#tia muses on the doctor who fandom

[expectiations]

i just tap "not interested" everytime i see a "rory deserves better than amy" post instead of my usual trying-to-explain act because their relationship is so nuanced that to reduce it to certain moments in the entirety of their marriage feels so simplistic and smothering and i am just so. damn. tired. of these reductive takes that everytime i encounter someone who understands and discusses them with nuance, i cling to them like they're my life support piece of wooden board floating on a vast ocean with no land in sight.

[expectiations]

i just spent over an hour going through a moot's #river song tag because i wanted to find this meta (more like an answer to an ask) about how the fandom infantilizes River and the Doctor (11 in particular) but i can't find it :")

i'm unsure as to which blog it originally came from but i do remember @mercysong-tardis reblogging it yes it was your blog i went through (*/ω＼)

if anyone can help me find it, i would be so terribly chuffed (✪‿✪)ノ