#this isba sign of growth btw bc I used to just black out and get into physical altercations with people when they said something

[scarletfasinera]

ur so right about the fucking demure thing i saw ppl embracing it cause a trans woman started it (i think? i dont have tiktok) and i was like. fucking hello why are we acting like telling women to be modest quiet and polite is progressive what the FUCK

I have no idea who started it or where it came from bc it seemed to come out of no where, but every single person I have ever heard say "very demure" out loud in front of me was a cisgender person and it repeatedly pissed me off because every time its use was just 100% misogynistic. I had to tell someone irl "if you ever call me 'demure' ever again, even as a joke, I'm going to hit you. This is a warning."