULD talk abt that & put it in our fiction & say out loud ‘it’s common for people with trauma to want to hurt others’#bc acting like it’s Bad to Admit that traumatized people are occasionally (often even!) Fucking Unpleasant is just a way #to enforce unattainable behavioral models on ppl who already have enough shit to deal with.#like obvs ‘i want to hurt people’ is not a HEALTHY desire & part of healing is getting over that #but acting like it’s harmful to SAY that ppl often have that desire is just. shaming ppl who Experience that desire but with a fancy hat on

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