#this is me trying to be in good spirits its a WIP but im TRYIN

[rydell]

Some of the little ways of expressing love that I have learned to do by example that stuck with me or have figured out through attention to a person’s details

Not skipping a song you’d usually skip because you know they like it

Carrying an extra hair band around just in case they need one

Already having a lighter in hand by the time they grab a smoke

Listening to the music they say is important to them so you can better understand them

Saving the last piece of cake or pizza just in case they might want it

Preparing coffee so it’s ready for when they wake up

Doing a silly half-jog to a door to get there in time to hold it open for them

Making sure they eat without making them feel guilty about it

Learning about something you don’t care about so you can keep up with something they like to talk about

Sending them music that reminds you of them 

Bringing them back something when you go out for food

Giving them something warm of yours if you’re out in the cold

Inviting them somewhere even you think they’ll say no so they don’t feel ostracized 

Letting them know a nice thought you have about them without any particular occasion

Showing genuine enthusiasm for the details about themselves that they share with you

Asking questions if you don’t follow something they’re saying because you value understanding what they have to say