#this is absolutely not inspired by my fiance doing this exact thing getting us out of the parking lot at fob last weekend lmao
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piece of cake
written for ‘cake’ wc: 311 | rated: g | cw: none @steddiemicrofic
June 25th, 1989
“Why’s no one moving? Is this part of the metal show experience?” Steve groans, one hand resting on the bottom of the wheel and the other raking roughly through his hair.
“Nope, this is the by-product of people not knowing how to fucking drive.” Eddie sighs and shakes his head, the bun he’s tied his frizzy hair into sliding to one side.
Their ears ring and their necks begin to ache as the post-concert euphoria fades after waiting in a non-moving line of traffic for forty-five minutes. It’s unsurprising given all that their bodies have been through, but Eddie will be damned if he lets the Upside Down take headbanging from him.
Steve had joined in with him, of course, wanting to give Eddie the full experience after missing them the last time they were around in 1986 but fun as it was, he’s paying for it already. All he wants to do is get home from Fort Wayne, lay down in the shower, and will the headache away. Cars inch forward, slow and tedious, but it’s movement all the same. Just as they approach the end of the aisle, a lifted pick-up truck tries to squeeze out ahead of them.
“Oh you mother– I’m getting us out of here, Ed. Watch this,” Steve grits out, placing his hand on Eddie’s chest.
“What are you–”
“Hey! Hey, asshole!” Steve yells out Eddie’s passenger window. He points a finger furiously and looks the driver straight-on with the confidence of a man who’s fought monsters and won. “Not today. Wait your fucking turn.”
Without another word, Steve inches forward and breaks free of the aisle.
“Dude, are you insane? What was that?” Eddie asks, wide-eyed and unbearably turned on.
Steve turns to wink at his boyfriend whose cheeks are flushed from more than the summer heat.
“See? Piece of cake.”
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I like MCU Spider-Man, but I agree with nearly all of your critiques. The 3rd film will have the same director and writers, so I don't expect the problems to be fixed, but I'm curious: do you think MCU Spider-Man is salvageable? If you could be completely in charge, how would you write the story and fix the problems?
Yeah, I don’t really expect the problems to be fixed in the third film, no matter how many times they promise it’s going to be something “different.” If I’m honest, besides the incredibly weak scripts, I think a big part of the problem is that Jon Watts is a bad director for a Spider-Man project. Which, to be fair, I think is actually why he was hired – he’s got a pretty short list of credits under his name. I mean, “Cop Car”? “Clown”? Nothing about his repertoire suggests he was going to give the studio the kind of artistic pushback they have a history of receiving from their more experienced directors. He’s basically the director version of Jell-O – easy to mold and bland to boot. The perfect guy to direct a car commercial I mean mainstream superhero film.
This is actually part of the reason I’m disappointed that the Sony-Marvel rights deal ended up sticking after all. I think that if the film rights had reverted entirely back to Sony, there might have been some damage control. We know that they intended to keep Tom Holland, if not the whole cast, for at least one more movie even if the rights had reverted entirely back to Sony so I don’t really get what the raising of arms was about. The rights reversion would’ve cut the apron strings with the rest of the MCU which would have been good, forcing both this Spider-Man to stand on his own two feet within his own narrative and also forcing the movie to focus solely on Spider-Man and on his cast. Sony’s recent Spider-Man films as of the time of writing this (I no idea what the hell they’re gonna do with Morbius and I don’t really care) have dealt with some element of “corporations are evil” – Oscorp pulling the strings in TASM/2 and Venom’s whole entire deal – and I would really like to see this version of Spider-Man be thrust into a plot where that’s the reality and that’s something he has to deal with and where he’s actually forced to defend normal people not just against a costumed villain with a grudge but against an entire system that is set up to exploit and abuse the vulnerable. I think that would have gone a long way towards if not fixing the damage inflicted upon the narrative, then at least course correcting it for the future. But that’s not happening now so whatever.
I find it kind of hard to think of what I would do if I was handed complete control of MCU Spider-Man with the caveat that I had to go forward using the two previous films as my background just because I dislike so many of the choices they made so much. On the other hand, I do like money and inflicting my own opinions on a captive audience, so. I think I would want to scale back the stakes a lot – keep Peter in New York for the entirety of the movie’s plot and film mostly there if at all possible. I would want to cute the ties to all Iron Man cast members so sorry, Jon Favreau, but you’re out, while at the same time redirecting the film’s focus into something more oriented in Peter’s civilian community. Bringing in a character like Leo Zelinsky, a Holocaust survivor who works as a tailor specializing in super-clients, would be a really good way to give Peter and the audience a personal connection to Peter’s Queens community while also tying this Peter back to the Jewish subtext of Spider-Man, and it could work in a plot where cut the Iron Man cast – this Peter isn’t an experienced craftsman when it comes to creating his own costume, so bringing in Leo Zelinsky would make sense, and a costume created by the both of them could be quite meaningful if it was played out well.
I would definitely want to give May Parker much more screentime and rework her relationship from the “big sister” role (the writers’ words, not mine) to that of Peter’s mother, someone who realistically worries about the dangers of Spider-Man but also provides a strong moral backbone for him. I’d want to establish the exact circumstances of Ben’s death – I don’t know exactly what I’d do, but given this Peter’s development has failed to track with most other Peters I would definitely want to switch Ben’s death up somehow to kind of shed some light on that. Peter and May would have to talk about him. I would definitely want to bring Peter’s classic college friends group closer together, starting with Peter and Flash since I really like Tony Revolori as an actor. I find this MJ to be an incredibly inscrutable character, and not in a good way, so I’d want to shed some better light on her, her family circumstances, and what makes her tick. I’d bring Liz back and give her some of her comic counterpart’s fire (perhaps literally, given Ultimate Liz’s Firestar status) and also I’d get Betty’s actress a brunette bob stat. There would definitely be a bigger focus on women and on Peter navigating complicated friendships with women, not just letting him have a romantic interest and that’s the end of that. I’m very conflicted on what to do with Ned Leeds because I think Jacob Batalon has some of the best screen presence of that cast, but I find it hard to get past the “Ganke Lee with a minor Peter antagonist’s name pasted on him” aspect of the character. Honestly? I might rework Ned’s role to go full villain, skipping directly to the Hobgoblin with the shadow of the Green Goblin and the Kingpin behind him. That would solve my problem of wanting to give Batalon massive amounts of screen time and a big role but absolutely detesting the reworking of Ned Leed’s into the best friend sidekick position. I would say I’d want Ned to then have a romantic subplot with a young Richard Fisk, who would be here for some reason (it’s not like it’s the worst continuity crime the MCU would have ever committed) but I don’t want yet another Disney’s first ever gay character spotlight moment to be given to the villains, so. It would take some finangling. Maybe I would reinvent Aunt May’s one time fiance Nathan Lubensky as a woman so we’d have some nice balance.
And we defend not one single bank within the movie.
Alternatively, I go mad with the power and reveal that this entire cast is made up of clones created by the Jackal, thus explaining all the Ben Reilly-inspired costumes, and subject everyone to my five movie Clone Saga adaptation dreams.
What I would really want to do given full creative control and being told I could wipe the slate clean and restart Spider-Man within the MCU, no questions asked, would be to have Peter as a retired superhero who was active underground years and years before Iron Man or the Avengers were ever on the scene, and have his daughter Mayday be the young teenage Spider-Man of the MCU, someone fresh and new who carries her father’s legacy while living in a world saturated by the Avengers legacy.
Or I’d just kill Peter and bring in a great team to do a Miles movie. I maybe think about this theoretical where I can get my claws into things a lot.
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I Hate Peonies
Hi guys here's one-shot nobody asked for. I kinda of got inspired after reading about hanahaki. I'm not sure if I should do the rest of Revance or other characters from love365 or not, due to the fact that I'm not very confident in this story. Also sorry for any spelling mistakes I tried very hard to edit this to the best of my ability. (aka with whatever brains cells are left since I decided to write this at 2:45 am and it is now 4:12 am)
~I hope you enjoy this story! ~
It was 1:30 pm and things still hadn't gone as planned. The set wasn't even put together properly due to the fact that the director was having another one of his shit fits again. No one ever understood him. I barely understood him. He was rambling on and on about how it's everyone's fault the second lead actor quit right when filming was about to start. He pointed fingers at everyone including the people who just bring food on the set and leave.
He never pointed his finger at me though. Me and him know dam well it was my fault they left. Though, I guess you could say that I had my reasons for making him leave. The director understood that and wasn't mad at me peruse. He was just frustrated due to the fact that the new actor that was assigned the role was a singer. My director's motto is 'Actors are actors. Singers are singers. There's no in between.'
The new actor is apparently a really prestigious actor and that's why they assigned him this role. I'm not even sure who the new actor is. Then again I was shipped to LA from Korea so how would I know? I barely have time for movies or tv shows. But whatever I guess. I'll just have to see for myself whether he really is prestigious. Until, then I should probably get the director to calm down.
An hour has passed and I got the director to stop yelling. The set is now ready for filming along with the rest of the filming crew. Now we are just waiting on him. I finally got around to asking the director what his name was. He told me it was Kota Igarashi and the he was part of a group called Revance.
I remember hearing the band's name before but I never listened to them due to the fact that I was never into boy groups. After that we heard a little commotion outside. Looks like Mr. Igarashi is here. While we wait for him to finally get in the building I go to the food station and grab a coffee that I needed 3 hours ago. It was right then my life turned to complete and absolute shit.
I turned around and there he was. It felt like I got the wind knocked out of me. My throat felt as it were being blocked and I felt the need to throw up whatever was there. I ran to the bathroom scared that I had drink rotten coffee but I soon realized it wasn't the coffee. I threw up flower petals. Peony petals to be exact. The petals that cascaded out of my mouth were beautiful pinks.
I had no idea what was going on but I'd soon realise that it was Hanahaki. Why'd it have to be him? Why couldn't it have been someone I knew or at least had a chance with? Those were the questions running through my head everytime we filmed together. It wouldn't be long before I couldn't control the coughs I'd held back.
Soon me and Kota became friends but that wasn't enough. In fact, it made everything worse. I think what sent me over the edge is when he introduced me to his girlfriend at the party the crew had to celebrate us finally being done with filming. She was beautiful. She was perfect for him. They looked so great together. That's when I backed off completely. I couldn't ruin such a beautiful thing they had.
That night blood started to stain the once beautiful pink petals. My breathing got worse and the petals were more consistent. I knew there was surgery for this but I just couldn't bring it in me to remove these feelings that were killing me. It was the last night of our movie promotions. We had another party to celebrate it being successful. Kota and his now fiance were there.
Everyone looked so happy. I just couldn't bring myself to be happy with them. My chest ached and my breathing started getting ragged. I walked out to the balcony so that no one would notice the blood stained petals that started pouring out of my mouth. Along with the tears that were running down my cheeks. Kota noticed and he kept asking me what was wrong. I just threw my arms around him and pulled him into a hug.
So this was it. This was the night I'd breathe my last breath. The last time I'd touch him. His warmth would be the last thing I'd feel. His moonlit face would be the last thing I'd see. He scent would be the last thing I smelt. His voice calling for help would be that last thing I hear.
I was okay with that. As long as I was in his arms. I just couldn't stop loving you..... Kota Igarashi. That was my last thought before everything went black.
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The next post by Torkom Saraydarian presents invaluable relation strategies on how men can make more effective rapport with ladies. Right here also, laughter is an important aspect of the remedy. In Torkom’s phrases “If the couple participates in pleasurable routines and plays many games with each other, they fuse their hearts, and their difficulties are less complicated to resolve.” Nearly all of our social challenges, upheavals and troubles originate from unhappy relationships concerning men and women.
The ancient mystery schools stipulated that a guy couldn't be a instructor until he held the keys to all the doors on the female psyche. This was a indicator of enhanced sensitivity and mastery of himself. In finding out to comprehend female, man gets full. Woman, by contrast, is often total if she hasn't abused herself by attempting to be like a man.
Males have got to find out about the nature from the “locks” in a lady and regarding the good primary to make use of for each. Whenever a guy makes use of the wrong vital not just does he injury the lock within the woman, but he also brings upon himself added difficulty for the reason that later on he will must devote more labor and energy to open that damaged lock. However, if a guy can utilize the appropriate keys to a woman’s locks, he releases a great stream of healing energies from her. It will be a launched girl who brings the highest-level children towards the world, being a response towards the one who understood her.
Several males became superb because they have been married to gals who helped them reach that greatness. Their wives stood behind them, encouraged them, sacrificed and labored to carry out the most beneficial in them. They became true men. This kind of males have said, “Without my wife, I could not have done what I did.” Conversely, if a guy loses the respect of his wife because of his personal lack of virtue and striving, he also loses strength physically, emotionally, and mentally. Whenever a man is deprived like this, his enterprise gets worse, his social relationships endure, and he acts like a youngster with his temper, tirades, and nasty deeds. Then his wife rejects him even more because she does not require an alternative little one to care for.
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Woman has the ability to bring out the perfect that is in man. She evokes from guy the most effective that he's. Men will have to be grateful to girls who do this.
Woman is a challenger. Often if a guy tends to make a choice to carry out a thing and then will not do it, she shows him in some way that she thinks he's weak. She could even depart him. Then the man may well use the psychology of blaming her and say, “She needed me to try and do it, and when I did not, she left.” He forgets that he made a decision, a guarantee. When he didn't adhere to his determination or hold his guarantee, she noticed in him an inferior guy, and she did not want an inferior man. If a man can make a promise he have got to maintain it; otherwise, he shouldn't promise. A lady needs a man who keeps his word. … A man really should worth his wife as the highest factor in his lifestyle - increased than his enterprise or other interests. A man’s wife is his honor plus the source of his joy, inspiration, vitality, foods, and wellness. She could be the mom of his kids. A man will need to sacrifice for her. Each time he's with her, he will have to forget all his outside interests and give her his total awareness.
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Lady has safety when her room is just not restricted.
Vision in her man expands her space; lack of vision in her guy limits her space. Lady requirements the sense of space she gets from man: bodily space while in the kind of prosperity, income, furnishings, and home; emotional and mental space from a husband who actually is aware of and understands points; spiritual room allows a lady to create her prospective so far as potential. As significantly room as being a guy offers to his wife, so much does she develop and maximize in attractiveness, goodness, and wisdom.
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A woman adores a guy that has a sense of duty, who will take care of her and the children and concerns himself with their well being and welfare. For instance, if among the youngsters requirements his teeth worked on and also the husband says to his wife, “You handle it; I'm hectic,” he's not displaying accountability. If his wife is worrying or if she is sick, the man have got to not ignore it. He have to get care of it. When the female knows that her husband is caring for her with real concern, she will get worried much less and be more healthy.
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The next post by Torkom Saraydarian supplies invaluable relation hints on how men can construct far better rapport with ladies. Here too, laughter is a crucial element on the solution. In Torkom’s words “If the couple participates in entertaining pursuits and plays a variety of video games together, they fuse their hearts, and their challenges are less difficult to resolve.” Nearly all of our social troubles, upheavals and troubles originate from unhappy relationships concerning women and men.
The ancient mystery schools stipulated that a man could not be a teacher until eventually he held the keys to all of the doors on the female psyche. This was a indicator of enhanced sensitivity and mastery of himself. In mastering to know lady, man turns into full. Woman, by contrast, is usually finish if she hasn't abused herself by looking to be like a man.
Men have to find out about the nature on the “locks” in a female and in regards to the correct vital to utilize for every. When a guy uses the wrong key not simply does he injury the lock from the girl, but he also brings upon himself extra issues for the reason that in the future he will have to devote added labor and power to open that damaged lock. However, if a man can use the suitable keys to a woman’s locks, he releases a good stream of healing energies from her. It is a released girl who brings the highest-level young children towards the planet, being a response for the one particular who understood her.
Lots of men grew to become wonderful mainly because they had been married to girls who helped them gain that greatness. Their wives stood behind them, encouraged them, sacrificed and labored to deliver out the ideal in them. They became actual men. Such males have mentioned, “Without my wife, I couldn't have done what I did.” Conversely, if a man loses the respect of his wife due to his very own lack of virtue and striving, he also loses power physically, emotionally, and mentally. Whenever a man is deprived like this, his business enterprise gets worse, his social relationships suffer, and he acts like a little one with his temper, tirades, and nasty deeds. Then his wife rejects him all the more for the reason that she won't will need one other child to care for.
Most guys like a woman that is either similar to their mom or simply the opposite of their mom. This really is an automatic or mechanical response. Both they need a lady who loves and kisses them and reminds them with the complete, unconditional take pleasure in their mothers gave them, or, if they hated their mom, they want somebody that is just the opposite of her, who in no way resembles something about her.
If a guy marries a woman who's similar to his mom, he falls in to the danger of playing the child’s function. She turns into his mother, and he obeys her to your final degree. This kind of a man feels unfulfilled if his wife will not act like his mom. This can be destructive on the marriage considering that the wife, seeing that her husband just isn't expanding, could produce resistance and resentment towards raising a youngster when she had imagined she married a guy. That wife will commence engaging in numerous matters to make her husband stand on his personal feet. She will develop a lot of conditions and difficulties for her husband until eventually he stands up and acts like a guy.
A lady is known as a man’s biggest asset on this planet when the partnership is right. A woman will motivate her husband, she will sacrifice herself for him, and with the most crucial occasions within a man’s existence, she will likely be the one particular to reach out, grasp his hand and pull him up. She will give him spiritual energy and every thing that he wants. For these factors a man must master to know ladies and the way to relate to them superbly.
Woman has the capability to deliver out the best that is in man. She evokes from man the most effective that he's. Guys should be grateful to ladies who do this.
Woman is often a challenger. Often if a man makes a choice to accomplish some thing after which will not get it done, she exhibits him in some way that she thinks he's weak. She may perhaps even leave him. Then the man may possibly utilize the psychology of blaming her and say, “She wished me to accomplish it, and when I didn't, she left.” He forgets that he manufactured a decision, a guarantee. When he did not adhere to his determination or retain his guarantee, she noticed in him an inferior man, and she didn't have to have an inferior man. If a guy tends to make a promise he will have to hold it; otherwise, he shouldn't guarantee. A woman needs a guy who keeps his word. … A guy need to worth his wife since the highest matter in his lifestyle - increased than his small business or other interests. A man’s wife is his honor as well as supply of his joy, inspiration, power, foods, and wellbeing. She is the mom of his children. A guy must sacrifice for her. When he's with her, he need to neglect all his outdoors interests and give her his full consideration.
A woman wants her husband to become kingly; she would like to discover him as noble, amazing, and victorious. If a guy has dignity and inner well worth, a woman will respect him. A lady desires her husband for being suitable in all his strategies, decisions, and actions because he's her pride. If she sees he is certainly valueless, it turns into nearly like suicide for her for the reason that her dream and pride are gone. … A actual man is known as a man who provides safety for his wife on all levels: bodily, emotional, mental, moral, and spiritual. To supply moral security means that the guy should not act within a way that produces even suspicion inside the thoughts of his wife. Suspicious phone calls, suspicious letters, appointments, and interviews all throw a lady off stability. She feels that she is dropping her security. It can be crucial for a woman to possess security on all amounts.
A woman has spiritual safety when she feels that her husband or her fiance features a superb vision towards which he is striving. A man striving to attain an incredible purpose is a incredible supply of protection for any woman. She cannot be her ideal self without the need of that vision. When she sees that her highest vision is manifested in her guy by his striving, then she feels secure.
Girl has security when her space is just not restricted.
Vision in her guy expands her space; lack of vision in her guy limits her room. Female wants the sense of space she will get from man: bodily room while in the sort of prosperity, revenue, furniture, and property; emotional and mental area from a husband who really is aware of and understands elements; spiritual room will allow a lady to produce her likely so far as doable. As substantially area as being a guy offers to his wife, a lot does she develop and expand in beauty, goodness, and wisdom.
A authentic man evokes a spirit of striving from his wife or girlfriend. One example is, if she is going to college, he will challenge her to proceed her schooling and earn a doctorate. If she is painting, he'll challenge her to produce additional and do much better. Anything at all that she by now has must be produced even further being a outcome within the encouragement and inspiration from the man. Gals have to continually develop and broaden their capabilities, or else they grow to be unfavorable. If a guy doesn't want to be married to a nagging, vicious female, then he must continually inspire and inspire her to produce her abilities and skills. And the girl will be delighted that her husband or boyfriend is really a source of courage and inspiration.
When a man presents a vision or even a target to his wife or girlfriend, it ought to not be offered as an buy. Its a aim. The man must have an understanding of what the girl currently needs to function toward ahead of he presents his vision. Then prior to he states any target, he ought to be a hundred percent absolutely sure the Woman will just like the aim. He must understand what her thoughts and her dreams are, put them into a sensible format of goals to achieve, and after that verbalize the objectives as a little something the two of them can acquire together.
Whenever a vision is presented by a man on this method, the lady will put all her efforts into reaching it. Becoming presented with targets that she loves, the woman will probably be polarized towards those aims and will orient her total sense of economic system towards fulfilling them. She will not waste funds. She is not going to waste time. She will come to be extra organized and effective. She will probably be up-to-date because of the vision.
With the vision and aim, the guy brings the woman’s inner urges, drives, and dreams into aim verbalization. That is how males turn out to be close to their ladies. … If a guy makes a right choice, his wife will carry it out promptly. A actual guy tends to make best selections, and his wife loves it. Girls hate wrong choices and being forced to adhere to falseness. When a man says to his wife, “The political condition is going to go like this, I let you know,” and then he is proved incorrect, his wife feels he will not have his information and facts straight and so will not possess the correct to generate political decisions. Gals usually do not like men who just talk from their egos to seem vital.
If a lady feels that a man is employing his funds, his place, his career, or his practical knowledge to suppress or humiliate her, she will dislike all that he has and it is. The exact same point is genuine for a guy if a lady tries to impress her superiority on him. If, for instance, a lady says to a guy, “You are only producing $10,000 a year, but I'm creating $80,000,” that man will feel humiliated and angry.
A lady adores a guy who has a sense of obligation, who takes care of her plus the children and worries himself with their overall health and welfare. As an example, if one among the small children demands his teeth worked on plus the husband says to his wife, “You deal with it; I'm hectic,” he is not showing obligation. If his wife is worrying or if she is sick, the man have to not disregard it. He must get care of it. When the woman is aware of that her husband is caring for her with genuine concern, she will stress significantly less and be healthier.
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