#this is just some musings abt one of my personal headcannons and why its important to me

[milk-lover]

You know, I’m actually really glad that TMA only includes *fabric rustles* and not actual kissing, because it means that I can head canon Jon and Martin being in a romantic relationship where they just.. don’t kiss. This is gonna get a bit personal but I really don’t like kissing. Idk if I’ve just had bad experiences but every actual kiss I’ve had has been pretty uncomfortable?? Just kinda.. gross and wet and not exactly attractive or romantic or anything? And it’s not that I’m a bad kisser (I asked and my partner said that it was fine and they enjoyed it sooo conclusion: ???), I just... don’t see the appeal? And that’s really freaked me out in the past. But then I read a fic (and I’m so sad bc I can’t find it again for the life of me) where Jon was kiss adverse so they just.. didn’t kiss. And it was still an adorable and loving romantic relationship, in which they didn’t kiss. And dude. That was soooo validating to read. So now that’s kinda my little personal head cannon. If they had a Confirmed Kiss (tm) in cannon... I’d be a little sad, tbh.